My hus has 2 elder sisters so i have 2 sis-in-law. The elder one is far OK and understanding but the younger one is excellently troublesome. She is much much much more annoying than any of my in-laws.
I could only use english to type as she may also visit here and she's only studied up to form three that may not be able to read my article.
1st event
When i got married, i once paid visit to the house of the eldest brother of my hubby. My hus wanted to stay there for bed and talk with his brother but i didn't. I insisted him to go home with me and we had a cold war then. My mother was also there playing Mahjong with my parents-in-law. This lady used a parent tone to asked my hus the TEACH me. Oh! What the hell is that it was none of her business.
2nd event
Last Ching Ming, after going to visit the graveyard. She voiced out in front of the whole family (in-laws) that all are going to our home without first asked my permission. I didn't want to disappointed my parent-in-law and accepted sliently. Yet, after arrival, she keep asking why my home was so messy with all the bed not tidied-up. Is it my maid too lazy? It's again none of her business. My whole family went to Disney the day b4 and we went out for the Ching Ming stuff early at 5am that day. To treat my maid as a human, i didn't demand her to do much household chaos and didn't expected a flock would come.
3rd event
It was my parent-in-laws Golden Anniversary. We ordered a good dinner at Peking House. Because of limited seat, i was told that every one should not bring the maid. My girl was only 2yr2mth, my hus undertook to care her for the dinner. Yet, after arrival, i saw her maid sitting at the table with her 2 kids (aged 11 and 8 then) serving them. I was very angry as someone bleach the agreement.
4th event
Everytime there is a family event, if it's organized by my family (usually me), she would critize every minor things to show her superiority.
There are still many events that could not be listed here in details.
With my pre-agreement with the hus, i would not directly conflict with her so as not to embarass the seniors. Yet, everytime i would blame my hus after the event. Hubbie always comfort me by saying the she had already had her hus got EMA and wanted to divorce her, try not to be too calculating towards her!
This lady was just 14 month older than my hubbie and always showed to be a senior to my family. However, as the eldest daughter of my maiden family, I well understand how an elder sister should behave and since my young age, no one could instruct me to do this and that. I told my husband, if she kept like that, i would not respect her anymore in the future.