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各位媽咪,
你哋有冇經驗/聽過/見過有媽咪放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工ga? 我又唔係等錢養家, 雖然事業同經濟獨立對我都重要, 但一諗起要留個囡比工人湊, 個心就un住un住.... 始終成年幾無工作喇! 一直只係全心全意湊個囡, 依家突然要改變真係有d難過! :cry: 我monday就要做最後決定, 大家可唔可以分享吓你哋的睇法?! thanks!!

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I work in Kwon Tong and already over 14 years.
this is my frist job.
When my daughter born...
I assume i really ok can takecare both of them.
But i found is difference as i think....

I compare with hei hei (myson) and Kei kei,
I spend the time for hei is more then kei kei.
i also off on time (beccuae my boss let me back home finish the job, in hk office not so much ppl, but have a office in china) 6.00 already arrive home la.

due to my child early sleep (not later then 9.00) back home back the home work of hei hei, then reading the book, and then dinner , and then play for while, then 9.00 la....... then after 9.00, that is my time~~~~~~

"personal time" already go away when kei kei come
(But i love bb girl)

Jamesmama 寫道:
heiheikeikei,

Yes I am agree no personal time if have child. But the child is our life investment. If you are not pay more time and you will get a less or nothing. What kind of job you are doing. Are you need travel frequenty?

I changed my job a 4 years before, because I want to spend a lot of time to James. Now, I am Bank receptionist and off on time. How about you?

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Tracycck~
My boss is good. he jsut let me have day trip and take the "直通車" to GuanngZhou. No need stay over night. The is back up office, all the job was done by HK and GZ office at the same time (We all use network to commicate) Due to that office just set up not so long time, all the colleague not over 1 years, so we will busy on the starting...

I manage so many things. Due to my company not so large, I can do so many post as my boss teach me law.
I work this company as they just only one ppl, now 3 office total over 20 ppl law.

Sometime, i really is easy angry at home due to job busy.
Hei hei is a good boy then keikei, but i know when i busy , i will easy to make angry when hei hei do somethings wrong. that maybe is have job mami problem, did u feel that??

tracycck 寫道:
heiheikeikei,

even i only have 1 child now, i also feel I'm not myself (i pay full attention to her, now is getting better! but same as you, I'm also very happy when i see her happy to grow up.

seem your work is quite busy and need to travel to China. how you manage it? before I need to travel to China for a few days a week when I'm pregnant. After sometime I quit my job until now. now i'm thinking to go back to my working life or keep taking care my child, so difficult to make the decision... ?-(

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i didn't 放棄工作
1) boss is very good, he let me can home office when my child have any problem.(he really do that for me this 5 years, super kindly boss, that why i also will wrok for him in mid night)
2) I don't like ask husband to get the moeny. (Because he have his business, once the bussiness not good, will have black face..I think)
3) I 'm afriad i to be a 住家婆, 然後與社會蛻節,當老公回家,日漸無法與他溝通
my hunband also advise me stay at home takecare child.
but i reject, i have grantee him, i must also will takecare child, check the time table with the maid, and also takecare the home work....
Finially he agree law.
**I will feel get your husband agree is important. once any problem, both of yours can support each other..But mami will very tierd law...(都己大代o架)

tracycck 寫道:
各位媽咪,
你哋有冇經驗/聽過/見過有媽咪放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工ga? 我又唔係等錢養家, 雖然事業同經濟獨立對我都重要, 但一諗起要留個囡比工人湊, 個心就un住un住.... 始終成年幾無工作喇! 一直只係全心全意湊個囡, 依家突然要改變真係有d難過! :cry: 我monday就要做最後決定, 大家可唔可以分享吓你哋的睇法?! thanks!!

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Re: 九龍塘媽媽會 - Part II

Jamesmama~~
where did you buy the english 乘數表??
becuase chinese one hei hei already finsih, i also want him study that in english
Thanks

Jamesmama 寫道:
James 開始背乘數表啦, 先用英文背2 同 5. 其實James仔已可以由1背到9嫁啦. 他最愛數學. K3 已開始問我地, Daddy 就叫 James 背囉.

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妳地而家咁多英文，跟唔哂呀，好難交流！

tracycck

而家要決定果份工好好咩？

點解唔等到囡囡返學先呢？！

我幾十年都係全職mami ，唔敢俾意見！

netee 係律師，佢要選擇做全職媽媽，我唔會反對！(因可以遲d做)

netma 想做fulltime mama，但好難下此決定，驚返唔到轉頭！

所以我要儘量協助令佢可以安心工作！ :mrgreen:

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其實係咪做黃面婆都係由自己決定既o者！

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tracycck,

I personally feel HK Preschool is v. good. They call the 2 yrs old curriculum as "playgroup". You may choose English/Cantonese curriculum or English/Putonghua. The teachers are native speaker and Jovita is very happy each time after she is back from school. They have reading scheme to encourage students to read books. They will distribute story book on every Friday and read with the kids next Friday. Actually, you may try their "toddler playgroup" which Jovita joined before. It's a playgroup for 1.5-2 yrs and held on Tuesday and Thursday, from 10:30(?)am-12pm. Baby must be accompanied by adults. no need to wear uniform; about $1,500 a month. I can tell you more when we meet next time.

EFM

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看完你們討論,本來已感觸就更加感觸.事緣上星期看到一道新聞(你可能留意到）,介紹一家,有兩公婆,4(5?)子女,1工人. mami係fulltime mami,爸爸係工程師,月薪$40,000,一家住700呎單位.因為mami係fulltime, 所以4個子女無論教養學業都一流.看後就反問自己是否應該知足,quit 左份工,用心教對子女.因為遲d距地唔會聼我教,錯過就冇得返轉頭.

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heiheikeikei

James learn chinese 乘數表 first and the school teach him a english 乘數表. I don't buy enligh 乘數表 to James. But this is very easy.

2 and 1 is 2
2 and 2 are 4
2 and 3 are 6.....

[管教]必須建立在母子間信任,關懷, 溫柔的基礎上, 至能達到良好的效果. 親情的溫暖比嚴格的管教更為重要.

"在人生道路上面對種種不同的困境時, 最困難不是要面對那個問題, 而是堅持一個信念: 向前看. 就算問題有多複雜都好, 只要你肯正面地面對, 一定可以克服. 當事情過去後, 回望整件事都是不外如是........................"

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各位媽咪，
我女女７個月大，１７磅度啦∼
依家開始識坐，仲未識爬∼
係呀∼我女女真係好似男仔ｒ∼ｈｅｈｅ！
各位媽咪ｂｂ幾時識坐識爬ｇａ？

浦浦既小寶貝，子靈女女，於８月２２日ＱＥ出世∼ :-D

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ple614

welcome you join our kowloon tong family. Come to chat once you have a time.

babytang

I am not really good to teach James. My hubby is really good and I am very appreciate him.Our relationship is buid up very well. I will talk to James anything about me. Even my work, BK topics or my study at school. He likes this method. He are willing to talk to me too.

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我有一個朋友都有呢個掙紮：

佢係高級公務員，小朋友上小學又好反叛，她想辭職當fulltimemama，跟我商量。

我問她：如果妳辭去工作，會否覺得自己犧牲很大，而對小朋友要求更高？

有好多事過左，係追唔返ge，但決定係無絕對(對 or 錯)！

每個家庭都唔同！

:mrgreen:

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