Thanks chanchan. I understand it\'s not easy to go back to the market later and salary cut is expected. It\'s really a dilemma hope i am more determined when baby is out.
I think you have to go with the feeling of your heart. If you are in doubt, it is probably a decision that you would like to make. If you have a feeling of \"sacrifice\" at this point, it\'s easy to end up blaming your husband to make you a full time mom in future. And that blaming can destroy a relationship. If you fell comfortable to be a full time mom, go with it. But if you prefer working, you should also have confidence that you can take care of both career and family. There are always sacrifice in both choices and others are difficult to judge your choice. Although your husband may have a preference, you may discuss with your partner frankly about your feelings and worries. After all, your husband should support you no matter what. :)
Thanks mate. Had discussed with hubby my feelings and worries, and feel better after the discussion. Though we haven\'t made any decision yet, we trust we can go through it.
我也是上年quit了高薪厚職的position，因为不想请工人。但跟你不同的是我很不喜欢我的工作，是工资好但非常political而且时间长。我跟同事们也没两句，聊的都是很假的话（which i really hated it, the feeling was like i needed to bow and kiss your feet)...
但如果你很喜欢你的工作，那要想好哦。
我没有打算当个c9。因为我也是挺喜欢买衣服打扮的。我都是打算生了小孩，餵好半年人奶就get back to industry (unless真的很不放心小孩）。我觉得out of market 2-3 年还是OK的。其实我觉得如果老公工作很好，老婆不一定要花太長時間在工作上。雖知＄都搵吾完。就拿个平衡吧。小孩也需要你。
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hope i am more determined when baby is out.
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