chestnut, yes, no (senior) one want to discuss that , but as the children, wish to know what they want to do while they still have clear mind. or else, everything will be just guessing and guessing.
my dad did not write up any will, but did mentioned he did not want this and that, so as least we know what to do when he passed away. but for my mom.... the funeral arrangement is a "dead topic". i need to be the bad guy to bring it up.....mouth:
bm - totally agree with what you said "我最讚成厚養薄葬, 都兩腳一伸幾風光都無用". those ceremony is just for the alive to see and attend, how much the deceased will get it.
so 2 more days, my mom will be here to visit me.. then will do my best to show her around.
yes, now torn between two families.... 99 is back to hospital again, as fever to 102 and due to diabetics, she starts to have rotten feet. 66 wants to go back to HK ASAP to see the status, but mom iscoming this sat... haaaaaaa. trouble