getting along with mother-in-law is not easy... ?-( and most difficult for me is to guess what she is thinking of now!!! ?-( ?-( ?-( coz she likes to do something in the face of people but have some hidden aims behind... and as a smart daughter-in-law, you must need to understand... otherwise!!!!! ohhhhh noooooo
my mother-in-law said she would not help me to take care Joshua since we told her that I was pregnant ... she just 'threw' a sum of cash to my mom and then 'close file'... even though I back to her home for dinner once a week... no special dishes/ soups will be made for me... all she cooked were favour for her daughters only
Well... I gave her a big big 'thank you'... coz she did not concern my family... but things seem not so simple... sooner I found that she was angry??? coz she was thinking of her only son used to give lots of financial support to my parents' family... and so she was then always said she had headache and sleepless nites...
After I delivered my baby, she viisted me twice in the hospital... and again, threw a sum of cash to my mom (by that time we were having lunch altogether and she really 'throw' a pack of cash to my mom's seat!!!) and said 'buy something for her to eat la'... and she brought me half cooked chicken... (not home made, just brought from nearby shop!!!).,..and some soup...and that's all!!!
two weeks ago, while I fired my bun, my husband called her to help me taking care bb, she said 'I was busy coz my local maid will come tomorrow, no time...' and then hanged up the phone... and this time my husband had 'booked' her in advance for a week and then she came... ?-(
and so far we get married, my mother in law only visited my home for 5 times... haha...
or if sometimes we don't want to go to her home for dinner (she lives in Tuen Mun)... then she will say 'don't come for dinner... ' then dropped the phone...
SEEEEEEE....... at first I feel not happy but now... okay luuuu...
"and so far we get married, my mother in law only visited my home for 5 times... haha" <-- 我奶奶一次都冇, 有左之後我搬返娘家住直至生, 我奶奶都係上過我娘家5次, 但係2個月前, 佢就一步都唔會上我屋企, 事源係佢好鍾意係bb面前亂講野e.g. 病, bb唔肯訓之類說話, 咁.......我又係一個婆仔, 好怕bb小氣, 咁......終於在某日, 我忍無可忍, 好言相對, 叫佢唔好係bb面前亂講野, 點知......佢向我老公投訴話我唔尊重佢, 以後唔會再上人地屋企, 乜都要睇人地頭 ?-(
I bought the Mustela (canny recommended one) and Adam's aqueous cream at Causeway Bay's Watsons (the one in Ca Din Fong). Aqueous cream needs to go to the counter and ask the 藥劑師. For Mustela, it is just on the shelf.
Buying things for Alicia is my new habit.... and... the truth is that......................................
she is too fat and no trousers fit her big tummy... it is more comfortable for her to wear dress