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發表於 05-1-5 05:01

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

AJ 寫道:
上次咪同你地講我兒甥女個朋友的BB出世後昏迷, 當時醫生只係同佢講醫學上解釋唔到之後就無再講D咩, 現在差不多一個月都仲未醒返 :cry: 今日我兒甥女同佢朋友傾過, 原來事情並不簡單, 根本係醫療失當, 當日個朋友係穿左水31小時後BB心跳有問題至幫佢緊急開刀, 之前醫生一直都唔理話無咁既需要...唉, 真係好離譜, 佢既決定=安排BB既一生, 點解個醫生咁冷血? 佢無理由唔知道穿水後BB唔可以留係肚內太耐, 佢令一個健康BB監生焗到缺氧, 如果係私家生一定無咁既情況!

我表妹前個月都係政府生左, 順產後個肚日日都痛, 當時係醫院問姑娘點解會咁, 姑娘同佢講係咁架, 之後出院都仍然有痛就去睇私家, 一照之下...原來仲有胎盤留係肚內未清走晒!

佢地分別係2間不同既政府醫院生, 呢2間仲係好多人話點好點好咪又係有呢D野!

我唔敢話政府生唔好, 但就真係要睇彩數!

AJ,

I m very angry after I hear this!!
I dont understand how come the doctor would do this.
I remember that I went to the hospital when I had HELLP.
the doctor (public) didnt ask or consider all my conditions and broke my water.
After the water was broken, they discovered that I couldnt had epidural and they didnt know what to do.
Luckily my private doctor came and he made a quick decision to have a C-section immediately.
I m very glad that I did go to see a specialist otherwise both Ho Yin and I wont be here.
I feel very sorry for the bb and bb's parents.
Public serivce is really hard to say!!!

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發表於 05-1-5 05:20

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

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nn 寫道:
jollydophin,

Don't worry too much, 小魚 should be fine as he has such a nice and kind mother.

I read some books saying that the natural way to help to remove the "pat pat red" is to day-bath the pat pat. If possible, whenever 小魚 changes diaper, let the pat pat be free of diaper for 15-20 min after you wash it (to allow enough time for the water either from the wipes or the wet cotton to be dry). I usually put a small heater next to Alicia when I change diaper for her, and I will remove the diaper for a few minutes and I just play with her during that period without diaper. During her diarrhea period, I change diaper once every 2 hours. You might want to change diaper more often as the urine/ng ng is not good for the skin.

jollydophin,
nn is very right!!
Try to give small fish some nappy free time everyday.
Although it will be quite messy, it is very good for his pat pat.
However, if his pat pat is infected (has yellow stuff coming out), you need to be very careful coz dont let him touch pat pat when he doesnt have nappy on.
small fish has very sensitive skin so it might be good to see a skin specialist.
Dont worry!! We all will support you and small fish to kill the sickness

!!!

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發表於 05-1-5 09:18

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

I also find that I don't have enough time to use (24 hr is not enough...) let me estimate how much I need IDEALLY:

8 hours - sleep
5 hours - 1hr for pump milk, pump for 5 times a day
3 hours - 1hr for each meal (breakfast, lunch, dinner)
~1 hour - bath
~1 hour - toilet/ng ng/brushing teeth
10 hours - work (in the past, it was 15-18 hours in average)
3 hours - BK time

2 hours - email and TV
2 hours - playing with Alicia
2 hours - commute for going to work
--------------------------------------------
Appr. 37 hours (I think I am reasonable in my estimation, right :wink: :wink: )

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發表於 05-1-5 09:26

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

jollydophin,

I'm also upset when I know small fish pat pat is being 'injuried'... maybe as other moms said the doctor is not match with small fish, maybe you need to find another one.... my Joshua's padeiatrician is Dr Mok Tse Chi in Union Hospital... he is okay gaa...at least his medicine works on my bb.

as hoyinma and nn said, it's right to have some nappy free time everyday for bb pat pat's skin to breath air...turn on the warmer or warm air machine laa... maybe it help...

I use vaseline after change diaper for Joshua if no red pat pat... otherwise I'll use Mustela nappy rashes cream... very effective.

ssassa,

'siu tin yan''s new photo is very gooddddd :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: ... I need to work hard and study how to use the software laaa as I've also brought it for two days... haha :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

AJ,

I'm so sad to hear that a baby like that...and I agree that there must be some difference btn public and private hospital...and even my sister is a doctor, she also highly (actually force me) recommend me to deliver my baby in private hospital...

like the case happen recently... one of my colleague jsut delivered her baby on 2/1.. she went to the hospital on 1/1, after 30+ hours... viginal dilation = 10 cm... many water flows out...but BB still not able to come out... still wait for long time... after using laughing gas, injection and 'painless delivery method'... still not okay... so finally the doctor chose c section...

it's so dangerous... coz as my sister said, bb will be easily get infected... and after bb came out... bb was sent to the paediatric observatory ward ... but SUDDENLY my colleague was kicked out by the hospital yesterday... together with bb...

she had c section but only stayed in hospital for 3 days 2 nights???? not quite normal gua??? I'm so angry with that hospital.

canny,

your 'kam mo b' is very lovely...

will ask for what he want!!! like my Joshua, he always do this... I never give him dummy so far... should say, he never touch dummy so far from his birth... well, he will cry for the moment b4 sleep but I'll feed him by myself and sing songs... then he'll sleep ...

maybe you are right, your maid used to give him dummy and so he may depend on it la.

all,

my bb also has a 'red red ' face now coz of winter cold air.... I tried gerber oatmeal cream , seba med, johnson, xxx swiss (I don't remember the name)... all not okay... so finally I use vaseline and suddenly the red red face disappeared.

Paulina

吾家三隻小豬樂融融 ;-) ;-) ;-)

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發表於 05-1-5 09:35

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

nn,

ur time schedule is too good to me la...

here is my schedule...

6:00 am wake up + pump milk
6:45 am wash milk pumps + bottles + self cleaning
7:15 am change clothes
pack lunch box
pack milk bottles for 'por por'
7:30 am back to work
12:45 pm lunch + pump milk
1:45 pm back to work
6:00 pm wash bottles+pump milk+feed/playing
7:00 pm bathing
household works
8:00 pm dinner time
9:00 pm bb change clothes + cleaning + playing
10:00 pm bb go to sleep
11:00 pm pump milk + wash bottles + own time
12:00 pm feed bb again
12:30 pm go to sleep

Paulina

吾家三隻小豬樂融融 ;-) ;-) ;-)

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發表於 05-1-5 10:01

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

Good morning all:

Jolly: 聽到小魚甘真係好心痛亦好明白妳心情, 加油呀妳自己都要take care

Hoyinma: Take care

AJ: 我生大仔時都係串咗水仲要等16個鐘先比佢地

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發表於 05-1-5 10:28

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

AJ 寫道:
Elsa & PoPo

想問下你地2位經驗mama, 買玩具係咪要買有牌子先好呢?

點解咁問, 因為我頭先搵到個網站見d玩具好平(唔係名牌子), 係一間香港公司但可能國內生產(網站介紹出口歐美，非洲，國內及本地市場)! 睇圖D玩具唔差架, 仲有兒童電池車添!

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發表於 05-1-5 10:34

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

Jolly,
聽到小魚咁真係好心痛，不過你都唔好太擔心喇，可能今次的藥膏會好的呢，同埋你要放鬆的唔好太緊張，小魚好快就會好返架喇。加油啊！

731mon,
你病都去睇仔，小心'野'到比個仔，今朝有冇打電話去問一問仲有乜事啊。

AJ,
聽到真係唔開心，原本健健康康的BB攪成咁，我生大仔時都係穿左水十幾個鐘至開刀，不過都算係咁之後都冇乜手尾要跟，所以生阿囡時有得比我選開刀定係順產，我諗都唔諗就同我老公講我一定要開刀生，因為我真係好驚我會生唔到同埋個BB太耐生唔到出來會有事，同埋我驚我試左順產到時生唔到都係要開刀(個時真係好多野驚我老公成日都話我諗埋的無謂野)，個BB好似知道我驚咁(睇開個私家醫生已同我講多數都要開刀喇)，不使等我見醫生(政府)將個頭仔轉上去(個囡好攪野28週去CHECK私家醫生已同我講話頭仔已轉，但到32週再檢查佢個頭仔又轉左上去)，所以一去到屯門醫院見醫生，都唔使講咁都野即日就BOOK時間要開刀生。

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發表於 05-1-5 10:35

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

Jollydophin

聽到小魚咁, 我心都實..... :cry: 我都唔知講乜好, 只希望小魚快 d 快 d 好番, 一個小BB 就要受咁既痛楚, 的而且確好慘, 但諗深一層, 當係俾小魚一種"more 練", 第日大過仔, 小小病痛, 小魚都唔駛驚喇, Jollydopin, 你放心啦, 你諗諗, 只係皮外傷, 又唔會對生命有威脅, 只不過要小魚受下苦, 需然你會好心痛, 但小魚好快會好番 ma, 小小苦楚等於激勵

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發表於 05-1-5 10:37

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

patBmom, ssassa, nn, AJ, hoyinma, paulina, PoPo, Elsa, canny & all

多謝你地既關心﹝係誠意既﹞......

婆婆今朝一早打咗電話比我，話我知小魚個情況已經有好轉，佢話尋晚同佢換片﹝佢仲食緊夜奶﹞佢都喊都"爪爪"聲，但係今朝佢話同佢換片，佢已經冇喊，我諗咁即係代表d藥膏對佢個pat pat有效，令到佢好番d冇咁痛。尋晚我用咗醫生個方法，佢話如果想快d好就用燈同小魚照pat pat，我諗照咗1個鐘到，我見佢個pat pat真係開始消咁d紅﹝或者又可以比pat pat"抖"氣既關係啦﹞，婆婆話會繼續同佢照多幾日﹝我都覺得呢個係一個好方法﹞.....不過佢直至而家都仲係疴疴地，我諗對佢個pat pat會麻煩d....希望佢快快冇事啦

另外都希望各位病緊既媽咪、bb快快好番.....2005年開始健健康康，冇病有痛......

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發表於 05-1-5 10:40

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

patBmom,

請check pm....

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發表於 05-1-5 10:50

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

AJ: 我買玩具唔一定買有牌子, 有牌子既品質當然好亦有保證(故睇下買咩啦), 但冇牌子有時都有好野, 但買後要睇清楚先好比bb玩, 因我怕有d冇牌子既有d膠位起角甘就好易整損bb, 不過話分2頭有牌子既咪又係國內生產, 但如一d soft toy我一定要買有牌子, 因我怕入面d唔知係咩棉, =好似買張大陸棉被返屋企至發現入面...甘就慘, 你見個網站d玩具好平, 係邊樹架, 可唔可以post來睇下。兒童電池車我之前都係深圳wallmark買左部比亞囝

Jolly: 甘就好了, 放心啦, 小魚好快冇事

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發表於 05-1-5 10:53

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

Elsa 寫道:
AJ,
我生大仔時都係穿左水十幾個鐘至開刀，不過都算係咁之後都冇乜手尾要跟，所以生阿囡時有得比我選開刀定係順產，我諗都唔諗就同我老公講我一定要開刀生，因為我真係好驚我會生唔到同埋個BB太耐生唔到出來會有事，同埋我驚我試左順產到時生唔到都係要開刀(個時真係好多野驚我老公成日都話我諗埋的無謂野)，個BB好似知道我驚咁(睇開個私家醫生已同我講多數都要開刀喇。

上述既野點解同我一模一樣既 ?-( ?-( ?-(

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發表於 05-1-5 10:53

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

AJ
聽到真係唔開心，原本健健康康的BB攪成咁, 我而家先識驚, 我生金毛B 個時9:00助產士同我穿水, 好彩我4:00就生左, 原來穿左水太耐會對 BB 有咁大影響.....我真係唔知, 唉......我都唔知點講喇.....我係威院生, 的而且確我好滿意當時既服務, 不過聽完你地咁講, 可能我同金毛B 真係好好彩, 有個咁好既助產士同我生

ssassa
小天欣好攪鬼, 好好笑吵, 我同我老公見到, 都一齊大笑, :lol: :lol: :lol: 好得意喎, AJ 都唔係好恐怖 je, 好得意呀, 可能我同我老公都鍾意將金毛B 玩來玩去啦, 哈哈, 當佢公仔咁玩 :mrgreen:

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發表於 05-1-5 11:09

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

jollydophin,
聽到小魚好返的換片片冇喊即係的肉好返好多囉...... 努力呀! 小魚~~~

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發表於 05-1-5 11:12

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

PoPo

唔該晒, 有你地呢d經驗媽媽幫我地解答問題真好!

個網址: (麻煩你睇下係咪真係咁扺)
http://www1.easyupdateweb.com/model/new_site/modeFlash23/blue/frame.asp?uniUser_ID={248BA1D0-82EF-4CD5-B9E4-EEB9238E572D}&intChEn=3&strChEn=Ch&intOrderBy=1&intSecretApplication=1&intPriview=0

我見有d無價錢, 就求其簡d玩具問價, 佢地好快就email回覆, 如下:

The following quotation is listed for your reference:

Ref. No / Retail Price /Wholesale Price/ Min. Order
-------------------------------------------------------
100725HD $699.00 $450.00 6 pcs

100585HL $69.00 $45.00 [size=x-small]at least 1 doz for each
to 100587HL

The captioned price is excluded the delivery expenses.

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發表於 05-1-5 11:15

Re: 2004年8月--BB--媽咪會

Jolly :

小魚pat pat己有好轉，等佢

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