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其實一家人有咩唔可以開心見誠講呢？
無人叫佢一開口就鬧個仔/疑人既，
佢可以開心見誠同個仔講，
亦可以問個仔係咪等錢用，有咩困難，
而家d 青少年，唔受家長式拷問。
其實你朋友有無同佢老婆講過呢件事呢？

原文章由 agustus 於 08-10-16 15:00 發表
That is when he show me his wallet and he told me he can not express to his family as he is afraid he will hurt people. I knew him for more than 20 years and I know he is a careful person, not a flir ...

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原文章由 joanthony 於 08-10-16 14:44 發表

who can solve this WITHOUT telling us the number of family members at home e.g. wife/gf, maid etc.... ?

a husband, a wife, three children, a domestic helper and 2 dogs. His parent visit very often but only day time. His in-laws will visit during weekends or they will go to in-laws place instead. He has no girl friends but his children's friends will visit after school, not very often and not the time he is home too. His wallet is with him all the time until he reached home.

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You can ask your friend to keep his wallet under his back when sleeping and see who will sneak in his room at night or simply put an empty wallet in the same location as usual for days to see what would happen ~~

Please do not quote any information posted by fungwongphie.
不誠實使用電腦會構成罪行，切勿以身試法。
何謂不誠實使用電腦??

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原文章由 agustus 於 08-10-16 15:00 發表
That is when he show me his wallet and he told me he can not express to his family as he is afraid he will hurt people. I knew him for more than 20 years and I know he is a careful person, not a flir ...

如果有工人, 我覺得工人既機會大好多. 2公婆有咩唔講得既? 咩都唔講, 唔問點做一家人啊? 如果係仔女做既更加要一早教育啦. 你既朋友自己本身好大問題.

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原文章由 小寶貝兒 於 08-10-16 14:44 發表
日日唔見錢??

唔見幾多?
屋企有d咩人/有咩人出入?
佢數學/記憶力好唔好?

解釋:
唔見得多, 有可能係有人偷, 唔見得少, 可能係佢自己買左野唔記得~
屋企人可能急用, 係佢銀包度攞, 我同我老公都會, 不過通常會話聲 ...

it's not the money problem. When he first told me, he is worried that his not at home for long hour make his present transparant. He is not very rich but this lost will not make him broke yet. At first I think someone steal but how to steal when he went home so late at night and leave so early. I also sometimes lost money but most of the time, I think I accidentally leave the money in my pocket instead of my wallet.

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原文章由 honglee 於 08-10-16 15:01 發表
如果係咁佢老婆攞嘅機會大啲, 會唔會係啲小朋友要交乜費物費, 佢老婆係佢銀包攞咋!

我媽咪以前都係咁架, 所以老豆有時都會炸形!

Thank you for your suggestion. But on saturday, I really see $1700 and become $1300. By number of notes, it's not so possible happening on Saturday night. His family went out very often on Sundays so any need can tell him.

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原文章由 Elefant老婆 於 08-10-16 14:54 發表
咁好有可能係佢個仔或老婆。不過點解會有錢找咁得意嘅。

Thanks you. Yes, that is why I began to wonder if this is his problem. Anyone knows people with this problem? He is an accountant and a good one too. I am sure he can count and he is very careful with money.

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我都想咁講，無謂估估下，分分鐘以為自己撞鬼或記憶有問題。不如同屋企人坐埋傾下啦，問下係咪有人需要用錢，唔怕出聲同爸爸/老公講，千其唔好擺出要捉凶手咁既姿態，一家人商量下。如果問唔到結果，都可以睇下傾完之後情況有無變，如果之後無唔見錢，咁即係...... 如果情況無變，咁起碼知道應該唔關屋企人事，可以向其他方面查......

原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-10-16 15:05 發表
其實一家人有咩唔可以開心見誠講呢？
無人叫佢一開口就鬧個仔/疑人既，
佢可以開心見誠同個仔講，
亦可以問個仔係咪等錢用，有咩困難，
而家d 青少年，唔受家長式拷問。
其實你朋友有無同佢老婆講過呢件事呢？
...

[ 本文章最後由小草於 08-10-16 15:20 編輯 ]

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原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-10-16 14:56 發表
咁佢個大仔係咪唔夠錢使？
呢個年紀仲可能會識女仔，
可能要用好多錢都唔定喎。

Thanks.
That is what I think of but stealing almost everyday take a very brave and daring child to do. Moreover, his child look okay with me, kind and helpful type. His child came to my house to teach my son last year on how to do the design and technology work. My wife praised him as he is polite and nice. Between me and my wife, I think i will like this type of son. Of course, mine are not bad ( LOL).

Still, there is a possiblities that this boy needs money desperately. But how to steal when he did not know when his father go home and when he will leave. The wallet is in the bedroom. There is a computer table and the wallet is in the computer table drawer. To steal, one has to go in the room, walk around the bed to the window, open the drawer and take out the wallet. That is why I think the possiblities not high.

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係咪大仔偷呀.?

有咩咁奇o者, 要偷錢, 梗係趁 daddy瞓左先偷啦. 好夜番就仲好, 即係 daddy累 d, 瞓得林d

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原文章由 sulamita 於 08-10-16 15:02 發表
有咩咁神秘, 我以為佢一個住唔見錢就神秘姐!

He is not alone but this make me think very hard and I still don't know how he can lost. Since I know this matter, I am actually asking him every question possible. In fact to make things easy, he will take a photo of his wallet and the money and send me from tonight onwards. Just in case he forgot things what he has and still believe the money disappeared.

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原文章由 agustus 於 08-10-16 15:20 發表

Thanks.
That is what I think of but stealing almost everyday take a very brave and daring child to do. Moreover, his child look okay with me, kind and helpful type. His child came to my house t ...

會唔會係你朋友啊, 佢同我朋友都有幾分相似. 我有個朋友都係會計師, 佢地成日精神好緊張, 好多時佢成日都話明明昨天先拿完錢, 又唔見左錢. 但係其實係佢自己拿左去交其他費用, 佢太多嘢記啦. 根本就唔記得自己比過d咩錢出去.

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原文章由 麟媽媽 於 08-10-16 15:05 發表
其實一家人有咩唔可以開心見誠講呢？
無人叫佢一開口就鬧個仔/疑人既，
佢可以開心見誠同個仔講，
亦可以問個仔係咪等錢用，有咩困難，
而家d 青少年，唔受家長式拷問。
其實你朋友有無同佢老婆講過呢件事呢？

...

Thanks for your comment. I also tell him so. In fact, I urge him to ask his wife. If there is a thief and not his wife, his wife maybe a victim too. Who say people will steal from him only and not other people at home?

I think the chances of his son is not high as during summer vacation, his son went to camp for three days two night and he still find his money missing.

In fact i think he is thinking to solve this for a long time before telling me. As the more he find that all are not possible, he asks me for any other possiblities. I am lost also and what I suggest he already thought of.

Telling his wife is very crucial. i agree with you, I will ask him to tell him wife but well, I think he has his problem in saying out that is why he never say anything for so long.

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樓主係咪日日見到你朋友﹖不如試下每日放工幫你朋友keep住個銀包，佢淨係袋$100同id card，最多袋埋準備放工要用既錢(例如交電話費/買野)，睇下仲會唔會唔見錢:lol (just kidding:lol )

[ 本文章最後由小草於 08-10-16 15:33 編輯 ]

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原文章由 fungwongphie 於 08-10-16 15:08 發表
You can ask your friend to keep his wallet under his back when sleeping and see who will sneak in his room at night or simply put an empty wallet in the same location as usual for days to see what wou ...

Thank you very much, I ask him to put under lock and keys. I said even if we can not change the history, we can prevent the future. but now he wants to know who steal and why steal. So he will pretend nothing happen and put his things as usual. He wanted to catch the theif. i told him to put webcam as the wallet is right under the computer. Not hard to install and activate for the night. But for now, he did not have this hardware yet. We'll go to buy this weekend and install on saturday night. i will go to his house to help him plus talk to his children. I think this get me more curious than my work.

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原文章由 siuwa 於 08-10-16 15:09 發表

如果有工人, 我覺得工人既機會大好多. 2公婆有咩唔講得既? 咩都唔講, 唔問點做一家人啊? 如果係仔女做既更加要一早教育啦. 你既朋友自己本身好大問題. ...

Yes, I agree with you. he is a 100% workaholic. This is his second wife and he did not want to risk losing. I think he spend too little time at home and even my wife said this friend of mine is the most 'autistic' one. He seldom talk other than when he is half drunk. He drinks very often but never see him real drunk.

I even tell my wife about his problem. I agree with you that there is nothing I can not tell my wife. His eldest child is not his own but I know he loves this boy. His second marriage is a miracle to us because a person who seldom social with others can get such a good wife. I do not know why in second marriage, people tend to be very careful. I will suggest to him again to talk to his wife. Thanks a lot for your suggestion.

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原文章由 snoopy8787 於 08-10-16 15:11 發表
其實一家人有什麼不可以講呢??我覺得坦白問，唔代表話佢偷，除非佢地關係好差啦，經常為錢吵啦，咁就話驚問了會hurt人，但聽你講，佢地應該關係好好，又話唔似會偷，咁直接問清楚咪知。如果佢地都話無，咁可能是自己記性有問題時，更應該 ...

That is what I am thinking. You spelled out my mind. Will it be his problem? memory or some problem that he did not know? But honestly, in office he is an excellent partner. His memory is so good that I must salute him. He amazed me by actually knowing the exact amount to the very cent our cost and expenses for last year's project. Still that don't make him good memory in other things.

I can not understand this matter and hope someone can give light to what is going on. I am very curious on how can this happen.

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原文章由小草於 08-10-16 15:16 發表
我都想咁講，無謂估估下，分分鐘以為自己撞鬼或記憶有問題。不如同屋企人坐埋傾下啦，問下係咪有人需要用錢，唔怕出聲同爸爸/老公講，千其唔好擺出要捉凶手咁既姿態，一家人商量下。如果問唔到結果，都可以睇下傾完之後情況有無變， ...

Thank you. Actually I suggest him this too. But I know his problem, he is not the type who is good at talking. Honestly, he is a bit shy and soft spoken type. Is there a good way to talk to his wife or son nicely? can you suggest something like how to say it without hurting? Thanks