31 years old - 1st child born in the year 2012, took us 1 year to conceive naturally.
43 years old - unplanned pregnancy, now 6 weeks, only took us 2 unsafe sexual intercourses to bingo. Which is totally out of my expectation.
My cycle is not predictable, varies from 28 - 36 days, once in a while it can goes up to 45 days.
My husband would love to have a second child. But I have too much concerns:
Is it too big gap for both children? And my age is also my concern, by the time the child finish university, I am already 65 years old. Financial insecurity is the major concern because I just lost my job 6 months ago, that's mean I wont be able to return to work until next September due to this pregnancy. Thinking of these problems make me want to do an abortion.
Sorry that I don't know how to type in Chinese, but I can read...