If I were you, I will not meet her in China, ask her in HK, otherwise, no talk. Pretend you do not care even your son. If she feel you are very care your son and her, she will ask for any unreasonable requests. It is nightmare, settle it as legal as possible. The only way is by law.
Johnnywalker - Q1. It is concerning for this issue.
Q2. When my son is 16 year old, she wants me to bring my son to study in Australia.
Q3. Her parent is living in China's countryside.
Finally, I met her in China and discuss issues with her for a few hours on Saturday. She is suspicious and stubborn person. Because she was living in China’s Countryside. She imaged our relationship was over and did not feel more loved from me, bullied her and I was given all love to my son. I explained to her I loved both of them and told her that don’t worried too much and don’t be silly. She did not listen. She said you need to go to my hometown and explain everything to my parent. Otherwise, I do not let you go to see your son. She will wait for me in her hometown.
I am thinking that I will take a few days off and go to her hometown after Mid-Autumn Festival.
The baby is lovely. But your wife request doesn't make sense, how can the baby live with her in countryside n able to cope with Australia curriculum when he turned 16?
I think u should conduct a DNA test, it will cost you several thousands. Give something to please her and request her to bring baby to ocean park or Disneyland , something like that, and collect the sample and send it to lab to analyse. There are plenty in Hong Kong, u can check yourself, good luck.
I agreed your point. She is childish and silly. She only completed high school in China.
My son absolutely looks likes me. Don't conduct DNA Test.
I will go to her hometown and discuss with her family regarding this issue.
I read some articles.
we have in the Father’s Rights area of the law is what happens when a wife wants to move out of the house and take the children with her. She has no right to do so because as a married couple, both of you have the same legal rights to joint physical custody and joint legal custody to the kids.
I really want to recover our marriage. Anyway, I will try my best and see what is going.