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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 09-12-31 09:51 發表
甘我記得我個女同學有個姐姐, 差吾多應該夠2年, 依家un緊，　好乖，　屋企有3個細路, 太太又係屋企既, 佢話, 呢個姐姐出年8月先完約(比太太昆左避levy 簽多兩年underpaid), 但好似佢吾想再做, 想返鄉下結婚, 我叫佢開學時, 幫你問下, 佢還想吾想搵返正常人工既工................

8月至完約? 太耐喇, 我諗唔駛叫你個女問喇. 另一間agent幫我搵到1個印印, 都幾合我心水, 可能會簽呢個都唔定.

真係多謝你咁熱心.

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原帖由 yyyyyy 於 09-12-31 16:21 發表
我又係咁同c6 講, 佢都想但無乜可能 (兩家族也無遺傳), 起碼唔駛痛2次.
我有3 pair 朋友係 twins, 望見佢地時覺得好奇妙!
多1個係會分簿左少少愛, 但佢地有 '盤' 一齊玩, 好開心架! 維尼媽+ 爸, 努力,加油:lol ...

而家有好多人都生孖, 但家族都無人係孖嘅, 話唔定維尼媽下一次就生對龍鳳都唔定.

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原帖由 bb鼠 於 09-12-31 22:16 發表
e....咁我算係好果個...我加左60蚊1個月咁大巴

好過無.

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重左2.5Kg, 有時朝早磅重左2Kg 咋

可能細食左 (每餐只食到5,6成飽就食唔到)
依家開始會每日飲多杯奶 (之前一日一杯) 不過都叫自己唔好太緊張體重, 你呢?

原帖由 bb鼠 於 10-1-2 02:50 發表
polamama,
我想問你有無重到呢?

可唔可以喺相簿加相落個人簽名度？

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提早開佢年

原帖由 sweetcouple 於 10-1-2 11:10 發表
晨早流流, 調馬之時, 我家菲馬居然膽敢同我駁咀.......(正宗未C過啦佢, 佢一定唔記得左我做C9之前做邊行)

詳情費事慢慢寫......不過一句講晒, 呢D所謂高學歷馬匹, 始終唔易馴服...... ...

可唔可以喺相簿加相落個人簽名度？

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wow......甜姐....願聞其詳......

等你大作.....

原帖由 sweetcouple 於 10-1-2 11:10 發表
晨早流流, 調馬之時, 我家菲馬居然膽敢同我駁咀.......(正宗未C過啦佢, 佢一定唔記得左我做C9之前做邊行)

詳情費事慢慢寫......不過一句講晒, 呢D所謂高學歷馬匹, 始終唔易馴服...... ...

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oh my 西姐姐 !!!

由於醫生話我有血壓高同bb偏大......佢幫我book 左星期一入院催生啦.....希望一切順利啦....

至於我的新馬....在此再post 多次:

My new horse has just arrived for 2 weeks....at this moment I can't tell whether she is good or not.....since I hire her mainly for house cleaning and take care of my new born baby.

Yet my new born is not yet born...

While in the aspect of cleaning, I can tell she is industrious, but lack the sense of cleaningness... e.g. put the towel for toys and floor together.... use the basin for washing floor to wash other things......use the towel for toys to clean the BB stroller's wheel....

原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-12-31 23:20 發表

oh my DD!!!!!

How are you doing？ Going to give birth soon?

Pls describe your new horse here!

Thanks for your continuous support!!!

Happy New Year to you!

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原帖由 deerdeer 於 10-1-2 14:55 發表
oh my 西姐姐 !!!

由於醫生話我有血壓高同bb偏大......佢幫我book 左星期一入院催生啦.....希望一切順利啦....

至於我的新馬....在此再post 多次:

My new horse has just arrived for 2 weeks....at this moment ...

oh my DD (every time when you appear in this forum I'm so excited to see you again!)

I wish you everything goes smoothly, no matter in child birth and new horse training.

Your new horse seems need intensive training. but if you say she's industrious, it seems she's got potential to be trained. Good luck!!

I will pray for you!! God bless you and the baby!

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西姐姐,

星期六都上來馬評咁努力, 抵你發達.....

我現在心情有D緊張, 畢竟2日後BB就出世啦.....至於個工人....見到既我一定會提佢...不過好多時我自己都攰到C....(BB頂住我令我呼吸困難, 再加上血壓高...) 我唔想爆血管....好多野都等生左至算.......

原帖由 saiwanho 於 10-1-2 16:16 發表

oh my DD (every time when you appear in this forum I'm so excited to see you again!)

I wish you everything goes smoothly, no matter in child birth and new horse training.

Your new horse seems ne ...

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原帖由 deerdeer 於 10-1-2 17:39 發表
西姐姐,

星期六都上來馬評咁努力, 抵你發達.....

我現在心情有D緊張, 畢竟2日後BB就出世啦.....至於個工人....見到既我一定會提佢...不過好多時我自己都攰到C....(BB頂住我令我呼吸困難, 再加上血壓高...) 我唔想 ...

my dearest dd:

U are my VIP and of course I have to answer your posts promptly!

please relax and rest well at this moment. You should save the energy for your new baby. Don't rush to come back here. We will wait for your recovery.

Good luck and all the best, success and good health to you and your little BB.

Saiwanho

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原帖由 deerdeer 於 10-1-2 17:39 發表
西姐姐,

星期六都上來馬評咁努力, 抵你發達.....

我現在心情有D緊張, 畢竟2日後BB就出世啦.....至於個工人....見到既我一定會提佢...不過好多時我自己都攰到C....(BB頂住我令我呼吸困難, 再加上血壓高...) 我唔想 ...

DD,BB要緊,得嫺温習一下分娩呼吸法…ha..ha..hoo...(妳催生都是自己生的嗎!),不過好似話臨近生時唔好練。練馬的エ作輕輕鬆鬆便算,不要過份緊張,反正你的新馬算是不差。預祝妳順順利利,生个肥肥白白可愛小寶貝!!!

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原帖由 sweetcouple 於 10-1-2 11:10 發表
晨早流流, 調馬之時, 我家菲馬居然膽敢同我駁咀.......(正宗未C過啦佢, 佢一定唔記得左我做C9之前做邊行)

詳情費事慢慢寫......不過一句講晒, 呢D所謂高學歷馬匹, 始終唔易馴服...... ...

高學歴跟低學歴,其實都分別不大。菲國的所謂中學畢業,亦要加多至少两年正規學習,オ被認可為等同“艱難大”的中學程度。你話丫!!

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祝你生個健康bb,母嬰平安!

原帖由 deerdeer 於 10-1-2 14:55 發表
oh my 西姐姐 !!!

由於醫生話我有血壓高同bb偏大......佢幫我book 左星期一入院催生啦.....希望一切順利啦....

至於我的新馬....在此再post 多次:

My new horse has just arrived for 2 weeks....at this moment ...

可唔可以喺相簿加相落個人簽名度？

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Help! 好長好慶！
超火滾！有冇sis.可提供再有效的方法是令＜老狒狒＞不能再反口再三更改her last day of her employment？

話說隻死＜老狒狒＞經常自把自為, 包括: 1)逢放假最早11:30p.m.返到,試過幾次遲過2:30a.m.先返,次次都借関心為名,保險唔包,最後要出動話報警驚佢有意外發生(次次都話唔怕,唔會有事:;pppp: )兼話管理署有tape record証明她起碼半夜返有理由通知入境署做兼職才改至現在11:30p.m.返到;
2)不問自取食物,如:芒果糯米飯(my favour專登包回自用,她取出問係乜嘢嚟,已答for me only)照食,超庆叫佢賠喇,應承咗問極都話下次;
3)無論鍊奶,尤其高鈣低脂奶1litre,自己一個一日飲哂跟住例牌話唔係佢一個飲哂,嬲到要佢買番,又懶委屈又懶高傲應承買番,結果問到家下都唔買;試過佢出糧日同佢一斉到百佳要佢買番,又話下個月先現冇錢,我話你無錢就唔好食同飲未批准你嘅嘢,佢話HK僱主係有責任包佢喎,因每月應有HK$300Food allowance俾佢地啲,依家都未夠數。我話:好吖！HK$300Food allowance我俾咗,妳就一啖食物都唔可以食我們啲,包括每日早午晚三餐食物連湯在內。她聽完agrue一輪打去有関部門及同朋友講一輪跟住無聲出；
4)俾我發現用買餸錢買生果收埋自己一個人食,e.g.成抽5-6隻香焦,8个庒萍果,一包包的龍眼荔枝等,我首先扮唔明佢講嘢要佢用筆寫低解釋啲買餸錢點解唔啱數,係咪佢俾街市啲人呃,若果係要報警;佢驚起上嚟話唔係,係佢買俾自己食,仲理直氣壯咁話:要每天食生果維持身体健康喎！我話,依家無人阻止你維持身体健康吖，但係個重點係妳用我啲錢嚟買就要我批准,每次都要blace & white 問咗先,if not,我當唔啱數要賠
5)叫佢每月洗窗帘,佢就成年先洗3次,仲要發火才(黑面)洗
6)每天最早8:45a.m.起身,試過幾乎10:00a.m.先起。起身刷牙洗面冇半粒鈡唔出,即9點3至9點半先正識開工,到11:00a.m.施施然落街買報紙,上來un un 脚嘆6-9个字早餐,12:00-1:00noon,入自己房要叫先出,要佢在厨房standby,她說一样啫,話極都唔聽,好！試過得閒,專登分多次叫她出來,不過唔係成日得閒玩佢啫;
7)經常要ask stay out, e.g. X,mas eve, New year's Eve, or some her sis party etc., 唔俾,照去！番嚟就乖一排,想告佢,問過Immi. 話,最衰擧証難;
8)最嚴重係今次事緣因12月初某星期五約6:10p.m.打电話回家無人聽,打佢手机: 我問:Where're you right now? 她答:Down stair, buying 南北杏. 我問:Why are you down stair to buy this as it's not urgent to buy, you knew no need to prepare dinner tonight, and you can wait until next time when you
need to buy food together? 她還狡辯: 無哂喇嘛。
我便說：You cannot down stair without any my approval before as it's not necessary and so urgent this time! 她竟然答: 好悶吖嗎。我話: 吓！好悶？ You can wash the curtains, tidy up all clothes which inside the drawers or cabinets, so many work you need to do ! 她還答： Why u always ask me non-stop to work and work, even so mean not allow her down stair for relaxing ! 我費事同佢係电話argue, 跟住便同佢講: Now, you go to
the market to buy patato, tomato, meat as soup only, you're required to prepare it before 8

o a.m. tomorrow early morning and I will take it out!
其實嗰晚係(媽媽)守夜,返到屋企都成12點幾.;睇吓個真空煲有無湯,無！跟手打開雪柜看是否有買湯料,有！
當時還奢望隻死＜老狒狒＞會朝早早起身煲,即沖涼睡覺。到第朝早6:00a.m.,６個人輪住梳洗都嘈唔醒佢,6:30a.m.拍門問,Is the soup prepared or not?
拍成幾分鈡先不情愿答: not yet ! not yet boil ! You didn't ask me boil ! 我便火嚟: I told u to prepare the soup before 8:00 a.m. early morning and I need to take out now! 死八婆仍然係床隔住度門答: You only asking me prepare but not boil, so not yet boil now ! 我: So, what is meaning of take the soup out before 8

oa.m. early morning ? if there is not so urgent, then why I phoned you last evening to prepare ? Prepared means all included wash, boil and put the soup into the other themos cup for taken it outside everytime as usual before ! 這時已7:15a.m.她才施施然起床攞掃把係咁意扮嘢！個晚回來我當面再同她講: it's the last soup for my 媽媽, but now cannot chase up any more !
死八婆即答: I'm not serving your mother, so I'm not made any mistake at all. 我: The point is -you are not follow your employer's instruction very clearly in this case, and you got much enough
time to prepare at that time which I gave the instruction last night, but somehow, you have not
prepared. I wonder where are you last night, maybe you are not inside your designated employment working place. 她仍堅持prepared not the meaning of boiled, and it was not her responsibility to serve my mother! 我: No! I have stated you are required to serve my parents
which stated on our employment contract but u
got the advantage is: they're just only live with us
whenever they like.
之後，約1 星期後,我堅持要她將她洗咗掛咗大半天的衫褲,床單都要由廳轉掛入佢房,我話: you have no more grant from me any more ! 死老狒狒竟然用丫义好大力咁打落sofa 背度向住我講: 係人都要死,你媽都死咗,都係飲唔到湯喇！我: The point is : you should fully obey and follow your employer's reasonable instruction, but you didn't on purpose like that! Please shut up, keep quiet ! I don't want to argue
anymore ! 死八婆 crazy shouted to me: No ! Why I need shut up, I don't ! I have the right to speak ! 我: if you don't like, you can give me your resignation letter, I don't mind !
其實我在11月已暗中申請新嘅maid,在12月20日才收到Agent 通知visa已出，於是在23/12出one month Termination letter ,寫明one month notice from 23/12/09 and her last day will be on 22/01/2010, she also signed the asknowledge and confirmed the air-ticket depart day at once;
last 28/12,突然堅持要31/12/09 Thursday 即走;
我: Why so suddenly ? 佢: must quit on 31/12;
我: How come the air-ticket fee which I had paid?
I had confirmed with you about your depart day last day? Now, You are the one to ask shotten period for such termination day from 22/01/2010 to 31/12/2009, then you shoud pay
back the balance salary to me for these days. 佢堅持話我先係break the contract originally, so no need to pay back the balance, I said: u have well known when is your last day before, you can check. 我: now, you have to give me the black
& white to confirm about your last day, you are always be the one to change. So, We agreed the last day on 5/1/2010 and have her solid confirm.
On 31/12. 又開始玩嘢喇, she changed her mind which she wanted the last day should be on 22/01/2010. 我原本上次已通知agent叫新maid 在6/1/10來港,(佢當然唔知),佢問: when my maid will arrive H.K.? 我: Why are you always changed?
佢: Yes ! I have the right to ask change ! 我: Due to you are always changed your mind, so, you have to give me the written request now, otherwise how can we know whether we will mis-
understand our meaning is. Besides that, I got you solid comfirmation about yr air-ticket depart day and I paid already, so you are the one to pay back me since you are the one to change.
佢當然say No la! 咁我話今次你必須要black & white to confirm your last desicion which I have to buy the air-ticket again ! 佢夠胆死搏大霧 draft封Reference letter 出來話係confirm 我幾時係佢last day 喎. 我睇完就話,請你在信內寫幾時幾日簽收我封信,當時已即刻双方確定上机日期;跟住28/12,你又突然要在31/12/09走,當時又即刻確認上机日期;再跟住31/12/09又突然再改最後受僱日期;而今次是最後一次唔会再改。結果，當然係唔肯寫,仲話佢有權不斷改並且佢係唔使寫番俾我！ O Poor Demestic Helper labour law to HK Employers!
我現在想錄影,我知佢係處玩嘢,但佢最驚錄影,不過無Video cam, 电話錄短片又無聲(而且無人揸機),有乜對策！

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原帖由 LADYMAMALEI 於 10-1-3 17:47 發表
Help! 好長好慶！
超火滾！有冇sis.可提供再有效的方法是令＜老狒狒＞不能再反口再三更改her last day of her employment？

話說隻死＜老狒狒＞經常自把自為, 包括: 1)逢放假最早11:30p.m.返到,試過幾次遲過2:30a.m.先返,次次都 ...

so sorry to hear about all these chaos. U have really picked a good nickname for your old seafood horse.

I wonder is it possible to go with her to labor dept and get the officers as witness? But actually you've got her signature to acknowledge her receipt of the one-month notice letter with the last day specified, isn't that already a solid evidence that you don't need to care about what she said afterwards?

It seemed that you didn't stand firm enough therefore she had so many chances to answer back. Anyway, please keep us posted about the newest development of your story.

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-1-3 11:51 發表
高學歴跟低學歴,其實都分別不大。菲國的所謂中學畢業,亦要加多至少两年正規學習,オ被認可為等同“艱難大”的中學程度。你話丫!!

even their u-grads can't compare with our u-grads!

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