i also have this experience, it may be there were a lot of changes of our family life, i and my husband always argue .... but afterthen we can getting well ...
RELAX is the most important .....
Thinking a lot of happy things and sharing with your husband.
I have the same experience.
My hubby loves the two daughters much more than me. Seems that I am a servant at home. If I forgot to do any thing or I did anything wrong, he will talk to me very loud. But at the same time, he kisses the babies and talks very gentle to my daughters. I wanted to be loved tooooooo!
I'm trying to forget my feeling. I try to work towards a common goal as him. Love our daughters whole-heartedly and hopefully we can build up our relationship from there.
Things getting better......
Hi, Hi! I've the same experience too. My son is going to be 2 years old next week. I've been angry, sad, frustrated, lonely, helpless and under a lot of pressure for almost 2 years. My husband has completely changed, he loves the baby only when he has time and in the mood. If baby is naughty, he will lose his temper and beat him. Now my son is afraid of changing diaper and cutting his hair, 'cos he was once (or even more) beaten by his dad.
I've talked over & over with him, and of course I've temper too. There's no improvements but getting worse -- I know most of time a person doesn't mean what he/she speaks, especially in times of quarrel. He once mentioned that he hope the baby and I would be dead. So hurt! I could even cry now. I had come throught a lot and putting myself back together again after two operations within these 2 years. I'm so tired!
The only spirit I have now is to take good care of my son......So depressed!