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註冊 07-10-21
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1. At first I find this case very entertaining and wonder how this can appen as the amount of money we are talking about is only 4500HKD.
2. After reading the analyses and additional information provided other posts, I began to feel quite differently about the lady.
3. Above all, I really feel sorry for the man. He seems to be a nice and gentle person. He is the type who tries to do everything to please his spouse and obviously he can not satisfy financially the demands of the other half and the only thing he can is to do whatever she wants, even to point of alienating his own parents.
4. Obviously, the couple has already alienated the female side of the family, and that's why the female side of the family is not invited to the baby party. It could very well be that the wife really does not want to be associated with her own family because it is really poor and she is ashamed to be associated with them at all.
5. My conclusion is that the family is really in poor financial shape and they really cannot afford the 4500HKD as the family income cannot really support the lady's spending habit or fantasy. All those things she said she wants to buy she probably did not. She only talk about it so she can feel good.
6. I have the feeling that the husband may want to pay off the debt in question, but either he is not allowed to (by the wife) or that he really cannot afford to because they are really poor.
I could imagine that the couple is having a lot of argument at home where the wife is blaming the man for being useless and incapable so much so that the wife has to suffer from all these for such a meager amount of HKD4500.
7. I really feel sorry for the man and I think he is under tremendous pressure and the matter drags on.
8. My suggestion is that if one really wants to help the person who did not get paid, maybe should each contribute a small sum to her so she can recover her loss.
9. And in the mean time, I think we should leave the poor family alone. I feel sorry for the man. The wife is probably having some kind of psychologically or character problem and needs help too.
We really need to stop now before something tragic happens.
People, please be kind and considerate!
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