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Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

我又講下啦,尋晚又出事啦.半夜4點,4點40,6點,7點半.
我今晚會比佢試余仁生既珍珠末,睇下點又再同大家分享.
祝大家都有覺好訓...真惡頂

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發表於 04-8-10 10:05 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

唔得呀...珍珠末都冇用呀:cry:
仲要一晚都唔知幾多次唉 :exclaim: :exclaim:

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Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

擒日阿B又唔訓覺，夜晚10點就由我陪佢在大床訓，飲完12點個餐又繼續在大床訓，至3點我搬佢返BB床，4:30又醒啦，拍極都唔得，於是我再搬佢到大床陪佢訓，就訓到今朝7點，搬佢落BB床，又醒。
佢會唔會習慣要大人陪and要訓大床？
有咩辦法可以令佢訓返BB床？and有無方法令佢一覺訓天光？
另想將佢12點個餐(佢而家飲4點，8點及12點，每餐6oz)改為10點，等佢一覺訓天光，有無時間表及分量可供參考？

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發表於 04-8-10 14:49 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

我囝囝宜家1歲大, 好似在6, 7個月開始, 已經吾多sleeping, 日頭最多sleep 2至3個鍾, 夜晚有時又係成晚咸幾聲, 有時拍下佢佢就可以sleep, 有時要抱起佢拍佢sleep. 宜家d細路吾多sleep, always like to play. ?-(

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發表於 04-8-10 15:11 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

我阿b而加9個半月,本來訓覺都ok ge. 唔知做mug, 最近一個月, 成日都係半夜扎醒, 仲要喊到收唔到聲o個隻tim, 食過保嬰丹, 又食過珍珠末, 都係咁呀. 而家就一晚1-2次囉, 有時訓訓下會叫, 喊,… ;總之, 就辛苦我呢個在職媽啦.

如果有辦法令阿仔一覺訓天光, 請賜教.

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發表於 04-8-10 15:29 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

Twg,

食奶時間, 我係 15分鐘至半個鐘, dun 前 dun 後咁…. dun 到阿仔至晚o個餐奶係 10:00 – 11:00pm 食.
如bb開始食糊仔, 就好dun d, 因為糊仔可以早少少食, 唔多覺, 又可當小食, 比bb食, 頂下肚, 等下餐晏d食.

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Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

Dear every mami of 'night criying baby',
My boy is 8 month today & he never give me consuccessive sleeping for more than 3 hrs since he was born. He woke up 2 times and soon getting worse that 5 times a night with horrible crying which also took more than 30 min to set him bed again. I tried to worked out an answer for it:
too cold - no
too hungry - no
too tired - no
too much sleeping in the day - no
too noisy - no
shout by his sister (age 4) - no
playing too much - no
tummyache - no
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'dirty' at home?
bad name?
herbal tea? pearl powder? no, no, no,
very depressed!
I could not help and burst into tears. It seriously affecting my office work during the day. To prevent myself from acting unreasonably I had to see psychiatric.
Even I carried the baby the whole night in my arms and still could not stop him from sudden crying. I started worrying about his mental health and believed that somthing wrong with his brain or other mental problem. I seek help from nurse and eventually an arrangement with pediatric was made this morning.
She simply suggested that I should not have had carried the baby once he woke up and cry ( I did because I did not want him waking up everyone at home), instead, I should have let him settle himself with close attention, whispering to him and gently tapping his back is enought. The more you try to stop him soon and carrying him, the more he will wake up. Even thou' he is sleeping next to you in his baby cot, or immediately by your side, the clock inside the baby will wake him up to to be carried.
This takes not only two or three days but longer (the older he is, the longer period you need) to train the baby to comfort himself. Carry him only if you find him crying with breathing problem and risking himself (e.g. bumping around)
She assured me that it is nothing wrong with the baby, and no need to worry about the sleeping pattern that affecting his mental developmment. baby will adjust himself; but just make sure baby is playing happily, eating OK, gain weight.
I hope the above could ease your worry. I try to harden my heart tonight and see how many night it will take to settle my baby.
Never give up, you all are great & loving mother.

god bless you

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發表於 04-8-10 16:46 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

到我講下尋晚啦, 佢比平日早瞓, 十點瞓, but 11:00 醒 --> 12:15 --> 1:30 --> 2:?? --> 3:45 (頂唔順於是放佢落大床) --> 4:30 --> ?? ---> ?? --> 6:00 --> ?? --> 8:00 起身, 一晚醒的次數真係十隻手指都數唔完.

misu
我仲想問, 舊薑綁左腳或右腳? 用什麼繩綁?

cgefamily
好多人都說我抱得多, 但現在佢九個月識爬識企, 三更半夜佢一醒就爬起身(其實佢當時仲係半醒瞓), 我想放低佢點知佢又反抗又要爬起身, 點算? 如果我唔抱佢就會喊,跟著成個醒囇.

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發表於 04-8-10 17:31 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

amama,
my baby can now sit up and try to stand, he also crys (screaming) until I will carry him & for more than 20 mins he than stops. But the pedi (兒科) said, provided that it is safe,'一定要"很"心,跟佢''各''力'
he will learn gradually; from 5 times drop to (say) 3 times, from waiting for 5 mins before carrying him, adding up to (say) 10 mins, step by step 喎!
I know it is very hard to leave baby cry and it is also quite impractical (the crying will wake everyone up)
I hope I can give you good news after I try it starting from tonight. 忍耐,保重, Bye!

god bless you

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發表於 04-8-10 22:18 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

我個女都係七個月大，不過夜晚就

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發表於 04-8-11 12:12 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

carmencatlo,

咁嗰隻開奶茶係要煲或即沖?

噚晚我頂唔住, 半場比我老公睇住阿仔, 佢噚晚11:00 瞓 -> 11:30 醒 ->1:15 -> 1:40 -> 2:55 -> 4:00 (比咗我老公接手) -> 5:00 -> 6:50 -> 7:30 起身.

我已經九個月冇瞓喇, 好想打暈個仔!!!!

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Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

birdbird
thanks for your advice

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發表於 04-8-11 13:59 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

我都有試過用書上既方法,任佢喊唔好理佢.不過有小小技術因素. (1) bb會坐同企,仲會唔小心頭撞床欄再勁喊 (2) 喊成40分鐘都唔收聲,聲都沙晒老公唔忍心 (2) 嘈住老公第日要返工好慘
我真係好想再試,不過老公'拒絕再玩'.因為佢太心疼bb咁喊法,寧願死頂佢抱晒.只要有一方唔合作就冇辦法實行啦!!
都唔知點好啦

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發表於 04-8-12 09:23 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

我個B又係可以喊到收唔到聲，我老公又無耐性，抱佢一陣唔收聲就罵阿B，返而唔忍心O個個係我。我試過有一晚就得佢喊，我最後都要屈服。
11月媽媽，我同你一樣，都唔想嘈住老公第日要返工好慘，亦因我又要返工，有時都頂唔順。
呢D日子唔知要'崖'幾耐？

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發表於 04-8-12 11:23 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

twg

要狠心對待bb任佢喊真係好難架!!講大家知,我尋晚成功左.12點半我由得佢喊左半個鐘以上,終於佢自己收聲訓返到天光8點幾.今次係我由得佢喊第三次,係第一次成功.不過就真係好殘忍.佢一路喊一路企起身,用手仔抓我(佢床仔在我旁邊).我就閃開.有試過怕佢企唔穩扶佢,佢感覺到我摸佢仲喊得勁.咁我又要忍心放手.佢一邊喊一邊叫'媽媽',我個心真係好痛.到佢真係停晒訓左,佢爬在我地大人pillow上訓著(可能有我地氣味)唉~~我覺得好內疚.我知係為大家好,對佢都係一件好事,但真係好難做到.小小提示,要確保床仔唔會撞傷佢,我用大人pillow放床頭床尾,而旁邊就用佢既被仔擋住.另一面對住我就冇放野,因為佢要扶住企.仲有我係將全部燈熄晒.

我今晚會再試,好怕自己會心軟

愷然加油呀

我尋晚一邊睇住佢一邊心裡面同佢打氣 :wink:

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發表於 04-8-12 13:35 |只看該作者

Re: 點解我個女(7個幾月大)唔訓覺架???

11月媽媽
你指個本書係咪'從0歲開始'？
我都想試多次由得佢喊，我怕佢又喊成個鐘，最弊係佢有嚴重濕疹，一眼訓就'R'，如果由得佢，分分鐘面仔手仔腳仔'R'到出水出血都未訓得著。有無好提議？

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