sorry, I am just passing by. Actually I
have the similar case with u, but of
course not the same. Every family has
their own difficulty.
I understand your concern and sadness.
But it seems that you have no economic
problem whatever u have split with yr
husband or not (as your husband need
to bear with the living fee after divorced
and think u have ability to find the job)
But the most important thing is how
deep is u love him, if he really correct,
will u able to give him one more chance
but without recalling any previous bad
experience on him. If u can do that
(make sure that u can do that), then
I think it is okay to give him a chance,
then u can make your life more easier.
Maybe u can give yourself a specific time
to see how's going on, and then make
up your mind.