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[2006年] 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己攞匙羹食嘢？ [複製鏈接]

ky2005

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Re: 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己攞匙羹食嘢？

zero,
你唔洗咁傷心~
我自己都係在職媽媽, 平時都無咩時間照顧囡囡, 今年新年後仲大住個肚, 之前仲入埋院, 講真, 都幾個月無乜點照顧個囡, 順其自然喇~ 你可以試下自己都唔好餵囝囝, 等佢自己食, 我比較衰... 小朋友食少d, 唔會餓親~ 我成日同個囡講, 自己食飯自己飲水, 第時無人照顧架, 返學都無人幫架~ 我似乎真係幾衰~ haha~

zzerong626 寫道:
ky2005
我咪係羅，成日苦口婆心禁叫工人唔好餵囝囝，比多D機會比囝囝自己食，點知最後又係餵晒，我已經講左不下十次啦！最慘係我返到屋企，已經成9點，佢都食完晒啦，都睇唔到。我好辛苦:-( ，如果係自己揍，係咪可以control得好d啦！

最近又解釋佢知點解要禁做，係想囝囝要知道食野係自己的事，要佢自己食返，咪可以專心禁食，唔使坐係highchair都要一路玩一路食啦！ :tongue: 佢根本就覺得食野係大人迫佢姐，佢都唔想。

卒之星日無出街時係屋企試，點知原來囝囝係唔想pickup spoon，但同大人食飯時，佢都好主動禁想pickup all the tools wor? 尤其係筷子啦！成日都想學大人。

最後我咪比佢自己食左兩羹咪又要餵返羅。可能佢想自己食的敏感期過左啦！ :-( 好難教返！好痛苦！ :-( 唯有又好阿Q禁同自己講唔好比禁多壓力比囝囝同自己，順其自然啦！

或者隔兩日又再試，如果我係到我就實再找機會比佢試，一見佢想拎起spoon就打蛇隨掍上，再唔係佢用手食都係一個好的開始啦！好多野因為禁而拖遲晒進度，有好多野係有心無力架！好痛苦！好痛苦！好痛苦！好痛苦！ :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(

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YukiMommy

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發表於 07-6-26 04:29 |只看該作者

Re: 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己攞匙羹食嘢？

Hi ladies,

Don't be sooooo sad. Your kids will learn.

I am also a Montessori mother and both my daughters are trained in the montessori way.

You have to remember one thing very very very important in the montessori theory....LEARN AT THEIR OWN PACE!!!!!

My first daughter did not feed herself until 2.5-3 yrs old. I am a stay-home-mom since day 1. I was ALWAYS around my first daughter and tried to teach her at all opportunities, but she was just not interested. Until 2.5-3yrs old, she suddenly felt that she had grown up and decided to do it herself.

On the contrary, my second daughter started to feed herself (also a 0601 baby) since 11 months. She basically finish the whole meal herself now.

BUT, I DO NOT COMPARE THEIR PROGRESS!!! They have their own pace and interest.

Just keep trying and make it a relaxing time. If you are upset and frustrated, the baby will know that. They will then think meal time is actually a battle time.

Trust me, if you are responsible, they will learn and become great kids. Have faith in your child.

YukiMommy

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YSWONG18

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發表於 07-6-26 09:37 |只看該作者

Re: 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己攞匙羹食嘢？

我又嚟報到先。

俾SPOON阿桐佢都係玩多，手勢錯咗教佢又發脾氣，但係我哋都會俾多份餐具少少飯佢自己'畢'吓嘅，

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pwypaulina

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hi YukiMommy,

thx for your advice & sharing with us your experience!!

being a mom is not easy & a lifelong task, but when one day we see our kids grow up & have progresses in various areas, we will be so happy

just wait & see...i understand we can't force or push the kids to accomplish our goals in a short time...

we support each other @ 0601

cheers,
pau pau

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啤梨媽媽

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Re: 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己

我未俾一一自己用匙羹食喔, 只係同佢玩煮飯仔時, 咋帝用匙羹食&用柸飲 lor, 都似模似樣

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Re: 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己

澄澄都係咁

PETER太寫道:
peter囝.....係食兩啖,跟住搶走隻羹, 然後拷隻碗....
如果佢"but"d飯飯, 佢會請我或婆婆食, 唔係自己食。一係就咬住隻羹....
比佢揸住左隻羹, 就死都唔肯比番我.....
星期六要去幼潛已經鬼死咁趕, 佢重向度玩....

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zzerong626

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Re: 多唔多0601 BBs仲未識得自己攞匙羹食嘢？

LittlePigmom, paupau, minnelli, ky2005
好在有你地安慰，開心左好多！

多謝！

ky2005
唔衰，我都係禁！

YukiMommy
thanks for your great sharing!

但都係個句，身不由己！我會keep 住哦我工人要點做＜隔山打牛！
兼一有假期就試多d。最緊要唔好比deadline自己（They have their own pace and interest. < Right!!!)

其實佢隻衰囝係見到生果都眼都金埋，好主動兼搶禁食，我唸d野食唔岩佢好味卦！＜阿媽煮得唔好食。 :lol: