I really can't tell I love which one of them more. I think I love them evenly. But if one of them has to die, I would rather it be my honey coz, as a new born, our son is so new to this life and he has a long road to grow, learn, experience and explore (while my honey has already got his share of experience as a human, ha, ha, am I too 'practical'?) and he is still too small that he needs our protection. Of course, I am willing to die for our son in case of crisis too.
I care for my baby more, but I keep telling myself to love my husband more. After all, he is the one who will spend the rest of life with me. And he is a A+ husband who deserves tons of my love.