原文章由 lily07 於 20/3/2008 11:41 AM 發表
bun bun啱來我都對佢無咁鬆,做錯野會同佢講我既要求,吾知是否因此佢對bb(歲半)很冷淡愛理不理,bb同佢講野佢吾出聲,我再三同佢講bb正開始學講野,如佢吾出聲會令bb吾想學講野,就好似你同我講野,我吾出聲,你都吾再同我 ...
I also wanted to add, as a boss, you should identify if this kind of inappropriate behaviors come with ill-intention or not.
If your maid is inexperienced and on the whole still behaves properly and respects you and your spouse, that's fine then. (But you still need to let her know what you prefer.)
If you maid is expereinced and has been gradually doing more inappropriate and disrepectful acts, you may need to find out what underlying messages she is sending to you. E.g., is she not happy with ehr job?
My last maid was very good at first (at one point my husband and I thought we finally found a good maid), then shortly before Chinese New Year, she started to act strangely:
- she always read to my kids on the carpeted floor (where my kids like to sit). Then one day, she suddenly brought them to sat in the love seat (my husband's special spot for relaxation). She laid down on the love seat AND put her bare feet on the tea table IN FRONT OF ME!
- she also one day told me, completely out of the blue, that she loved the quality of the mattress in my master bedroom and added "It was so comfortable lying down there. When I fnish work and go home, I am going to buy one". So, she was telling me that she slept on my bed!
Then, after deliberately saying this kind of inappropriate things to piss me off, she started to say that she needed to go home for a month or so (one day was her son was very sick; another day was her husband had problem she was far away from the family; another day was she wanted to go home just to visit relatives and friends to "play".)
第時請過個,要清楚主僕關係,有不滿即刻開聲話佢,唔好忍,其他媽咪講得岩,bb訓咪安排佢做其他清潔囉,一個家庭大把野洗洗抹抹啦,就算抹密d都得架,有bb度衛生緊要嘛 
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