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借個地方呻幾句(更新：公公已經走左) [複製鏈接]

TszHin媽咪

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曲曲,

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Re: 借個地方呻幾句(更新：公公已經走左)

曲曲﹐
我爸爸常問我媽媽為什麼我還沒生孩子﹐媽媽就回說若我決定要孩子就會生﹐我們還後生﹐當然不會這麼快決定。之後爸爸六月去世﹐我常覺得是我久他一個外孫﹐我應該早些有小孩﹐等他可嘗到抱外孫的樂趣﹗現在有了小孩﹐雖然爸爸已不在﹐但常感到爸爸在天堂看著我兩﹐在產房一刻﹐我還感到爸爸在旁支持我呢﹗只要心中還有你公公﹐他就不是真正的離開了﹗

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Re: 借個地方呻幾句(更新：公公已經走左)

曲曲,

I have a same experience with you, my father diagnosis of stage 4 lung cancer about 2 months after my daughter was born, he passed away 4 months later. One of my friend’s mother also diagnosis having stage 4 lung cancer at the same time. As my friend’s mother and her family think that it is not suitable for their mom to have any special treatment (physiotherapy and radiotherapy), Anyhow, she passed away 18 months later. In fact, we understand it is a very high risk for my father to have these special treatments and my father’s body may not be very strong to have the treatment. But he said if he decided not to have treatment, he should have 18moths. It meant he will definitely leave the world in 18 months time, and he didn’t want to give up my life. Unfortunately, his body was very weak after 3 treatments. After my father passed away. My mother was so sad, and she has diagnosis another kind of cancer, and passed away 1 year later.

I can feel what you feel, sometime I myself feel quite alone without my parent around, the relationship between me and my brother is not close, and he is just a money minded person.

On the other hand, I think the God organizes everything. Actually, I moved back to my parent’s place for 6 months because I could stay at home, and I probably have pre-natal depression. And I feel it may be good for them as I spend a lot of time with them and they actually spend sometime with my child after my marriage to my hubby 10 years ago.

Actually, I really cannot organize my logical thinking here as I don’t know how to express my feeling here. I hope u underatand.

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Re: 借個地方呻幾句(更新：公公已經走左)

to 曲曲,

人的生老病死是必經的階段，不要因為這樣而覺得難過。

像我剛剛懷孕那時，我很少回家，因為實在不舒服，但過了這個階段時，我開始回家吃飯，我發現我爸爸的身體日漸消瘦，而且每到晚上睡覺時他的身體（腰部）位置便痛楚，整夜不能睡眠，初時還不太理回，以為是糖尿病而影響，但當我bb出世的時候，我爸爸也不知道自己是不是患了癌症，而他當時又感染了肺癆，直到我bb滿月後，爸爸才正式入院做檢查，最後檢查到他患了胰臟癌，前後也不到一個月便離我們而去了。我當時也在想，如果我知道爸爸因何事而消瘦，我便想盡辦法弄一些能醫治/對抗癌症的食療，但可惜的是我當時正在懷孕，都不想出街，更何況是外家，也許之後我在想點解我對爸爸不太關心，但他離開了，我也感到有憾，但不要將責任推到自己身上，因為我的爸爸在另一個地方已知道他的女兒很疼愛他。其實只要做人問心無愧，不需有遺憾，這是我爸爸教我的。

世間最美妙的事情，就是擁有一個溫馨的家庭。我們可自然從容地回到家中，無拘無束地被家庭接納為其中的成員。 ;-) (維斯各特)

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Re: 借個地方呻幾句(更新：公公已經走左)

曲曲:
你公公的離去.對他來說可能是一種解脫.
你諗0下.佢咁多病痛,係醫院又要這樣那樣.
我0地只係傷風都咁辛苦啦.
所況係咁.
我奶奶去年去世時.我都好傷心.成日一諗起佢就哭.
係哭到收唔到聲果種.係公司都係咁.成日覺的自己好小時間陪佢.無好好咁孝順過佢.(因為佢係鄉下.)好對佢唔住.呢種情況維持0左差不多成2年.
但後來我聽人講.如果佢陽間0的親人因為佢0既離去咁傷心.對佢念念不忘.咁佢就會走的唔安樂.有一種無名的牽制.令佢0既靈魂係陽間流連.落唔到陰間,投唔到胎.係會被人(合)的.
我打咁多唔知道你明唔明.只係想你知道.你都係唔好咁傷心自責0刺.