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發表於 07-9-3 21:17 |只看該作者

HI all,

Haven't been posting cuz of my back pain. Taking deeper breath is painful and I think I have pulled some muscles. And thanks for all your prayers. The pain has eased off a lot after 4 days. I didn't go the the Dr. because I don't want to take painkillers. And I remember last time, I had similar pain (not as worst) but still recovered after a while.

Simleynemo, BIG CONGRATS!!!!! It is great to hear some good news on the board. Take good care of yourself and I hope that your coming 9 mths be smooth and happy!

Venus, Very nice sharing. It encouraged me as well. I was a little down cuz everythings seems to sucks lately, and I missed 2 Sunday services. Has your M arrived? I am not sure if my in-law send the angus out yet, I will ask her.

Kelly, looking after a kid is so so tough esp. when he is more difficult than some of the others. Praying for you.

Lic9, you are like a sis (a real sis) always care about everyone.

TWims_mommy, thx for your sharing. You had been so much and now having a happy life with precious twims. Really happy for you.

Garlic, you are so brave and thx for your sharing and encouragement.

Grace, good that you are not as busy as b4, how's your hubby's test?

Sarahlin, How's your fever? Hope you have a quick recovery.

Yimyee, your hubby is so brave. I still remember the "dead fishy" taste of the the chinese medicine I had. Praying that his condition be improved very soon. And then you can proceed further to next treatment.

[ 本文章最後由 pigpiglau 於 07-9-3 21:21 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-9-3 22:36 |只看該作者

Hi All, thks for your prayer support! As you know, I really didn't want to widely share and often, I didn't know what to do. It's really nice to have all your support here!

I'm fine and don't have any uneasy feeling, except feeling hot more often than before and sometimes, my stomach 悶悶脹脹.

Lic9, how're you recently? Thks for your advice. Hope you and bb keep going well.

Kelly, sorry to hear about it. Yes, sometimes, it's not fair to be a mom than to a dad coz men rely women to do the baby sitting. But that's why being a mom is so important to the nurture of children. You're playing a BIG part in your son's future! Don't give up and sure your hubby will understand and help.

Yim Yee, my church located at Shatin also has English speaking service. Tell me if you have interest and hope you find a church soon.

Pigpiglau, how's your pain? I think you'd better visit a doctor soon.

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發表於 07-9-3 22:42 |只看該作者

pigpiglau

已收到你的貞節樹,我應該會於m後開始食,唔知啱唔啱呢?我的m已經來了,我7月2日做手術,9月2日來m,足足是兩個月。我回想過去一年的m,都是亂到9彩,身體完全不受控制,我都唔知以後的m會點樣,淨係希望準備來m,已經無信心了,莫講話做bb。

其實這一兩天突然覺得很累,已經三年了,做了很多,但都是很個吉,有些少想放棄的感覺,當然,路仍然要行,中醫、針灸和廣華,我都會繼續睇,但我自己就無乜信心了。我預計當行到ivf時,應該差不多是這條路的終點,因為我們人手可以做的,都去到盡頭了。

其實你知不知道是甚麼原因導致背脊痛呢?希望你快點痊癒。

sarah,

你還有幾多天可以check呢?放開一點,心情也會好過一點的。

galic,

聽你的分享,似乎你剛信主,希望主耶穌的愛可以安慰到你,因為無論其他人怎樣說,也難以撫平內心的不快。其實你的經歷我也看過,有時我們也不明白為何會有這些不快的經歷,亦很無奈,在這時候,回到主耶穌身體,其實不切都不用說了,因為祂明白我們的感受。多點上來和我們分享,彼此支持。

kelly,

跟你老公傾下,分享自己的感受,讓他明白你多一點。

各位:

今個星期的哈拿小組,不知還有誰人會到呢?有點期待。

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發表於 07-9-4 10:59 |只看該作者

Galic,

Hope you are finding peace in your heart. We kind of went through the same thing, and I do know the feeling of going through miscarriages. Please have faith in God, and He shall give you the very best. Trust me, coz I have been there. Looking after new borns babies is not an easy job, very tired and you tend to get upset and emotional very easily, but because I lost 2 babies before, now I have no complains no matter how tired I am, how much I want to sleep, I still count my blessings.

Pray hard, and God listens to all prayers.

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發表於 07-9-4 11:40 |只看該作者

KELLY﹕比心機呀﹗唔好比咁大壓力自己同仔仔。都知你好辛苦，姊妹，天父同你一齊湊仔仔架﹗

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 07-9-3 18:54 發表
hi all,
today is another difficult day for me as bring my son rushing to swimming class but we 're late . and it takes a bit trouble for him to get in .
i'm not happy .

it's really tire ...

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發表於 07-9-4 11:45 |只看該作者

sarahlin﹕保重呀﹗好好休息下啦.........退左燒就test下啦﹗

原文章由 sarahlin 於 07-9-3 19:53 發表
尋晚無端端發燒, 因為唔想食西醫, 所以朝早無去睇醫生. 不過到 lunch 終於頂唔順, 最後都係要去睇醫生. 因為m未嚟, 所以同醫生講, 叫佢開d溫和d既藥. 食咗藥, 大覺瞓, 出咗一身汗, 依家好好多! 本來唸住呢個cycle只 ...

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發表於 07-9-4 11:48 |只看該作者

galic﹕為你遇上愛你救你的主而感恩﹗好好抓緊神的應許去生活。過去的經歷，為的是要我們更認識祂、依靠祂。努力呀﹗姊妹.......如你所說﹕明天總有希望的﹗

原文章由 galic 於 07-9-3 20:19 發表
venusTam,

一篇很感動的領誤..

我之前在bk 所寫的分享大部份都是anger, feeling 唔公平為何發生在我身上,原因是我小產3次, 本身有先天的pcos..21 yrs old 已知有這個問題...結婚後不斷付出時間, $$, 又面對ivf tre ...

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發表於 07-9-4 21:48 |只看該作者

lic9
i don't want to put myself in pressure too. but it's really tiring to take care my son. like doing HW. his attention is really low. pls pray for me can have calm emotion. and knowing what can help my son.
as my husband needs so much time on his work. it's very hard for me to take care my son for such a long hour.
pls pray for me, pray for us.

thanks

原文章由 lic9 於 07-9-4 11:40 發表
KELLY﹕比心機呀﹗唔好比咁大壓力自己同仔仔。都知你好辛苦，姊妹，天父同你一齊湊仔仔架﹗

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發表於 07-9-4 21:51 |只看該作者

Twins_mummy
tks for your sharing. would u mind tell us when u got pregnant again after the miscarriage?

原文章由 Twins_mummy 於 07-9-4 10:59 發表
Galic,

Hope you are finding peace in your heart. We kind of went through the same thing, and I do know the feeling of going through miscarriages. Please have faith in God, and He shall give you the ...

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發表於 07-9-4 22:05 |只看該作者

pigpiglau

pray for your back pain. hope u 'll feel better each day
pls pray for me, as it's so much pressure takeing care my son from morning to night.
i need a break . ....and seems no one help .
so i need better EQ. coz i really don't know how to deal with something.

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 07-9-3 21:17 發表
HI all,

Haven't been posting cuz of my back pain. Taking deeper breath is painful and I think I have pulled some muscles. And thanks for all your prayers. The pain has eased off a lot after 4 days. ...

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發表於 07-9-4 22:10 |只看該作者

smileynemo
thanks for your support.
my husband help, but not enough. he always got his things to be done. i 'm exhausted but he didn't give a hand. he always facing the computer , tv ....what can i do?

let's keep praying.

venus
hope u can hear more words from God. i will pray for u .
sometimes, i don't understand too .

原文章由 smileynemo 於 07-9-3 22:36 發表
Hi All, thks for your prayer support! As you know, I really didn't want to widely share and often, I didn't know what to do. It's really nice to have all your support here!

I'm fine and don't have ...

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發表於 07-9-5 01:11 |只看該作者

Sarah,
Hope you have recovered!

Kelly,
Be patience and be happy, I understand how you feel as my son's attention is low too. Last term he has been complained by the teachers many times. 但當他漸漸長大就會好點，我阿仔經過暑假後已比之前進步，放心！還有，妳的心情會直接影響妳的兒子，他們都很敏銳，好知道妳的心情，妳越硬，他們就越和妳對抗。求主賜妳平穩的心情、也賜妳額外的精神體力！

lic9,
thanks for your caring. I am tired after school start because I need to get up early in the morning to take my son to school, then I go back home to prepare myself for work.

Venus,
很明白妳那種有些想放棄的心情。我有時都會係咁，求主興起妳的心，賜妳喜樂的靈去面對一切！

Pigpiglau,
I think you should go and see the doctor first. If not serious, then don't take the medicine. Continue to pray for you!

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發表於 07-9-5 13:41 |只看該作者

Kelly,
As Venus said, I will aslo suggest you to share your feelings with your husband. Sometimes man doesn't aware a problem exists until you told him:tongue:

Grace,
Thanks that even though you are so tired, you still write here and pray for us!
Ah~ I found a way to keep logging in BK. Please use this link to login next time: http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/logging.php?action=login and remember to select 'forever' for cookie expiry date.

sisters,
多謝各位的關心, 己經好番好多了. 我估發燒係由腸胃炎引起, 因為前晚疴o左5,6次:tongue:
今朝我test o左lu~ 又係-ve啦! 而且體溫都開始跌. 不過我無諗過打咗排卵針之後, m都會遲o羅~ 由排卵日計起, 今日己經係day16喇, 以前仲以為排卵後day14 m 一定o黎添~ 唔知會唔會因為唔舒服+食o左藥, 所以有影响呢!

唔緊要啦, 再接再厲! 我只係怕老公唔開心,無心機, 因為我知佢今個月好積極咁為bingo祈禱...

lic9,
我想再試下睇中醫, 你可唔可以pm你尖沙咀個中醫地址俾我呀? 謝謝.

原文章由 Gracesywong 於 07-9-5 01:11 發表
Sarah,
Hope you have recovered!

Kelly,
Be patience and be happy, I understand how you feel as my son's attention is low too. Last term he has been complained by the teachers many times. 但當他漸漸 ...

[ 本文章最後由 sarahlin 於 07-9-5 13:43 編輯 ]

喜樂的心, 乃是良藥 :-P

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發表於 07-9-5 13:47 |只看該作者

sarahlin﹕中醫卡片o係屋企，返到去搵左就pm你。

雖然失望，但係希望在明天。好好「養精蓄銳」，繼續努力﹗

原文章由 sarahlin 於 07-9-5 13:41 發表
Kelly,
As Venus said, I will aslo suggest you to share your feelings with your husband. Sometimes man doesn't aware a problem exists until you told him:tongue:

Grace,
Thanks that even though you a ...

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發表於 07-9-5 19:57 |只看該作者

Hi sis, thx for all your prayers and caring. My back pain almost totally gone now. I think I properly pulled my muscles when I picked up heavy grocery bag or sth like that...anyway, it is all good now. I will start my exercise regime in the coming weeks.

Venus, I also feel similar as your do there. I have tried over 3 years now, tried everything like Chinese herb (see Ms Wong in Baptism hospital), acupuncture and local hospital here too. At the moment, I try not to think about it too much, it is very hard not to esp. when I am still charting my temp. It becomes a habbit and it is difficult not to keep it. Giving up is not easy neither because we have spend so much time and effort into it. At some points, I know that I am totally obsessed with the whole thing and I tried very hard to take a step back. I guess when I visit the infertility clinic in Feb 08, it will the point when I think there is not much else I can do about it. I will just do whatever I am told / advised. Sometimes I think it sucks and I feel really down but then looking around, I still find life is good and God has provided me so much. The back pain gave me a lesson too, it is when the time like this I find that the most important thing is health and my family.

Kelly, guys are always guys, aren't they? TV and computer! Try to talk to him to see if some of the tasks can be delicate to him? When I lived with my Uncle, I saw my little cousin as a brat (she was 2-4 by that time), but then she becomes an angel when she turned 6. Now she is all well behave. The unreasonable behavior do grow out of them when they reached certain age. Praying for you!

Sarahlin, glad to hear that you have recovered. The delay of M come probably due to medicine / injections that you have there. It happened to me too. Varies from 14-16days when I am on clomid.

YimYee, how's church hunting?

Lic9, everything goes well there?

Grace, still busy? work and homework? YOu must be exhausted.

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發表於 07-9-5 21:05 |只看該作者

sarahlin﹕PM左D info比你喇﹗check下啦

pigpiglau﹕呢排唔錯﹗只係個人容易攰d..... 仲有6-7week，小b就要出世，希望一切順利。

原文章由 sarahlin 於 07-9-5 13:41 發表
Kelly,
As Venus said, I will aslo suggest you to share your feelings with your husband. Sometimes man doesn't aware a problem exists until you told him:tongue:

Grace,
Thanks that even though you a ...

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發表於 07-9-5 22:09 |只看該作者

pigpiglau, grace, sarah

tks! i believe my son's behavior will turn better when he is growing up .
today i'm better, God told me not to complain. i just need to do my best to make God happy
thanks for your prayers! it's very important.

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 07-9-5 19:57 發表
Hi sis, thx for all your prayers and caring. My back pain almost totally gone now. I think I properly pulled my muscles when I picked up heavy grocery bag or sth like that...anyway, it is all good now ...

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發表於 07-9-5 23:42 |只看該作者

pigpiglau,
thanks, I am ok. Not too busy, but will getting busy during mid-Sept to Oct. Several projects coming together, all with tight deadlines, hope everything will come smooth! Please pray for me.

Kelly,
Good to know that you are getting better today.
Keep praying for you. It's not easy to raise a child, let's do our best and let God do the rest, hurray!

lic9,
放心，主必保護妳，讓妳的小b 順利出世！還有我們會為妳守望！

Venus,
Cheer up!

YimYee,
Haven't heard from you for a while, you must be busy!

Everyone,
Are we going out on 19/9? Confirm?
Where should we meet this time? Any good suggestion?

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發表於 07-9-6 11:31 |只看該作者

I had my first miscarriage on the 12/3/2005, then got pregnant again in 10/2005, but it was an ectopic pregnancy, so needed to have an operation, and then I got pregnant with my twins in 9/2006. Now my twins are 4 months old.

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 07-9-4 21:51 發表
Twins_mummy
tks for your sharing. would u mind tell us when u got pregnant again after the miscarriage?

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