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珊瑚宮

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發表於 08-10-10 15:14 |只看該作者
講清楚你的感受, 話佢知, 佢出爾反爾, 令你覺得佢咩都係"講過就算", 太多理由. 你會無安全感, 你仲要講, 唔開a/c都無問題. 但你已經好明白咁講清楚, 再有下次, 會覺得佢"無信用", 講得就講.... 仲要講句"因為你係我心目中的形象唔係咁. 所以我好矛盾點解你會咁"


侯爵府

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22#
發表於 08-10-10 15:17 |只看該作者
唔好搞到自己同2 人嘅關係咁tense喇
以後仲有成世流流長萬七樣嘢要協調呀
我信男人諗嘢冇女人咁執著架
擝得太緊2 人都唔會開心
我記得有一次
我老公講咗佢話想食一樣嘢
咁我後嚟真係整咗
佢自己都唔記得自己講嘅
跟住佢話
叫我唔駛咁緊張
太在意佢講嘅嘢
有好多時男人係隨口講吓架咋
冇特別意思架
放低自己,尊重別人
提升內蘊,不為別人為自己


珊瑚宮

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23#
發表於 08-10-10 15:24 |只看該作者
原文章由 premum2006 於 08-10-10 15:17 發表
唔好搞到自己同2 人嘅關係咁tense喇
以後仲有成世流流長萬七樣嘢要協調呀
我信男人諗嘢冇女人咁執著架
擝得太緊2 人都唔會開心
我記得有一次
我老公講咗佢話想食一樣嘢
咁我後嚟真係整咗
佢自己都唔記得自己講嘅
跟 ...


我都係咁諗. 佢講係咩原因? 佢可能知, 或佢都唔知為咩?
不過我就覺得版主可以同佢講, 佢咁樣真係好令版主無安全感.
我係一個一定要"講得出做得到"的人. 我老公都好清楚我係這種人! 咁佢就知道有d笑佢唔講得, 因為我會好大反應, 講聲佢知會好d囉.


超級版主

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超級版主


24#
發表於 08-10-10 17:56 |只看該作者
問清楚佢

唔好以為小事

佢個格如果係咁

將來實無運行

做男人做得咁鬼鼠

講左就要做

做唔到就要認

唔好拖拖拉拉


複式洋房

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25#
發表於 08-10-10 18:23 |只看該作者
不如你傾的時候問下佢稅係咩意思?? 開戶口要交稅架咩?? 你比左TFN 佢就OK架喇...

我同老公都有JOINT ACCOUNT架.但冇聽過銀行話要比咩稅喎... 記住比個TFN 銀行就OK架喇..

你如果唔係要控制佢D錢,你咪開心見成同佢講,你唔係想管佢D錢,但希望佢答應得你的事要做LOR


子爵府

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26#
發表於 08-10-10 20:10 |只看該作者
0係依件事上,佢出爾反爾唔係最重要
最重要係依句 "又提議將D錢儲落佢户口(無我名)"
自己唔想但又叫你做
神又係佢鬼又係佢?
(希望係我小人之心啦)


大宅

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27#
發表於 08-10-10 22:59 |只看該作者
Hey, thank you for all of your suggestions.
I have just talked to him and tell him my feelings. He try to explain the tax problem to me. I didnt get it and acutually he, himself was not for sure as well.
He said he didnt refuse to do it and just trying to raise the potential threats. I said your other two suggestions were even worse anyway. and I felt insecure when you change your mind frequently.
He apologized for upseting me and said he just his personality to take time think for many many times (it was 3 months since he suggested).
We will go to do it tmr morning.

m-m: I dont think you are 小人之心, because I feel odd when he suggested it as well.

Million thanks toall of you. This event helps us to improve our communication.


男爵府

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28#
發表於 08-10-11 12:28 |只看該作者
哈哈~你真係呀樓主~唔好介意啦~澳洲住個D人係慢D嫁啦~


翡翠宮

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29#
發表於 08-10-11 14:51 |只看該作者
我明白你感受~~~

一個下巴輕輕的男人,有一種靠唔住的感覺,今次就話開聯名戶口咁小事,但下次點知佢又應承左d野然後又揾d藉口黎拖架???

你話你地plan緊5年內結婚,但5年係一個好長的時間,5年後乜野世界都無人知,佢話同你結婚姐,但結婚有9萬幾樣野要處理,到時你點知佢又會唔會揾藉口呢???

所以,我絕對明白你擔心d乜野~~~

我都好怕人做野拖拖下,我認為一係唔好講,講左就要做~~~


子爵府

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30#
發表於 08-10-12 00:46 |只看該作者
唔知點解,你依個case令我諗起孟廣美
佢係靚靚model,前果排佢比佢個好似去到談婚論嫁既鬼佬男朋友呃左差不多全部積蓄

其實我知我唔可以憑你依件單一事件就斷定佢係一個咩人
所以我都唔敢講太多

不過我覺得你似係一個清醒既人
而你正從你理智同感性既角度努力去將你地既關係取得平衡
你既然係清醒,就要相信自己


複式洋房

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31#
發表於 08-10-12 00:51 |只看該作者
我都認同未結婚唔好開聯名戶口,之前我ex提議開聯名戶口,到最後分手又要攪一大輪,麻鬼煩。

原文章由 LovelyColin 於 08-10-10 13:53 發表
人就好現實講到錢老豆都冇面比!
你哋都未結婚財政獨立啲好!
將來有啲咩問題要分開都唔洗咁煩!

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