我明白你既擔心，但你個工人問題係有d要同你鬥，同你鬥邊個湊得好，呢d心理好有問題，對你對b更大影響，小朋友唔識，就無形中增加佢地之間既鬥爭，你估佢地唔知咩，細孖知佢錫，就覺得得戚，大孖知佢唔錫，覺得被忽視，呢d係好自然既反應，對兩個小朋友都唔好，點解我諗咁多，就係因為我工人都係(特別係個哨牙婆)，以前錫晒個大，上落經過見到兩個b都淨係撩個大玩，當個細透明(係真係透明喎，眼尾都唔望)，照顧又係淨係顧住個大，我越睇越嬲，話左佢地一次，講明唔理佢地個心係點，但響小朋友面前，要玩就兩個一齊玩，一係就唔好玩，有左改善。但其實我大孖已經知自己得寵，雖然我唔會淨係顧住個大，就係可能係咁，我個大覺得我唔同其他人，痴得我好緊要，我覺得係有d醋意，要將我錫細佬個d都爭埋，有時細佬沖完涼，我同大孖玩緊，大孖一見細孖返黎，就將自己d玩具放埋自己度，然後即刻攬到我實，細佬痴埋黎就潑開佢。有時係食緊生果，明明大孖慢慢食，但一見細孖返黎就不斷指住d生果叫，叫我快d比佢，唔好比細佬(其實有兩碗嘛)。我個心好唔舒服，兩個都係仔，唔想佢地爭，但有d野發生左改變唔到，我覺得係工人只係錫住一個做成既，對佢地心理好大影響，我自己覺得工人錫孖b係重要，但個人本質係點，心理係咪一個正路既人比湊得好唔好更重要，佢日日對住孖b，係最直接影響佢地，教得佢地心地唔好或者有左d歪理我諗你都唔想，所以你自己留意佢係咪真係咁，你自己最清楚嘛。所以我唔再比個家姐湊bb，反而個妹心理平衡d，家姐唔錫細孖到出面，嬲 c 我，我就會等新工人黎叫佢放多d時間比孖b，等兩個唔同既人湊佢地，唔會淨係跟一個工人。
lolo, what you said are exactly my worries! So even if she gets to stay until she finishes her contract next year, I will definitely not renew her. Will put her on observation for the next couple of month. We will point out her fault to see if it makes a difference.
I would rather get someone who is fair to both! As you know, noone will love our boys as their mother does! :-( :-(
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