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你家有冇一個大少一樣的老公 ! [複製鏈接]

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小manman

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原文章由 siufung 於 08-8-22 10:37 發表
但係同左佢一齊, 見佢真係乜都要我, 食食下飯趺左粒落地, 會指住叫你同佢執mouth: 大佬我都爬緊飯0架!! 粒飯0係你腳邊你唔執, 要我放低碗飯兜個大圈同你執, 正妲己!!

你唔係真係咁聽話幫佢執番粒飯,係咪呀???

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哈哈, 我啋佢都傻。
我肯為佢做野, 起碼會合理0羅..... 有0的野過份"柯哥" 同唔合理, 我唔會理佢0架。
慢慢訓練下佢, 佢就開始知道有0的野唔可以咁大少.....

原文章由 小manman 於 08-8-22 13:01 發表

你唔係真係咁聽話幫佢執番粒飯,係咪呀???

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我個c6都係咁, 晚晚都要留飯比佢返黎食, 搞到要洗兩次碗, 做人又冇手尾, d野攞咗出黎, 就係咁, 永遠唔會放返原位架, 我就好似係佢工人, 要幫佢復原. 好似擦完牙咁, 支牙膏咪放返個杯入面囉, 有幾難呀! 但佢就係唔放, 講過幾萬次都係咁, 真係激死呀!

我覺得都係先同居, 睇吓夾唔夾先結婚好d囉!

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"有冇一個大少一樣的老公!"

Yes, similar to my c6 because of 9962. His own family had bun bun when he was born until now !

I understand why he becomes like that when I go to 9962's home because they are also like that as well.

If 62 wants water to drink, he just shouts to bun bun to have water (soup, rice) but the waterbottles/rice cooker are just behind 62's chair & bunbun is busy with other things. My 62 is normal & just in his 50+. Same to my 99 and brother-in-law (age 29 and he only knows cup noodles, even instant noodles need to be cooked by bunbun). How useless !!

After marriage, I started to train my c6. He is a lot better now because we have no maid and I don't do these little things for him.

Now when we go to 62's home for dinner, c6 will stand up & try to go to rice cooker to have 2nd bowl, they all look at him and feel curious ! I think they are

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其實既然你做晒佢又比說話你聽...你叫佢做...佢又係比說話你聽...你自己吞唔落啖氣...咁咪比番d野佢去做...

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原文章由 小manman 於 08-8-22 12:59 發表
所以我認為一開始就唔可以做開個頭,男人係唔寵壞得~~~

yes, 我覺得一定要一開始講清楚囉！
只要一讓步, 就恨錯難返！

好好過每一天......

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我老公雖然歎慣, 但佢絕吾係一個大少爺, 佢會幫手洗下床單(因為有時我m來吾小心整污漕床單, 次次都係老公親自去洗......

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佢會同我分担日常事務, 什至為我們安排晒任何野

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我果件直頭係大爺tim la, but 冇計ga wor, 你係愛佢ge, 就要忍受, 我都忍咗1x年lu

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我老公都好大少,但我自己都唔好得去邊....

不過我6299會做晒全部家務....

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Hi:

我係全職家庭主婦, 家務都係我做晒, 個仔d工課都係我教, 我都覺得應該, 不過最嬲佢仲話我"果樣"做得唔好, "lee 樣" 做得唔好.
d男人係要比d顏色佢睇.

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我老公都係甘,比佢老母縱慣左..又係飯來張口..佢日日整埋生果比個仔,但呢樣我唔會做囉~
我而加都算係全職湊女,家務我做曬,老公番黎,煮好飯,畢好飯比佢,佢d衫褲成日都擺到周圍都係,要我幫佢收拾擺去洗,佢沖涼要我羅埋under擺入廁所比佢.佢食完飯要食甜品我就拿到佢面前..佢話番工辛苦,叫我幫佢dup骨,我都照做...唉,,,我同工人有咩分別..要知道我以前係屋企都係阿媽照顧開,如果我唔係有幫手做家務,你有甘好彩找到個老婆會做曬d家頭細務?!!我今年只係20歲咋....

唉...............我覺得自己真係好蠢.....如果唔係為個女,為頭家,我洗甘辛苦?!但佢都唔知足嫁,,仲成日話我唔係好老婆...
有時d野我做得到就會做..但唔好覺得係老馮甘囉~~我雖然冇穩$$姐,但我都有付出嫁,我老公成日覺得我係屋企好嘆,,我日日做到冇時停嫁,,係個女訓覺我先可以break下...

算啦~申下咪算囉~~

我相信將來會有好既ending既~~
各位媽咪,努力呀~~你地既努力一定會有回報嫁~~

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This is not very uncommon. Especially when it comes to homework of kids, I think over 80% of men are not interested to handle. They would think that this is the kid's own responsibility to take care of his/her homework. Did you read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus? Most men would not bother donkey work. They like to (or pretend) to think big instead of "spending" time on tiny house matters. My c6 is also attached to the sofa after dinner watching DVDs until sleep time and never bothers the kids' school work. If you have done it well, your husband would leave it to you. The reason why he didn't devote any effort on your daughter's homework or housework is that you did it too well. Do you have chance to go for business trips? Try to have a short escape from home, let your C6 to handle the things himself, he would gradually pick up himself. I tried that before, it works!

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回覆 #9 唯愛的文章

我隻C6都係, 飲水都要叫你拎, 我通常扮聽唔到, 佢再叫我咪問返佢點解自己唔拎, 你要飲大可以自己行入廚房拎, 有D事唔好大爺得咁緊要, 衰D叫佢打電話返佢阿媽到, 叫佢阿媽飛過來拎水比佢飲羅

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回覆 #19 pigpig1971 的文章

上BK and 同阿父母講C6的事, 與老公是自己搵是不同, 你唔開心想搵人傾, 但你唔敢驚比人笑, 講左出來, 同一班志同道合的人傾, 講完心情會好唔同, 舒服好多, 我媽媽知道晒我的情況, 所以我同我家人關係越密切, C6就越唔敢蝦我

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原文章由 stephanieching 於 08-8-21 09:24 發表
我相信好多女人都期望結婚是有個可以一起分擔和分享的伴, 但我就嫁著一個長唔大的成四十歲的"大少"(不是指有錢果種喎), 結婚後要照顧成頭家和佢, 我有時真是好難頂 ! 如果你老公是以下咁, 你忍唔忍到 !

1) 結婚無 ...

點解吟多男人都係吟樣的,怕個老婆做唔死吟,做足二十個鐘先夠....講真有時我都好似你吟想,自己都攪得惦,樣樣都要自己去安排,有冇佢都得啦!有時真係好辛苦,自己同個囝住仲冇吟嬲....叫佢做仲慘過乜．．．．講真，我有時同ｄ同事傾開，佢個男友都係褔建人，我唔知係咪ｄ褔建男人係吟的，個個好似大少吟，個亞媽幫你做晒所有野，差ｄ連食飯都要喂埋你，我個大伯仲雖衰，三十幾歲人，未結婚成個白痴仔吟，乜都亞媽亞媽，買條底褲都係亞媽．．有ｄ野係好難改因為佢由細到大都係吟樣生活，個亞媽樣樣都幫佢地做晒，想佢地改，真係有點難．．．．（個人想法）如果我係你我想我真係會帶埋個囡走，唔洗自己吟慘，做了吟多野仲要比佢鬧睇佢面色．．．

[ 本文章最後由 carrievic 於 08-8-23 11:18 編輯 ]

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原文章由 carrievic 於 08-8-23 11:06 發表

點解吟多男人都係吟樣的,怕個老婆做唔死吟,做足二十個鐘先夠....講真有時我都好似你吟想,自己都攪得惦,樣樣都要自己去安排,有冇佢都得啦!有時真係好辛苦,自己同個囝住仲冇吟嬲....叫佢做仲慘過乜．．．．講真，我有時同ｄ同事 ...

一句講哂,都係d阿媽做成~~~

我媽咪都係咁,佢照顧我細佬可以講係無微不至,佢細佬會交鬧鐘,但就從來都只係聽到鬧鐘響就按停再訓過,要我媽咪叫完一次又一次,又問佢想今乜,起左身我媽咪就煮好哂野等佢食,又驚凍左好益,佢細佬打完波d臭衫就永遠都唔會自己攞出黎,要我媽咪幫佢攞,當然係我媽咪洗喇,我細佬份人又無手尾,用完的野永遠都唔會放番原位,我媽咪就次次幫佢執手尾,食晚飯仲好笑,佢成個大爺咁坐係safo度睇電視,成餐飯可以完全唔使離開個位,媽咪幫佢裝飯,問佢想食乜野餸,幫佢夾埋落個碗度,擺係佢面前,如果有骨個d仲會幫佢挑埋骨添!!!

我細佬已經20歲,我成日都話我媽咪唔可以咁樣,我媽咪就話佢係屋企先係咁,出到街唔會咁,係屋企就比佢嘆下~~~

老實講,我媽咪唔止寵壞哂我細佬,連我爸爸佢都一樣寵壞哂,有時睇到我眼火爆,話佢就話爸爸返工辛苦,就得到就下佢~~~

有時話d男人的時候,不如回頭睇清楚係邊個做成,香港d男人成個大少咁,都係d女人寵壞哂佢地,未結婚就媽咪照顧周到,結左婚就老婆寵壞哂,要佢地改變,首先就改變自己先,要佢地明白"自己的事自己做"呢個道理,有個女人肯幫佢地做哂d野,我係男人都唔願做喇!!!

p.s.只係個人意見,不喜勿插~~~

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原文章由 YUKIYAN 於 08-8-23 00:04 發表
我老公都係甘,比佢老母縱慣左..又係飯來張口..佢日日整埋生果比個仔,但呢樣我唔會做囉~
我而加都算係全職湊女,家務我做曬,老公番黎,煮好飯,畢好飯比佢,佢d衫褲成日都擺到周圍都係,要我幫佢收拾擺去洗,佢沖涼要我羅埋under擺入廁所比佢.佢食完飯要食甜品我就拿到佢面前..佢話番工辛苦,叫我幫佢dup骨,我都照做...唉,,,我同工人有咩分別..要知道我以前係屋企都係阿媽照顧開,如果我唔係有幫手做家務,你有甘好彩找到個老婆會做曬d家頭細務?!!我今年只係20歲咋.... 唉...............我覺得自己真係好蠢.....如果唔係為個女,為頭家,我洗甘辛苦?!但佢都唔知足嫁,,仲成日話我唔係好老婆...
有時d野我做得到就會做..但唔好覺得係老馮甘囉~~我雖然冇穩$$姐,但我都有付出嫁,我老公成日覺得我係屋企好嘆,,我日日做到冇時停嫁,,係個女訓覺我先可以break下...

算啦~申下咪算囉~~ 我相信將來會有好既ending既~~
各位媽咪,努力呀~~你地既努力一定會有回報嫁~~

我情況大致同你一樣,我大住個肚到生前一星期仲要蹲低同兩隻狗沖涼,一樣係日日做家務冇時停,佢仲覺得我係屋企好嘆,到個囡出世後更忙,但唔同的是我冇好ending...因為我已經同我c6分居

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D男人確實是給D阿媽寵壞的, 現在D男人確實唔爭氣的, 不過就總是覺得他們才辛苦.....才多嘢做, 就算老婆要返工的, 都唔會.........亦唔識去體諒, 照顧得頭家好, 就好像應份的, 有D欠缺就是個老婆問題, 但係又唔想一下, 個家兩個人都有份的, 點解咩都要個老婆負責呢??

只可以講, 現在的 HK男人質樸唔得囉!!!