garytai,
I feel so sad when I read yr case. I can feel yr heart's pain or even cry. Being a mother is not an easy job, even difficult than my office work. As you trusted the 3rd doctor's advice, you should follow and observe bb's reaction after drinking the medicine. If baby has any problem casued by medicine, even only a very minor one, you can call to the clinic and double checked with doctor. A responsible doctor should give you a thorough explaination and should not always ask you to come to see him again. Besides, I also suggest you not to give baby the Chinese medicine and the cereal for the time being. Let baby get use to the new milk formula first, then start the cerel bit by bit again. Also, keep us inform of his progress, we, all OS mami here can share yr feelings. so, cheer up, your baby can get well soon!!!
2cats,
I used 陪月 before and I found that she is good. I can recomend her to you. What is your due date?