(1) 第一個意見...可以請係 delete 左你上面個 message 既"引文"嘛??.... 因為我想d 媽咪入嚟睇 new message 時唔駛 scroll 咁長先睇到 ar.... :cry: 唔係冇人幫襯 ga la ...:-( :-( :-(
(2) 雖則我上面有講話"環境"都係一個揀幼稚園既因素, 但若只係得呢個因素係吸引到你的話又唔多成立...因為 all the factors I listed 應有 priority...當然人人 standard 唔同, so 你自己可以諗諗...不過比著我, 若以你所 list 只係睇呢兩間 (i.e. 觀浸+臻美)...我就會睇較長線d個樣....即係你係咪打算去讀臻美既小學 (this include 你 likey 佢既課程 or not + $$ 你想唔想一直讀上去 etc), 若係既...我就會依家揀...otherwise 我就唔會...(or not yet decide) 我會寧等考小學時先去...因為一條龍既學校有一特色 ==> 佢地就係知自己係一條龍, 所以課程設計唔一定會同外面d學校銜接, 因為佢地都會 assume 學生揀得佢梗係"一條心", 唔會中途想走架嘛...所以有機會 if 你讀開佢, then change to other school, 會未必夾得番出去, 就是如此...(但當然, 得唔得都係好睇個小朋友既能力同屋企有幾多 support 俾佢喇...世事無絕對既, right?)
1) 若你想佢第日讀 K1 就依家唔好轉住喇....雖則依家你仔仔讀緊個間唔係平, 又唔係特別正, 但...起碼近近地?? If yes, then 由得佢先喇 (除非真係返放學都好遠, 咁我就真係揾唔到理由 why 唔轉咯), otherwise 反正你想佢轉讀 K1, then 就不如等佢直接考過去先一齊轉會好d
2) 培正係要 Sep 1 後出世個d讀遲一個學年既, 呢個係佢地既 rules, 無計, so 想唔想俾佢大少少先讀 K1 係要你自己決定, 不過既然佢要讀遲一年既 K1 (if choose PC), 你可以先試俾佢由 N1 考去你另一間都心儀但收 Sep 月個d (即係唔駛讀遲一年) 既幼稚園, 由佢去讀, then wait for next year to 考 培正, 考到先再決定去唔去 (i.e. 俾唔俾佢 repeat la, 因為好老實, 培正好多人考, so 競爭好大, 考到先決定都唔遲), but FYI, 培正都收唔少細路係寧遲一年入學 ga wor...
So 唔知轉咁多次好唔好？
==> 可以的話, 當然轉一次都好夠 ga la...但 even 仔仔考到又會轉去培正, 都係轉多一次 only la...細路仔都冇話唔得既, 何況學術上, KG 課程都冇小學既咁快, so 都唔會話"跟唔上"咁既...so 你真係想轉, 都 OK ge....不過個心就要揸定主意喇...咪一年就轉人地一次嘛~~~~
應該點答先理想呢? 有無技巧可以同我地分享?
===>hehe...嗱....首先.......學校d老師同 HR D interviewer 一樣, 年年見 N 個學生 and/or 家長, 佢地真係人老精, 鬼老靈, 無論你點答, 佢地好容易就聽得出邊d 係 model answer 邊d係真心既諗法喇....
==> 而且... in fact, there are really no "MODEL ANSWER" in this world....e.g. 你話期望....嘿嘿..人人對說話都有唔同既 interpretation, it also depends on the preference of that interviewer too..即係有d老師鍾意學生聽教聽話, 但有d又會認為聽教聽話 = 被動, 寧取反斗既孩子, 因為咁証明佢地有創意 etc...哈哈...so 真係一句講哂, 好主觀的...
==> So, 我唔想就你講既 suggested answer 俾任何 comment, 因為 that may not be the best answer, 一陣我話 A, then maybe the interviewer prefer B 就死火喇...hehe... :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
不過, 我可以 give you some "principles" to think of an "appropriate" answer:
1) 細心留意該校既辦學宗旨 ==> 咁唔係叫你照響 interview 個時 up 返哂出嚟, 而係你真係問自己你同唔同意, 接唔接受, 因為"宗旨"就係學校注重既野, 即係唔係 stated in the 宗旨既就 may not be their priority, 咁你 OK 唔 OK 先? 我成日強調, 接受一間學校 somewhat 就好似接受個老公咁...要 enjoy 同佢一齊既優點之餘亦要能+有心理準備去包容一d佢既缺點喇....nothing is perfect in this world ga ma....
2) 問下自己有乜可以做 to cope with the need of the school, 因為學校好多時要 interview d kids, 除左想睇吓佢細路係咪"正常", 仲想乘機透過同家長既對話 (if need to interview parent) 佢了解究竟個家長重視學前教育與否, 會唔會就咁掟左個仔入學校就唔理, 日日 only ask the bunbun to take the kid to school, etc, 因為, 好老實, 收著個唔醒既細路都唔係問題, 收著個麻煩既家長就真係命都短幾年咯...你可能會問...咁有d KG 唔駛 interview parent ga wor....咁又點...? 呵呵...個d 通常都會響張 application form 問長問短 ga la...so 都知到一二既....不過你唔會知佢地 take those information 有幾 serious 而已....
3) 若自己都知自己作為家長既"弱點", (e.g. 在職, no time to follow up with the homework, etc), then 就要諗定"我可如何調配一d資源去 support the school 呢", this does not necessarily means resign ar....係要諗d有效既 other alternative ==> 需知學校明白在職家長有幾忙, 但佢地 (包括我) 都唔接受以此為一個 excuse, so 忙係可以, 但點樣響咁忙都可以俾到人地有個 feel 我係 care about my kids 呢...咁先係 more important....
4) 要充份了解自己小朋友既能力, 長短處...照數冇問題, 不過亦係....要俾人 feel 到我係見我小朋友有此問題, but then what I have done (or what I am doing now) to help my kid to change his/her behaviour...呢個至係正面積極既做法...學校唔怕d仔曳 (or 唔出聲), 反而最怕係有 case: 講比d家長聽, d家長都唔理, 仲一句話"俾得你教就係你負責"之類咁"賴人"既說話嘛...一d 都唔 take responsibility.
5) 仲有, 唔好嘗試揾d "model answer" 然後又照辦煮碗咁 xerox 出去 (好似d 人整 profile 咁), 自己肯花心機去諗一個 answer/format 遠勝於俾d千篇一律既答覆, this reflects to the school how much time/effort that you are willing to spend for your kid, instead of the content of the answer that attracts the Principal (esp. those famous schools' Principals, since they have seen 10000000+ versions of profile/answer la...) right? :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
Last but not least : take it easy la...interview 既野, 一分人力, 2 分心情 (個仔) + 7 分運氣 ga ma....see..?? so 有 90% 都係 uncontrollable factor bor....盡人事 only la...
如是者...you may see "老師"響學校裡面係扮演緊其中一個 role only, 即係話, if 你 worry 老師走哂就 = 影響教學, 咁會係太武斷, 即係掉番轉講, 係唔係d 老師一世唔走就等於學校會一直好落去呢....我又唔完全認同囉...
當然, 我唔否認可能會因為突如其來既人事變動會影響學校既運作一段短時間, 但以沙呂運作左咁多年嚟計, I will believe :
(a) 一間歷史有番咁上下+成績有番咁上下既學校, 絕對唔會因為咁而令學術水平受影響, cos that was built up for some years already
(b) 學校應有一定既應變措施去面對呢件事, 而確保唔會影響學生既學習, 呢點就好睇校長點做了. 事實上, 人事變動響社會上都係常見之事, 好多學校都有, 問題係你知唔知 only la....既然今次有此事 (I suggest you 去求証下d 在學家長 there la) , 你亦正好好借呢點嚟睇吓校長如何收科從而睇到學校是否受影響喇..
所以我唔會因為"有好多老師走" only 就會改變主意, 因為講到底, 若只係此一原因, 對一間搞左咁耐又咁好既學校應唔會有太大 impact (但我都會求証既)
我明白好多家長響揀學校都想問多d人攞多d意見先作決定, 呢點絕對認同, 但問之前, 你要問清楚自己, 你揀一間學校係以乜為 first priority? Teachers? Curriculum? Results? 因為個個都唔同, 間間學校都唔可能係 perfect, 即係 if 你 worry 依家沙呂老師走哂呢個問題, then even if you choose another one, 另一間d老師係好 stable ar, but 佢地d 課程唔掂, 咁你咪一樣 worry? So you can't choose the "BEST" ga...just find one which may match your "overall standard"~~
不妨教你, 若你真係咁 15/16, then 可以整個表, 問自己
(1) what do you value most in a school? e.g. teacher? students quality? etc etc
(2) Prioritize - 邊樣對你最重要...??
然後就每個 item 去秤間學校喇...then you will be able to find one which "best fit" your expectation ga la....
(P.S. 我自己就唔用表既, 因為我好知自己要乜, so I dun need this, but this will be quite good for 新手媽咪 la) :mrgreen:
俾我係你, 我唔會咁快就轉太, 我會 :
(1) 靜觀其變, 睇下校長係咪搞得掂先
(2) 資料搜集, 問下d在學家長, see if this is true or not (好多時d人以訛傳訛, 走個 2, 3 個人又話"走哂"呀咁, 好鬼誇張架), 同你話"有好多負面消息", 係乜先...點負面法..?? 唔係聽人一句"間野差左好多呀" 咁就放棄先得格, 你再問落去丫...問佢 : "係? 咁學校發生左d乜事呀..." 睇下係乜先喇..因為"唔好"既定義人人唔同, 不能用人地既標準去決定自己既野架喎
(3) 問下自己我上面請你諗個d - 即係你既 priority 係乜....
(4) 最後先決定究竟沙呂仲係唔係你 dream school la....
如想報讀大埔舊墟小學(不是千禧), 選擇那所幼兒園/幼稚園比較適合 / 大埔那所幼兒園/幼稚園比較好?
==> Is 大埔舊墟小學 a 津貼小學 (I guess so?) If yes, 讀邊間都冇分別 ga wor...大家最後齊齊搞珠仔 only ja wor...你可以睇睇我前面個幾頁關於升小機制 la...
先生是大埔舊墟的舊生
==> 既然 daddy 已經係該校舊生, 就算唔係第一個小朋友都比人多 10 分喇 ....入硬咁滯 (何況你呢間唔係 super hot 既學校)....咁讀邊間幼稚園更無關係喇...
睇嚟你唔係好明個升小機制 bor...then 建議你去呢個 topic first few pages 睇下喇....包你知得更多 ... 睇完你應該就有好多問題都有答案 ga la....(又賣廣告)...hehe~~
如果小兒屬於活潑好動但慢熱型,interview 會好執輸,有甚麼好方法可以令佢在interview的短時間內發揮得最好呢?
==>呢樣都冇一定方法話包 work ga wor...but you may try 個日 interview 時早d帶佢去左學校樹, 同佢玩一輪先, 等佢 warm up then 先去喇...should be better
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