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21#
發表於 07-9-26 23:02 |只看該作者
Socloudy,
you r so EQ high too. i wish i could be like u. i also understand it is very important to socialize with the coworkers but i just feel the topics they r talking r really boring.....


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22#
發表於 07-9-28 04:01 |只看該作者
Hi all,
I was worked for 2 companies after graduated, so far I didn't have very bad experiences with co-workers :-P , but hostnestly, discriminate就假o, but perhaps I work in IT field, definitely have more minority people, a lot of them have a strong accent when they speak English. o地剩係覺得我quiet o, 最緊要show到自己係做到o, o地就唔會"呀之呀左", 好似我上一份job, 我知o個白鬼仔唔係好like, 但就唔敢得罪我, 因我同o個鬼婆director好好, start時都係under paid, 但唔係因我係Asian, 而係佢o地知我just graduated, 但後來我同佢o地講話想transfer to other department, 就加o左成萬蚊俾我. 宜家呢份工o的人事仲easy and simple o, 係因為small company and I am the only girl in the department mar


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23#
發表於 07-9-28 09:00 |只看該作者
Alisonli,
我都有好多好悶或好competitive嘅同事.我通常都笑住轉話題or扮忙.因為同d同事唔夾仲慘咗同老細唔啱呀!我出咗嚟做工都10年喇,迫住学識e d表面工夫

vivi ma,
係唯一個女仔就好啦!唔会有太多是非.而且做IT,真係好多印度同唐人.


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24#
發表於 07-9-29 13:39 |只看該作者
Rose-mag, socloudy, alisonli, vivi_ma
夏威宜亞洲文化當道, 所以呢度啲人唔鍾意白人, 不過唔鍾意還唔鍾意, 佢地通常都位居要職. 日本人就最掌權同有錢. 我聽聞有日本人公司, 一見個求職者係白人, 就即刻話已經請左人, 打發個白人走. 我啲同事就成日講笑話笑白人, 啲白人同事有時都幾無癮. 我住果邊係local 夏威夷人多, 如果白人單獨黎我呢邊既沙灘, 佢地分分鐘有危險. 因為本地人覺得佢地搶左呢個地方. 呢度啲人就stereotype 唐人似猶大人, 孤寒, 算死草, 慳憸. 但每次都係講笑咁話financial dept 啲人係chinese, 但因為我知佢地係玩, 我都會笑. 對我黎講, 識管錢係正面既stereotype.

Socloudy, 你好堅呀, 我成日都慣左逆來順受, 成日戇居居, 唔識爭取. 我要以你為榜樣.

Vivi_ma, 你真幸福, 我公司就相返, 三十個人, 得一個係男人. 佢埋得女人埋多, 都其實似女人多啲. 哈哈


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25#
發表於 07-9-29 15:37 |只看該作者
Muimui,
其实我一d都唔堅.為咗e+份工都唔知喊咗幾多次,幾年前因為壓力大想辭職.成日俾老細擺上枱玩辦工室政治,朝早一返工就好depress,放工時就對hubby complain.真係俾個老細玩殘.好彩佢得罪人多,大話多同是非多.俾我同d同事收集政據,終於佢上司强迫老細轉去legal (佢本身係attorney).等d律師同律師鬥,佢做1年就捱唔到,咗工.
我都係e2年先有好日子過,不過傳聞公司要lay off員工.應該都会炒1千幾百人!我就算唔俾人炒但花紅小d我都唔知點算.:-(


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26#
發表於 07-10-1 07:20 |只看該作者
The worse thing is working in a Chinese company in here!!!! 2 years ago, I worked in a company owned by HK investors (the real owner is a Malaysian and the set up come from HK). The CEO comes from HK and quite a lot of workers come from HK or China. Many of them were new immigrants. What I think and was told that the company was quite new so the pay was minimal at that time. The CEO told me that once the company is running better, all of us will be rewarded. In fact, all the workers were used as low-wage workers - minimum wage, no OT (but were requested to do so), minimum benefits, under micro-management. What the CEO think was that new immigrants want to have jobs, dare to complain, ignorant on their benefits. So, he treated us so bad and he even was so stupid to say something which got him into troubles on discrimination lawsuits. People working there earned so little but still played so hard on politics (I don't think that it worths to play politics with such a low pay!!!).
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27#
發表於 07-10-2 01:12 |只看該作者
want to quit so bad.. aiya. ...chinese r always working hard but not socializing well enough la...my so called assitant wants to take my job so badly so she team up with my head and then gave me back some of the work..:~ i guess i should really be looking...i think they all spend 80% talking and 20% working ......i mean i work and finish early cuz i want to get home to my kids but i guess i should pretend to have alot of work and stay late just like the others..............


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28#
發表於 07-10-2 02:17 |只看該作者
Alisonli,
你边個幫你湊仔?其实老細唔理我哋做到幾多嘢,最緊要係OT時間長.咁佢哋就覺得下屬勤力,咁成個team先会look good.但有family嘅人点可以成日加班吖,真係無兩全其美.不過你份工又有flexible hours.搵過咁嘅工都唔易.
我依家份工又係要攪好人事關係.老細鐘意有人倍佢食lunch.所以我哋成team人就日日响埋一齊.如果自己出去搵friend食多幾次lunch就好似背叛咗嗰team咁.真係都幾煩.不過我響度呻完就,記住只会upset到自己.


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29#
發表於 07-10-2 02:24 |只看該作者
Rose-mag,
講起micro-management我就最驚.以前跟依种老細就最做唔到嘢.剩係報告俾佢知同morning team meeting都一日冇咗起碼2個鈡.有時等佢講下話又要坐响佢office又多粒鈡.我以前OT得多就因為要waste d 時間去等老細available & report俾佢


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30#
發表於 07-10-2 05:11 |只看該作者
socloudy,
my boss has no kids and my other head was not even married.. i guess if I want to be successful in my career i have to give up my family life haha. ......you have given me good advise however i dont know if i could be like u la......i am not good in office politics la...i have a nanny to take care of my kids..let's not get to that............another headache...my sister in law told me that kids grow up fast and mom should give up our career for our kids.....making me feel guilty .............


原文章由 socloudy 於 07-10-2 02:17 發表
Alisonli,
你边個幫你湊仔?其实老細唔多理我哋做到幾多嘢,最緊要係OT時間長.咁佢哋就覺得下屬勤力,咁成個team先会look good.但有family嘅人点可以成日加班吖,真係無兩全其美.不過你份工又有flexible hours.要搵過咁 ...


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31#
發表於 07-10-2 09:47 |只看該作者
Alisonli,
其实要give up自己嘅career真係唔易.首先個老公要搵好多$令自己同子女生活質素無問題.如果只係打算係小朋友頭三、五年要媽咪stay at home照顧.之後又要再返工嘅,自己分分鐘要降職,心理關口唔易過.sister-in-law認為做阿媽嘅應該睇住子女嘅成長.咁做爸爸嘅呢?佢哋無責任嘅咩?做working mom嘅我已經要搵份flexible嘅工可以方便照顧小朋友,又要bring income返屋企.如果班親戚仲要阿之阿左令我feel guilty嘅話,我一定俾番話佢聽.我唔需要佢明白我嘅處鏡,但佢都唔應該講d令我唔comfy嘅說話.


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32#
發表於 07-10-2 22:28 |只看該作者
socloudy,
u know some women r so lucky that their husband just give them alot to spend so she wont understand our situation cuz they never need to work. i'd rather work than asking my husband for $ cuz he will give me attitude saying i am materialistic....




原文章由 socloudy 於 07-10-2 09:47 發表
Alisonli,
其实要give up自己嘅career真係唔易.首先個老公要搵好多$令自己同子女生活質素無問題.如果只係打算係小朋友頭三、五年要媽咪stay at home照顧.之後又要再返工嘅,自己分分鐘要降職,心理關口唔易過.你sister ...


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33#
發表於 07-10-3 11:43 |只看該作者
夏威夷呢邊既politics 都好犀利, 我地每年公司既籌款宴, 啲同事要用成晚時間去決定邊個唔可以同邊個坐. 好慘 但又真係好無謂.

So cloudy, 傳聞唔好信住呀. 就算係真既, 到時去搵工, 都唔怕, 因為唔係你工作能力唔好而走, 而係公司大裁員.

Rose-mag, 你講問唐人公司好似粵語殘片既無良僱主咁呀.

Alisonli, 唔好學佢地咁呀, 為左佢地啲無聊人而犠牲左同家人既時間唔抵呀, 你準時走係你應得架, 因為你work hard . 我啲所謂下屬都唔聽話, 啲好既同事建議我要做一個bitxh去對付佢地, 但我做唔出, 所以我己經著手搵工. 已經send左三封信勒. 我都認同so cloudy 既講法, 又要返工, 又要揍仔, 老公又唔幫手, 咁同single mom 有咩分別呀? 為改善生活質素而搵錢, 唔等於唔錫仔女. 短既quality time 仲好過溜溜長, 唔知同啲仔女做咩好. 我覺得既然daycare/school 入面既人係professional, 而我自已唔係, 做咩唔俾professional 既人教我既小朋友, 我相信如果我自己教歷仔, 一定無咁好既效果, 如果好似你sister in law 咁講, 叫佢home schooling佢啲仔女到highschool.


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34#
發表於 07-10-3 21:57 |只看該作者
muimui
hawaii is such a nice place, u r so lucky =) . i wish i could live there but everything is so expensive...anyway, i think office politics is everywhere la. was thinking of staying in this company for the rest of my life tim...i guess i really have to start looking again...
homeschooling is a good one. would let her know if she "inch" me again..just dont understand why those stay at home mom has so much time to critize working mom....



原文章由 muimui313 於 07-10-3 11:43 發表
夏威夷呢邊既politics 都好犀利, 我地每年公司既籌款宴, 啲同事要用成晚時間去決定邊個唔可以同邊個坐. 好慘 但又真係好無謂.

So cloudy, 傳聞唔好信住呀. 就算係真既, 到時去搵工, 都唔怕, 因為唔係你工作能力唔 ...


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35#
發表於 07-10-3 23:14 |只看該作者
Alison,
我諗妳sister in law係到"曬命"jar , o地出o黎做o野都係為oo個屋企, 有多oincome, 唔係想做女強人, 趁宜家可以搵幾多就幾多mar, 同埋如果做full time mom couple years, 好難go back to the job market gar lar, 唔好剩係覺得佢自己好偉大, o地冇犧牲先得kar

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-10-2 05:11 發表
socloudy,
my boss has no kids and my other head was not even married.. i guess if I want to be successful in my career i have to give up my family life haha. ......you have given me good advise howeve ...


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36#
發表於 07-10-4 01:17 |只看該作者
muimui,
haha, yes, this employer is really bad but still exists. Guess why the company would close in SF cos' it cannot make any money yet. It has been opened since 2004 in SF, a Chinese newspaper originated in HK, do you get a cue what it's ?

Alison,
Homeschooling may or may not work. My hubby has a friend whose wife has homeschooled her 2 kids at home until high school. Then, she died of cancer. Her son is really smart but he cannot cope with challenge from the outside world. My hubby gave him his cousin's phone # who is a professor in university and this young man could not even make a call to talk to my hubby's cousin. Homeschooling lacks the chance of socialization for the kids. Although I also want to take care of my kids, teach them by myself, the reality is that I need to earn money so that my kids can have a better quality of living and chance to go for further study financially. Also, stay at home mom also has her own issues. My sister is a full-time mom and her son is really good but she always feel left-out and so bored when the son is at school. Especially, when we reach a certain age, finding a good job is difficult. If we stop now and try to get one some years later, that mean we have to restart later on. I sometimes feel guilty that I leave my son to my mom and I cannot teach him in my way (you know, even your mom may not follow your ways) but what can I do?
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37#
發表於 07-10-4 07:58 |只看該作者
Rose-mag,
我個仔依家俾我阿爸教,但佢教導方法同我都有出入.不過我都要settle.起碼我知佢係錫個孫.好過請d不負責任嘅nanny.

Alisonli,
实注重物質都冇問題.最緊要有能力,屋企d bills要俾到同埋要儲定小朋友d學費.雖然我依家份incomeok,after all these expenses都所餘無幾.所以我有份所謂嘅”part time”,用嚟買我鐘意嘅.要問老公買我都唔想

Muimui,
我都好認同你嘅講法,professional人教小朋友真係好d.之前Corey唔識講嘢去表達自己.therapist教咗3個月就識A to Z and 1 to 10!雖然speech skill都係慢過佢age嘅小朋友,但都over 100 words.俾我教真係冇咁好既效果


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38#
發表於 07-10-7 07:28 |只看該作者
各位媽咪, 我最近check university of hawaii 啲工, 因為員工每個學期有六個credit唔駛錢, 唔駛錢讀書, 睇到我心郁郁, 又有daycare, 所以, 我係工都apply. 哈哈, 但如果俾我入到, 我就唔會再轉工. 希望有著落啦. 不過就真係好遠好遠, 仲遠過我而家份工. 起碼35mile 一程. 一定塞車塞到傻呀.

Alisonli, 我都認同vivi_ma, sister-in-law 咁講都係晒命, 但係佢地唔記得, 我地出黎做野, 對社會好有貢獻, 淨係交稅都惠澤唔少窮人啦.


Rose_mag, 中文報紙? 星島?

So cloudy, corey 咁叻仔, 歷仔都係遲啲. 佢都未識哂a-z, 1-10. 每次數數目都就3 開始, 都唔知點解. 哈哈.


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發表於 07-10-7 09:19 |只看該作者
Muimui,
如果Corey叻就唔會依家developmentbehind同齡小朋友啦!其实佢睇得卡通卡教ABC,所以先識.
入到University of Hawaii都好好,不過我最怕讀書.大学個幾年一考final我就stress到發燒.


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發表於 07-10-8 01:41 |只看該作者
原文章由 muimui313 於 07-10-7 07:28 發表
各位媽咪, 我最近check 緊university of hawaii 啲工, 因為員工每個學期有六個credit唔駛錢, 唔駛錢讀書, 睇到我心郁郁, 又有daycare, 所以, 我係工都apply. 哈哈, 但如果俾我入到, 我就唔會再轉工. 希望有著落啦. ...


Not Sing Tao. Another from HK. I don't think that it is available in Hawaii but should be available in NY, Vancouver, SF.
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