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你c6唔肯叫鄉下d親友係咪怕黑工問題? 係就同一條道理解佢聽啦! 姑仔99唔可以正面沖突就惟有向c6落藥, 或者話畀99知有咩事你老公要坐監, 睇吓佢捨唔捨得

原帖由 siusum 於 10-1-4 13:41 發表

僱主係隻佬...
我99開頭叫請佢鄉下d親友添...好彩老公唔制咋...
我又唔想"兜口兜面"同6299姑仔佢地講, 所以要繼續向隻佬落藥

可唔可以喺相簿加相落個人簽名度？

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-1-4 11:19 發表

佢要要讀多兩年先='艱難大'的程度, 佢地既民族, 有著自以為事的性格, 就算佢地的學歷未夠'班', 都覺得自己高人一等

無錯, 叫佢地嚟打工, 真係好委屈.

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原帖由 polarmama 於 10-1-4 14:09 發表
你c6唔肯叫鄉下d親友係咪怕黑工問題? 係就同一條道理解佢聽啦! 姑仔99唔可以正面沖突就惟有向c6落藥, 或者話畀99知有咩事你老公要坐監, 睇吓佢捨唔捨得 ...

黑工問題係其一啦, 最重要係污糟囉...
佢都講明, 就算引入內傭都唔會請內地人,
話質數差好多, 又係出咁多糧, 請個講英文好過請個講鄉下話喎...好彩啫, 如果唔係我62實請個同鄉返黎, 到時我個兩個b就

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-1-4 12:06 發表
係囉…上勞處搞啦,如果唔係,搞一日一夜都收5到科呀。正一下價橙!!

Thanks for all sis reply !

隻死PK狒狒其實想:
1)早走, 但唔洗賠早走人工 -
佢在28/12放假翌日回來就提出,佢話已找到新(水魚),仲即時問我取ref. letter, 我: are u sure to go earlier than 22 /01/2010, u have pay me back the balance salary to me if u do so. 佢就話唔使因係我break contract. 我: give me written confirm first!
跟住就同隻狒再 solid confirme,佢一定要在 5/1/10 走。
我已話你再改機票日期就你俾錢,隻死狒狒仲話新(水鱼)要佢快啲搞,快啲開工, 所以一定係要個日走！無俾信我,我就
等佢走,打算last day 上勞處搞final settlement !

2) 份工可能冇咗,或新(水魚)可以等佢, 因我估佢已confirm到若要早走便要倒俾人工我 -
2/1,又係放假返來開始玩嘢： Mum, I don't go down on 5/1 but will go on the date u put on the term letter date and i need yr ref. letter. pls. understand
me. 我: u always changed, u need give me the
written confirm first, 隻死PK狒就開始嚟料: i have the right to change & change boz u're the one to term contract and i'm also no need to bear any extra costed on u.
我知佢係想隨時走唔洗賠但又想玩下嘢先,因机栗唔可能改完又改個日期,好彩佢唔知我係未訂嘅。其實之前同yyyyy同車返家時都提過: 隻狒狒如肯鈡意做(包括屋企4隻貓的日常謢理)都有6-70分,所以先揀啱哂replace 先送佢上路。另,估狒狒都唔會係飯餸湯內加料,因見過佢對樓下的公公婆婆們(唔識嘅)都好幫人,仲幫佢地整高衫領扣好衫鈕,並對佢地講咁唔洗被風吹入身冷親等,當時佢係唔知我係佢附近;所以先留佢係度做咁耐。

我知佢最驚係錄影,因佢經常見我上網睇youtube啲人被人影咗擺上去,佢覺得好醜; 又变咗有哂証据冇得玩。

至於上勞工處,狒狒係唔驚嘅：因今年3月狒狒突然insist放Re-Hire programm前一年嘅年假時, 同我argue一定要我提早出年假人工,我有騙狒狒上勞處,上到去狒狒聽完個officer話法例無advance salary,狒狒仲大聲咁同勞處「肺公能」講: i need money, this is the mutual agreement in-between ER/ee., none of yr business, no need anymore yr. advise here! Don't made any 歧視(用英文講,我驚呢到有鬼睇到) for our Helper! 「肺公能」即話我只係答你僱主法例者！不過,當時我的目的已達,就係要狒狒知我唔怕嘅,我奉公守法,法例我都熟！
依家係因要夾新maid來港日子,因都要預先通知agent 買机票的日期,如狒狒又痴上腦要即走,怕遲咗通知agent夾唔到佢地的平机位到港啫！

[ 本帖最後由 LADYMAMALEI 於 10-1-4 15:02 編輯 ]

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原帖由 yyyyyy 於 10-1-4 10:03 發表
遲左上黎添.........
我覺得幾多個十年唔係問題, 最緊要開心和健康; 否則, 太多既十年也只是苦. 我不太介意時日長短, 質素先係最重要; 所以, 多享受事, 物和珍惜身邊人! 喂, 搵d好野食下, 去多d 旅行, 休 ...

我當然明白啦......
我始終老過你地好多, 心態有d 唔同.......
你都知啦 ~~ 我份工咁「獨特」, 要休息, 係有難度, 不過.... 我今年會爭取架啦！

教仔心得：媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為，到底點解同點讚？
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原帖由 LADYMAMALEI 於 10-1-4 14:36 發表

Thanks for all sis reply !

隻死PK狒狒其實想:
1)早走, 但唔洗賠早走人工 -
佢在28/12放假翌日回來就提出,佢話已找到新(水魚),仲即時問我取ref. letter, 我: are u sure to go earlier than 22 /01/2010, u ha ...

Note that the point to bring her to the Labour Dept for settlement is not solely for the purpose to defeat her right on the spot. Instead, if she behaves like the way you described last time, at least there is someone (the Lab staff) who was present there to "eye witness" what she had said (for example, disagreement on all the advises, ordinances that the staff give, etc.). All these that happens should be recorded in writing by yourself on your settlement documentsitems. This record you make effectively serves to protect yourself if so happens that she unreasonably claims you in any subsequent lawsuits that may come afterwards for any items which you actually have offered her during settlement in accordance with the Labour Ordinance.

Given her such behaviour/unreasonableness shows in front of the Labour staff, the Labour staff cannot deny that he/she hadn't seen her behaviour, if subsequntly she is called by you/tribunal to speak in any lawsuit, particularly if you have recorded the name and post of this Labour staff. Its a safer way to handle this matter than to do it alone.

Hope thsi helps!

[ 本帖最後由 pollyw 於 10-1-4 16:44 編輯 ]

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-1-4 12:03 發表
計我話,比イ巨讀多十年又如何?咪又係小學程度都無?!哈!!

調轉,我地就算讀到中三(假設),但程度都遠超過イ巨地大學畢業。

我打過一年bun佬工....
應該係民族性/文化嘅問題, 香港人大部份都好aggressive！

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-1-4 13:53 發表
還有,d人通常有了把柄,屈多你三幾様野你都無イ巨符。反正有一樣野係真既,其餘d屈既items,,個官都会傾向信埋隻野。

呢個正是關鍵！
可否叫你個工人自己拒絕你姑仔？

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原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-1-4 17:16 發表

呢個正是關鍵！
可否叫你個工人自己拒絕你姑仔？

我個工人同我99仲好傾過同我架
佢仲主動比佢小朋友&老公d相比我99睇
我都冇睇過...我係resume度知佢有兩個小朋友咋
我怕佢做25話係我叫佢唔好accept囉...
我諗緊今個sat唔得, 因為得我一個湊b, 咁下sat同咩拒絶啫過左呢兩個weekend就ok, 因為到時佢都嫁左

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原帖由 LADYMAMALEI 於 10-1-4 14:36 發表

Thanks for all sis reply !

隻死PK狒狒其實想:
1)早走, 但唔洗賠早走人工 -
佢在28/12放假翌日回來就提出,佢話已找到新(水魚),仲即時問我取ref. letter, 我: are u sure to go earlier than 22 /01/2010, u ha ...

如佢走嗰日玩嘢唔肯簽收或唔肯去勞工處, 記得要call police, 唔好放佢走！
重有, reference letter係settle晒所有嘢先俾, 要落埋電話(天書有sample), 如佢話要見工, 就叫佢d potential employer 打俾你！

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duplicated

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原帖由 siusum 於 10-1-4 17:34 發表

我個工人同我99仲好傾過同我架
佢仲主動比佢小朋友&老公d相比我99睇
我都冇睇過...我係resume度知佢有兩個小朋友咋
我怕佢做25話係我叫佢唔好accept囉...
我諗緊今個sat唔得, 因為得我一個湊b, 咁下sat同咩拒絶啫 ...

想辦法帶小朋友出街, 話一個人湊唔掂, 要工人幫手咁得唔得?
唔理佢地諗/講咩, 過咗海就神仙!