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你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga? [複製鏈接]

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發表於 04-7-30 01:27 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

我間唔中都有諗既...不過都係老公恰我,覺得老公唔鍚我時先至會諗,不過都只係諗一陣就唔會諗,因為次次諗唔夠一分鐘就會覺得鐘意老公仔多啲同埋老公係最好咁我就唔會再諗~~~!!!

再唔係咪會諗第二個男人囉---顯霖仔(正是我囝囝)~~~!!!

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發表於 04-7-31 06:26 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

我成日都好掛住蕭正楠~

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發表於 04-7-31 10:10 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

toffeeli,

I almost cried when I read your message! I can feel how much you love your father. I think I really should teart my father better....if not, I am going to regret.

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發表於 04-7-31 23:01 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

當我同老公唔開心時 :-( 我都会諗下以前的人。

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發表於 04-7-31 23:20 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

Good evening, cathycathy,

Nice to read your message tonight, knowing someone shares my feeling. In fact, my mood tonight is not too good as I'm just back from a funeral of my friend.

As I'm getting older, I find that life is actually much fragile that I have thought. Now I keep reminding myself not to hide up too much of my feeling to those I love. Tell them how much I love them and show them how much I care. Never wait for the next moment or the moment is gone.

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toffeeli

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發表於 04-7-31 23:38 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

yes, i always miss myfather, he pass away many years la, it's so pity i can not take him to restaurant and take him to go to trip with my mom :-(

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發表於 04-8-11 01:56 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

Do you still think of him a lot? I am so afraid......... Luckily my father is still here....but he is getting old and I am not in HK usually.......... I want to see him as much as I can...

didima 寫道:
yes, i always miss myfather, he pass away many years la, it's so pity i can not take him to restaurant and take him to go to trip with my mom :-(

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發表於 04-8-11 10:26 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

cathycathy

My father's voice is still very clear to me. He taught me to be a useful person in the society. He himself was an example to me......his effect on me is everlasting.

I recap the days when I was studying aboard, I used to write him letter everyday and gave him a phone call everyweek (at that time long distance call is not that cheap as now, so we just spoke very little). Even when I travelled during vacation, I wrote him a postcard at least.

I recap my younger days, my father often had to work until late evening. However, he would give me a phone call everyday during dinner time. Not much to say indeed but this was the way we kept in touch. Very often, I found some short notes at my bedside........this was the way we communicated and yet I knew how much he loved me.

The way to communicate through writing is in fact an effective mean to express feeling (especially those you couldn't speak loudly enough). Sending small cards and now we could even have email.

I believe (since I am now a mother of one kid), your father's wish would be to know that you are living happily. Being able hear from you frequently would definitely relieve his thinking of you.

Many best wishes,
toffeeli

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發表於 04-8-11 11:31 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

Yes, I think of one man almost every day. But I didn't start with him. We knew that we love each other but we didn't tell and didn't start. I think that we will live in each other's heart forever.

We didn't contact each other for over 8 years but 3 years ago, I learned from newspaper that he got hurt in an accident when performing his duty (he is a policeman) and I immediately went to the hospital to visit him. When we saw each other, we looked into each other's eyes and I felt that we really still love each other. Of course, we can't and we won't do anything because I have my husband and daughter now.

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發表於 04-8-12 03:52 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

toffeeli,
You made me cry again :-(
while I am in HK, my father calls home from work everyday too. Actually he doesn't really have urgent things to say, but just wants to hear my voice and see how I am doing. However, I always show my impatience to him. He asks me if I want to go to the bus stop and walk him home, but I reject him almost every time. I actually don't have anything to do when he asks me, but I always find some excuses not to go pick him up. Oh no, I am crying non-stop now because I am afraid I will regret what I have been doing someday. Now that I am leaving home again, going back to the USA in a week, I started to miss my family so much. I want to be with them, especially my dad so much. I want him to know how much I am gonna miss him and how sorry I feel about the way I have been treating him. But it is so hard for me to say it out. As I said before, we Chinese love our parents in our hearts, but we never tell them so.
One time, I saw a poster of a drama about a relationship between a father and a son. Some how the father passed away during the drama. One line on the poster said "what would you say to you father if you could see him one more time?"
I think this line reminds a lot of people about the way we should treat our parents.

toffeeli, do you mind me asking how many years you were away from your family studying aboard?

Thanks for listening
cathycathy

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發表於 04-8-12 16:18 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

cathycathy,

Perhaps I can speak something in the shoes as a parent (though I only have 5 years personal experience on this) that most parents are not looking for a reward. As I said before "speak out". What you have done in the past doesn't really matter since they were past and far away.

Act now and say to him how much you love him or hold his hands or give him a kiss (remember this is actually what your father had probably done to you when you were young) and this is now the time you "repay" him. Why you think you need to get shy?

It actually doesn't really matter on the daily conflicts you have with your father because this does not mean that you don't care about him or you don't love him.

Don't cry, cathycathy, from what you have written, I think your father should be glad to have a daughter like you.

I'm away studying aboard for 13 months plus 1 month travelling immediately after that.

"what would you say to your father if you could see him one more time"......possibly I will be running out of words but definitely I will hold his hand tightly.

Regards,
toffeeli

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發表於 04-8-13 12:23 |只看該作者

Re: 你地心目中仲有冇成日掛住另一個人ga?

dear cathycahty:

有.....還記得老爸臨終前的情景,看著他牽下最後的一口氣,那天爸張開眼睛,用微薄的聲音問我"媽媽呢",我感受到他將要離開我了,我對他說,媽很快便來........我同爸爸說,你放心,我一定會好好照顧媽媽,....跟著見爸爸合上眼,流下一滴大眼淚....最終..............................sorry ,i can not continue to write .......................................

上年,我去接受催眠,,我見倒爸爸,同佢傾了很耐,我衝上去攬住我爸爸,10多年沒有機會可以咁真實了,我告訴他我這10多年如何渡過,如何掙扎求存,治療後我原來己成面眼淚,連催眠師也忍不住兩眼通紅,
上次之後,我沒有再去催眠了,因為爸爸說他無論在那裹,都會看顧我和媽媽,他說知道我這麼多年努力做好自己,和孝順媽媽,他很安慰,我深深體會"樹欲靜而風不息,子欲養而親不在"的感嘆,寫到此,我的眼戾己經忍不任,我們下次再傾吧
cathycathy 寫道:
Do you still think of him a lot? I am so afraid......... Luckily my father is still here....but he is getting old and I am not in HK usually.......... I want to see him as much as I can...

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didima 寫道:
yes, i always miss myfather, he pass away many years la, it's so pity i can not take him to restaurant and take him to go to trip with my mom :-(

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