me too. just try our best to take it easy and don't look too big on everything. maybe all mothers like this: always think our husband are not good enough. i always want my husband to be more care and smart/clever. it seems he's 'kick one, do it'. but when i think deeply, he doesn't know what i'm thinking je. if i ask him to help, he'll do it ge. besides, men are different to women in natural. we have different points of view and value. they may try to understand us but failed. the point is they really can't see what we see. in fact, we also can't see what they see je. try to talk more and help him to understand you, and vice versa. sometimes we may need to accept the fact ga.
I've same feeling. I like to hear that we are the same situation. Sometimes, I suspect I've an emotional problem. I always upset & fustrate.
After my son was born, our relationship is getting worse. My husband always goes to China for business trip in weekday. Although, he stations in H.K. during weekend, he always concentrates in his work. So I should take care my son by myselves.
Every night, I should take my son back to home from my husband's mother. Now my son is 15 mths, I must look after him carefully. I should only take the bath or tidy up the housework after he slept. So I feel very very tired.
I suggest to employ a maid to take a part of duties. However, my husband totally reject what I propose. He querried my ability and time management. There is only a few hours to take care my son every night. Why I can't manage?
Apart from this, he always complaints my attitude, he like me to control my emotion and don't "black face" anymore.
I know, but husband just rejected to employ a maid since he thinks this is a job that every mother is doing, why can't you do that? We only takes a few hours after work to take care the baby(cause baby is take care by a neighbour in day time), so why need a maid?!
But they dont understand that we are really tired after work, and how can we do the maid job and take care baby as well. We are not a superwoman.
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