yes ... many maids like to 自把自為~ as they stay home all day.. eventually, they really treat like this is her home and she just run it any way she likes.
you need to pay close attention to her from now on .. especially the way she treats your bb .. as BB will start to stick with either mom or maid starting 4-5 months old.. once the BB picked the one... BB will stick with that person until 1.5 year old... Many moms said it's okay as BB will know who is mom eventually.. but myself, I don't think I like to go home after a long day of work and see my baby follows the maid only .... besides, now it's the precious time of baby.. they are so cute and lovely.. why let the maid takes the good precious time of your baby?
As for her way to ar sir... I think as long as your relationship with your husband is close, you don't have to worry much... ar sir likes maid is very rare... I don't think our husbands are that low taste lor... if he can like a foreign maids... then we probably need to worry more if we travel to any Asia Countries....
since your maid just worked for half year at your place.. she is starting to test how easy she can affect your family... maybe not to take over your place.. but she probably wants to strenghten her position (like if baby likes her soo much and only follow her.. then she will be more important at your home la.. even dining out.. she seems more supreme but not only a maid la)
My ex-yan told my BUn (within the same house) exactly the same thing and the Bun told me all these. Her attitude is always like that: whenver I complain at her she would only treat that its because I'm jealous of her beauty and hse never has the heart to correct herself. That's why I fired her at last.
講真,有時我都jeslous我工人靚過我,後生過我,fit過我......,最衰係佢人品都好過我,做家務又醒過我,攪到我無得發佢圍,想搵d野鬧下佢都無位入添!:lol :lol :lol
(佢唔會姣我老公,反而會同我同一陣線,睇實我老公點湊女,有無危險動作,所以我工人同我老公講得最多個句係:No Sir! No Sir! It's dangerous, Sir! It is no good to Mui Mui, Sir!)
My ex-maid is the same, no husband but has a son. Everytime she goes out w/us, she always look at the man on the street. Some of them she stare for long time until I call her. At summer, she wear VERY 低胸 T-shirt and the back has little cloth at home. She has big breast aroung E cup. Lucky, my husband never have a close look at any maid. His criteria is very high. Maid no way!!!