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Re: ＊2005年既奶媽Come in＊

go4baby 寫道:
Hellocandy,

My friend already fed her baby for 9 months. Now she 停餵人奶. She found her breast size dropped from D cup to A cup. :-( :-(
It's very terrible. In order to prevent this problem, now i am wearing wirless bra whole day.

D-->A?

wearing wirless bra 又有咩用? 我依家响屋企就會, 但返工會帶返有鐵線, 費事"fing"吓"fing"吓啦!

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Today my boy do cry before he sleep. Ha Ha!

aggie_to 寫道:
bbpooh,
Yes, I've heard that habbits of bb can be broken after 3 days..

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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發表於 06-3-11 18:56 |只看該作者

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diaperb :

My method is nothing great. I just put my boy into his own bed if it is his time to sleep. He has his timetable for sleep, playing and feeding. So if the sleeping time comes, we will put him on the bed. We will told him it is the time to sleep and leave him alone. He will then play for a while then go to sleep.

At the begining he cried for over an hour. But now he just play and sleep. Sometimes cry for a min.

We did this because he only sleep when we carried him. He wake up after 10 -30min if we put him back on the bed. But now, he just sleep when we put him on the bed.

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發表於 06-3-11 19:43 |只看該作者

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aggie_to and bbpooh,

Thanks so much for your sharing!
At night, I feed my son and he will go to sleep afterward. However, he will wake up in the midnight twice everyday! We need to give him some water and rocking him a while. Besides, he is now sleeping with 99. I want him to sleep alone on his bed.

I just wonder if I train him using bbpooh's method, could he sleep through the night!

I have read thro' the website in babycentre. Do u think I should train him in the first place? i.e. After feeding him in the last mama milk, I need to wake him up and put him in his bed? (making him cry until he go to sleep)

If he still wake up in the midnight, should I hug him or just let him cry until he feel tired and sleep by himself?

My hubby is on trip these days. This is a good timing to train up my son as my hubby will feel so
忟憎 if bb cried in midnight!

Could you two give me some advice?

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發表於 06-3-11 19:47 |只看該作者

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bbpooh 寫道:
aggie_to , tingfai

我BB最近都有一個問題,原來佢鐘意訓覺前咬自己睡袍的HAT,之前的們沒有發覺,但這幾天HOT了,不能用該種SLEEPING BAG,我們方知問題所在.幸好今次我先生和工人也認同了我上次的做法,他們並沒有再則問我的做法,而這幾天我又要忍受BB睡前的哭聲,因為沒有了HAT他又不會睡,今天已經是第四天了,他又開始正常了.所以這種方法的成功在於大人是否能忍.但目的是要寶寶有一個好的睡眠HABIT,並非因為我們不想哄他睡.

If your boy cried for long, will u give him some water?

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發表於 06-3-11 19:49 |只看該作者

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aggie_to 寫道:

And I forgot to say, I use safety pin to 扣一塊毛巾, which 我攬住瞓一兩晚 (扣喺自己pajamas裡面, make sure have my scent), at my bb's mattress; so that if she wakes up in the middle of a nap/ sleep, she'd sleep back more easily on her own. She sometimes chew it, I change it every two days...

My son is 10months old ! I doubt if this method work to him. :-( :-(

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發表於 06-3-11 21:32 |只看該作者

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bbpooh,
I think you do a very sensible way to schedule your boy.
My girl also has a kind of time table need to follow everyday. If my girl wake up in the mid of night, I will first chk whether she is sick or not. If not sick, I'll sing song to her, but never carry her to sleep. If she still cry, I'll let her cry for 20mins or more until she's tired then repeat the procedure of sing song.
You were so right that we need to 忍忍忍........忍.....忍..........忍忍忍忍..................

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發表於 06-3-11 21:37 |只看該作者

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tingfai,
I sometimes also give some water for bb if she cry for a long time!

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發表於 06-3-11 21:57 |只看該作者

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tingfai :

Here is my suggestion to you:

1. Without your husband support, are you sure you can convince your 99 to follow your way?

Since not many elderly want to hear the baby crying esp for 99. Without your husband consent, I think it is difficult to convince your 99. I suggest explaining and convincing your hubby is the first important thing.

2. I havent read the information from your mentioned website. Since I learnt the method from a Christian book. The book emphasis the parents should decide what the baby should do and not the baby. The book against the concept of "feed on demand". It emphasis parents should build a timetable for the baby and ensure it have enough food/milk in the day time so that it will not wake up at night for milk.

With the above, you need to build a timetable for the baby - 24hr schedule. and not only train the baby in the night time. I mean you need to train him even at the day time.

3. If your baby is sleeping with your 99, I wonder how you can let your baby cries in the midnight. Besides, I dont think it is a good idea for your baby to sleep with adult. Even if sleeping with adult, I think he should slepp with you instead (to build up the parents and child relationship)

4. Even my boy cries in the midnight. I will also let him cry for a while until I cannot tolerate say 15 min. Since my boy will not cry due to wet pamper. He only cry for a hug. If he cry non-stop, I will check the pamper and kiss him and leave. If I am very tied that day, I will just put him on our bed and let him drink the milk. (not a good practice but sleepy ma....... Ha Ha)

5. I have trained my boy since he is 4 months. But one mama in the bk ( in the Christian forum) told me she adopt the method since her child was 10 months. For me, I think it is a bit late to train your child now. But I do think the method still work for your child. You only need more and more patient. PATIENT is the clue to success!

6. It is like a hell in the first few day when you adopt this method. But your baby will be very happy and healthy afterwards. For the babysitter, it will be a paradise when the method is success.

Good Luck!

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發表於 06-3-11 21:59 |只看該作者

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tingfai 寫道:

If your boy cried for long, will u give him some water?

Never, I think the best thing to sooth baby is direct feeding!

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發表於 06-3-11 21:59 |只看該作者

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tingfai 寫道:
aggie_to and bbpooh,

...

If he still wake up in the midnight, should I hug him or just let him cry until he feel tired and sleep by himself?

My hubby is on trip these days. This is a good timing to train up my son as my hubby will feel so
忟憎 if bb cried in midnight!

Could you two give me some advice?

I am no expert in this and my bb isn't as easy as bbpooh's boy. And her problem is just on napping, she sleeps well at nite, each 4-5 hours, wakes for feeding only. But if I were you, I'd try to train bb to sleep on his own after last meal, I think it's easier to train him b4 sleep rather than waking up in the mid. Besides, it's still early in time and this disturb every one less.

It's not that difficult, because he's certainly or almost fallen asleep, what you have to do is hold him up for a while, see him just started to wake up, not so "up", then put him in bed and say good nite, he may babble a little but should be sleeping in no time.

If he wakes up in the middle of the nite, just babbling or "yee-yee-ah-ah", weeping but not crying out loud, I won't go to him. If he does cry out loud, I'll check on him, if he's ok in every sense but just need your comfort, I'll sing to him, pat on him until he's calm. If he still cries out loud insist for a hug or so, I'll hold him, sing to him and rock him for a little, until he's sleepy, then put him down; repeat until I win...

Haha, maybe stupid but this method suits me because I found out using the hard way to my daughter doesn't really work, my bottomline is that I don't let my bb sleep in my arms/ breasts (if so, she'd wake up soon after I leave her in her cot), 10-15 mins of rocking/ singing is ok. She does sleep more these days, each nap 30 mins-2 hours.

Try to find one method suitable for both you and your boy. Wish you all the best, share with us if you need so.

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發表於 06-3-11 22:01 |只看該作者

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diaperb

By the way, do your baby's stool still show blood? Last time you mention the reason for this is the tissue paper in wiping baby's pat pat, right? If so, I suggest you should use cotton instead.

diaperb 寫道:
bbpooh,
I think you do a very sensible way to schedule your boy.
My girl also has a kind of time table need to follow everyday. If my girl wake up in the mid of night, I will first chk whether she is sick or not. If not sick, I'll sing song to her, but never carry her to sleep. If she still cry, I'll let her cry for 20mins or more until she's tired then repeat the procedure of sing song.
You were so right that we need to 忍忍忍........忍.....忍..........忍忍忍忍..................

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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2005年既奶媽,

ＧＬＥＮＤＡ豬呢幾日一食奶（埋身，佢唔肯食奶樽）就喊，餓到狂喊都唔食！佢唔似病，雖然有ｗｏｒｒｙ過（因為我ｆｌｕ，但日日得我１個湊），點算？我見到佢咁我好”赤” :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(

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發表於 06-3-12 00:27 |只看該作者

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bbpoon & aggie_to,

你哋啲英文又長又深, 我

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Hellocandy 寫道:
bbpoon & aggie_to,

你哋啲英文又長又深, 我

2

乜樹玩『鴨腸』呀？

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basilmama 寫道:
2005年既奶媽,

ＧＬＥＮＤＡ豬呢幾日一食奶（埋身，佢唔肯食奶樽）就喊，餓到狂喊都唔食！佢唔似病，雖然有ｗｏｒｒｙ過（因為我ｆｌｕ，但日日得我１個湊），點算？我見到佢咁我好”赤” :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(

不如去睇睇doc好d~
我b之前都係咁...

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發表於 06-3-12 05:06 |只看該作者

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Matthew仔發燒呀！同佢搏鬥左成日~:-( :-(

眼見佢食藥前後個分別，真係好心痛！

等等再講...死99次次見我泵奶就出廳睇電視

房又唔係無，玩哂野咁
搞到我而家"呢咁hair"...

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