hi. I just finished reading your post. I didn't get to read responses from other jms but based on ur words I wanna ask if u r familiar with characteristics of sociopath. your husband fits the profile. not all sociopaths r serial killers... most of them r like ur husband. charming, charismatic, distance, cold blooded, manipulative, very good liar. ..etc. and you are his victim. I wouldn't say much here but I hope you can consider one thg. which is how to love yourself from now on. It's sthg u gotta learn. This kinda victims have a tendency to repeat the pass and its nobody's wishes to see you falling for someone similar or getting back together with him. remember they can almost always get what they wanted. this is their nature.
. and I want to suggest therapy. it will do you good^^ and if u r planning on divorcing him. do get a lawyer and talk abt alimony. you deserve every cent of it! good luck and god bless you.
Hi, really appreciate ur response, i would like to seek ur further advice on weather i , myself should seek counselling。 You have pointed out sth which is very true, I tend to fall in love with someone who treat me not as good, I m not sure its by chance or it is myself who had always chosen someone like my husband. I planned to end my marriage and I really do not want to meet another guy and repeat the sane nightmare. Really thanks!!