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珍珠宮

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21#
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咁你地既禮金係男家比?定c6比(有能力)?定自已+c6聯名儲錢比?

我嫁得好淒涼,我唔係話貪錢,而係男家完全理都唔理(佢地有錢架),一點心意都冇,c6又冇能力自付,要自已+c6聯名儲錢比,仲要係我大份果隻,最慘自已父母唔諒解,日鬧夜鬧,又周圍唱。


雖然總括來說c6對我唔錯,但當日嫁得好委屈,個心到今日仲有條刺!尤其我見嬸仔嫁入來,男家送好多金器比佢(記住家陣金器比以前貴兩三倍喎),又買埋樓比佢住……

想當日我生完亞仔,佢地成家人去睇亞仔都冇入來病房睇我,連薑醋都冇煲過比我……我都係人黎架,我個心好唔舒服!每一次見到呢d話題,個心都好難過,覺得自已好低賤!


複式洋房

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22#
發表於 08-12-29 10:41 |只看該作者
算啦, 最緊要你老公對你好啫! 屋企人無得kan, 我諗你老公都唔想的!


伯爵府

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23#
發表於 08-12-29 10:45 |只看該作者
四年前
我話三萬八
老公俾左五萬
但媽咪又俾番三萬蚊我自己駛....扣除當中一萬係幫佢簽卡買金器俾我, 即係我媽咪袋左3萬...
但, 無得咁計, 婚後, 佢無乜點收我家用, 覺得我有自己一頭家, 我老豆又仲搵到錢, 佢覺得暫時唔駛我點供養佢.

呢d媽咪, 邊度搵....

[ 本文章最後由 莎莎莉莉 於 08-12-29 10:46 編輯 ]


伯爵府

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24#
發表於 08-12-29 10:50 |只看該作者
原文章由 eeaa 於 08-12-28 20:11 發表

ME TOO, 我父母真的拿來買嫁妝及禮餅, 俾突男家, 我的父母真好, 真想來世也有此對父母 , 因現在經濟不太好, 都沒有盡過做女的責任, 有因困難都是父母幫, 老公真無用!!!!! ...


我有時都會有d咁既感嘆
我父母叻, 仲搵到錢, 又唔計較, 好多時, 佢地都唔同我地計
但我6299, 已退休, 62以前好賭, 無積蓄, 老來真係等仔女養
佢阿媽, 有份退休金, 佢d仔女成日唔係佢借就佢借...
我心諗, 阿媽d錢唔等於係你d錢
我老公都係咁. 雖然佢話有俾番利息阿媽, 但我覺得, 阿媽唔係奉旨要借俾你的.
老公每個月都要分開俾錢阿爸, 阿媽同阿麻....


翡翠宮

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25#
發表於 08-12-29 10:56 |只看該作者
咁我可以算係最少的一個,媽咪完全無要求要幾多,話封返利日就得。因為全個婚禮我同老公比錢,咁唐餅過大禮果d都有做o家,我都算有唔錯的嫁妝。我老公封果封利是係唔夠一萬蚊的好意頭數字,但佢應承我媽咪會每個月比家用供養佢地,因為佢都係半個父母咁話。我媽咪都好滿意呢個女'細'o家,而我老公錫我父母多過佢父母law。

[ 本文章最後由 jk923 於 08-12-29 10:58 編輯 ]


水晶宮

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26#
發表於 08-12-29 11:01 |只看該作者
原文章由 VKwan 於 08-12-29 10:20 發表
咁你地既禮金係男家比?定c6比(有能力)?定自已+c6聯名儲錢比?

我嫁得好淒涼,我唔係話貪錢,而係男家完全理都唔理(佢地有錢架),一點心意都冇,c6又冇能力自付,要自已+c6聯名儲錢比,仲要係我大份果隻,最慘自已父母唔諒解,日鬧夜鬧,又 ...



唔好唔開心喇...老公對你好就夠了...人地父母真的唔好指望...
少奶奶的身份,丫頭的命...


侯爵府

積分: 24705

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27#
發表於 08-12-29 11:02 |只看該作者
Don't be unhappy.
Me too.

我嫁得much淒涼 than you......
男家 haven't pay $1, and my 99 use all my husband's $ before we got marry (He ask him to buy her a flat, use all his $ and he also need to borrow personal loan from the bank 1xxxxx for her flat). May be she worry that his son will use his $ for our wedding!!!

Luckly, my parents prepare 1M for my wedding. My parents gave those $ to me ........ When my 99 know that, she requested us to use those $ for a 'big' wedding (so that she will have 'face' and show her relatives she is rich) !!!!!

Finally, we decided to have a westen style wedding party. Then, I use the left ($) to buy a flat.

My 99 was angry with me until now. She said that I should not bought the flat (my flat, not his son's). I should use all those $ for my wedding..........

And now, I have a room for my parents in my flat. However, I never give the key to my 99. My 99 always complain about this (unfair).
Now, I don't need to listen to my 99. I can speak 'loudly' to her (politely). She cannot control me as I DON'T NEED TO DEPEND ON HER.

P.S. My husband treat my parents nice (better than his parents).

I think that 男家 don't need to pay for your wedding. It is your c6's problem if he 又冇能力自付. It is your 99's $, she can give to anyone she like. Therefore, don't angry about her.



原文章由 VKwan 於 08-12-29 10:20 發表

咁你地既禮金係男家比?定c6比(有能力)?定自已+c6聯名儲錢比?

我嫁得好淒涼,我唔係話貪錢,而係男家完全理都唔理(佢地有錢架),一點心意都冇,c6又冇能力自付,要自已+c6聯名儲錢比,仲要係我大份果隻,最慘自已父母唔諒解,日鬧夜鬧,又周圍唱。

雖然總括來說c6對我唔錯,但當日嫁得好委屈,個心到今日仲有條刺!尤其我見嬸仔嫁入來,男家送好多金器比佢(記住家陣金器比以前貴兩三倍喎),又買埋樓比佢住……

想當日我生完亞仔,佢地成家人去睇亞仔都冇入來病房睇我,連薑醋都冇煲過比我……我都係人黎架,我個心好唔舒服!每一次見到呢d話題,個心都好難過,覺得自已好低賤!


侯爵府

積分: 24705

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28#
發表於 08-12-29 11:05 |只看該作者
me too....
禮金 =0
唐餅=0
過大禮=0


嫁妝=1M

result=>我老公錫我父母多過佢父母

原文章由 jk923 於 08-12-29 10:56 發表
咁我可以算係最少的一個,媽咪完全無要求要幾多,話封返利日就得。因為全個婚禮我同老公比錢,咁唐餅過大禮果d都有做o家,我都算有唔錯的嫁妝。我老公封果封利是係唔夠一萬蚊的好意頭數字,但佢應承我媽咪會每個月比家用供養佢地,因為佢都係半個父母咁話。我媽咪都好滿意呢個女'細'o家,而我老公錫我父母多過佢父母law。 ...


大宅

積分: 1908

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29#
發表於 08-12-29 11:07 |只看該作者
$0 ~~ 我老公只係代我媽咪比錢買金器比我, but d 金依家係老公的夾萬 , 我99 好早已經唔係到, 係我老公有錢,但就唔會過我手, 所以大家唔使唔開心, 我諗你地都冇我咁慘!!!

[ 本文章最後由 lily0822 於 08-12-29 11:15 編輯 ]


侯爵府

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30#
發表於 08-12-29 11:19 |只看該作者
原文章由 lily0822 於 08-12-29 11:07 發表
$0 ~~ 我老公只係代我媽咪比錢買金器比我, but d 金依家係老公的夾萬 , 我99 好早已經唔係到, 係我老公有錢,但就唔會過我手, 所以大家唔使唔開心, 我諗你地都冇我咁慘!!! ...




侯爵府

積分: 23260


31#
發表於 08-12-29 11:21 |只看該作者
6萬(8年前), 5萬老公比, 1萬自己比. 阿媽大部份錢買返金器同唐餅, 結左婚阿媽講明唔洗比錢屋企, 佢話有頭家要開支, 佢有租收夠喇.

結婚一事就好睇出咩叫親情, 我奶奶從冇問過老公夠唔夠錢結婚, 凈係話你冇錢自己問哥哥借(我老公搵錢唔多, 但從唔洗佢地幫), 奶奶仲有話我做咩要咁多禮金.

而家生埋仔更加清楚我阿媽果邊同老公屋企果邊仲更大分別, 所以, 老公自己都識睇佢地家幾咁冇親情, 佢都話唔緊要, 自己爭氣, 唔洗靠人地.


大宅

積分: 3923


32#
發表於 08-12-29 11:41 |只看該作者
原文章由 VKwan 於 08-12-29 10:20 發表
咁你地既禮金係男家比?定c6比(有能力)?定自已+c6聯名儲錢比?

我嫁得好淒涼,我唔係話貪錢,而係男家完全理都唔理(佢地有錢架),一點心意都冇,c6又冇能力自付,要自已+c6聯名儲錢比,仲要係我大份果隻,最慘自已父母唔諒解,日鬧夜鬧,又 ...

唔洗唔開心~其實唔fair既事都係十嘗八九, 我阿爸都成日請我d親戚食飯, 有咩好野都益佢地先. 但係佢地都係好偏心, 我生完都係乜都無, 但係我堂姐生完又送黎樣個樣比佢, 一時又送鞋仔咁啦, 其實你對人好, 人地都唔一定會對你咁好, 最緊要係自己錫自己, 自己有能力洗乜理人.雖然我知係一定會唔開心.


禁止訪問

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33#
發表於 08-12-29 12:02 |只看該作者
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禁止訪問

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34#
發表於 08-12-29 12:15 |只看該作者
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珍珠宮

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35#
發表於 08-12-29 12:50 |只看該作者
你父母咁錫你,你仲話淒涼?我亞媽直情開口講過:人嫁女我嫁女,人地最多就話嫁女貼大床,我嫁女就貼埋層樓(層樓首期我自已出,唔係男家/c6比,所以我父母勁唔likey)!你諗下我係咪比你地每一個都嫁得委屈!

其實自已有能力成家立室,我都好自豪,我唔係要貪d咩,問題係男家態度真係好冷酷無情,而我父母的態度又好似當我係搖錢樹咁!講到家用,我由day 1出來返工直至e+,一直都有比錢父母架!

一齊經歷過這些,我c6都算唔話得喇,就算出面識左女人,起碼佢記得我幫佢捱過,從來都冇話離開我,佢承諾會照顧我一生,不過,第時既事就冇人知喇!


原文章由 ac321 於 08-12-29 11:02 發表
Don't be unhappy.
Me too.

我嫁得much淒涼 than you......
男家 haven't pay $1, and my 99 use all my husband's $ before we got marry (He ask him to buy her a flat, use all his $ and he also need to bor ...


珍珠宮

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36#
發表於 08-12-29 13:01 |只看該作者
其實我諗我心裡條刺,男家的態度問題只佔一半,最hurt係我屋企都冇人理我之餘,仲要當我係搖錢樹,真係令到我既自我形象好低,覺得自已好低賤!

眼見呢度既姊妹,如果父母錫自已,根本都唔會在乎6299點對自已,所以呢,奉勸各位媽咪,對自已個女好d,唔好比個女長大後嫁得心裡鬱結,係一種人生遺撼呀!


伯爵府

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37#
發表於 08-12-29 13:12 |只看該作者
原文章由 yucopooh 於 08-12-29 12:15 發表

講起爸爸,我阿爸都係甘,對外人仲好過對我同細佬,每次d親戚有d咩野事佢都會出錢&買好多野,
但我同細佬就慘,試過我細佬唔夠錢食飯(讀緊書),我又出左去,細佬叫阿爸俾錢買野食($20),阿爸都唔俾,同細佬講當借$20俾細佬, ...


有d人真係咁架
佢地覺得闊佬人, 孤寒自己係識人情世故咁解嘛
我只覺得係本末倒置囉


別墅

積分: 706


38#
發表於 08-12-29 13:39 |只看該作者
23年前..20000.不過阿媽都買咗好多金器比我.當時d金4仟幾蚊兩,都幾貴,阿媽都冇乜袋落袋!


男爵府

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39#
發表於 08-12-29 13:46 |只看該作者
我覺得你唔應該唔開心, 你應該為自己感到驕傲 .... 因為你唔洗靠人, 自己搞得掂 .... 人地點做你控制唔到, 自己既諗法就可以自己去改變... 加油呀~


原文章由 VKwan 於 08-12-29 13:01 發表
其實我諗我心裡條刺,男家的態度問題只佔一半,最hurt係我屋企都冇人理我之餘,仲要當我係搖錢樹,真係令到我既自我形象好低,覺得自已好低賤!

眼見呢度既姊妹,如果父母錫自已,根本都唔會在乎6299點對自已,所以呢,奉勸各位媽咪,對自 ...
棉花爸...棉花媽...棉花糖(BB糖)...


侯爵府

積分: 24705

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40#
發表於 08-12-29 15:16 |只看該作者
I think I am 淒涼 is because 男家態度真係好冷酷無情. My 99 never pay $1 for our wedding. She never give my parents $1, 1 cake, or 1 table. It is ok as I don't think 99 should pay for our wedding). And she use all her son's saving before we got marry. She wanted to use my parents $ for her ideal wedding shows (for us)........
However, I didn't feel unhappy. I have a happy wedding and life.
It seems that I never 嫁 to my 99's family. I only 成家立室 with my husband and have my family.



原文章由 VKwan 於 08-12-29 12:50 發表
你父母咁錫你,你仲話淒涼?我亞媽直情開口講過:人嫁女我嫁女,人地最多就話嫁女貼大床,我嫁女就貼埋層樓(層樓首期我自已出,唔係男家/c6比,所以我父母勁唔likey)!你諗下我係咪比你地每一個都嫁得委屈!

其實自已有能力成家立室,我都好自豪,我唔係要貪d咩,問題係男家態度真係好冷酷無情,而我父母的態度又好似當我係搖錢樹咁!講到家用,我由day 1出來返工直至e+,一直都有比錢父母架!

一齊經歷過這些,我c6都算唔話得喇,就算出面識左女人,起碼佢記得我幫佢捱過,從來都冇話離開我,佢承諾會照顧我一生,不過,第時既事就冇人知喇!

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