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vet

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好媽媽勳章畀面勳章

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發表於 09-4-22 00:07 |只看該作者

對方家長為セ嘈到上學校呀??

好少事, 你都唔好怪個仔了

原帖由 是是但但 於 09-4-21 23:40 發表
agree...
其實我睇完...真係覺得好小事..
樓主唔洗講到無家教..咁嚴重..
反而對方家長比較奇怪...真係唔知佢想點...

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abu_cheung

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發表於 09-4-22 00:35 |只看該作者

呢件事上你都唔好自責喇!!
你更加唔好再話你兒子喇...個仔以為係小事一件，姨姨都話算數，咪唔放o係心.
所以佢都冇錯架.(最緊要係佢當時真係有即刻同姨姨道歉.....)

唔係影響親子關係就唔好啦

而我都覺得召藥師的方法係較好..
唔係雙方家長有咩誤會就唔好啦!!

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ronleung

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發表於 09-4-22 00:41 |只看該作者

如果無錯, 又點知咩叫岩呢?
經一事, 至會長一智.
無犯錯, 又點會改過呢?
人, 最重要識分是和非, 黑和白, 從中吸敢教訓, 勇敢面對.
我覺得你小朋友無逃避責任, 其實已經好好, 就當係大家一個經驗, 身教都好丫.

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popoiloveu

等待驗證會員

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發表於 09-4-22 00:49 |只看該作者

如果我係果个家長（當佢真係好angry, 好想同你投訴)，我會辦晒野甘打電話比你，懶係關心你个仔，問ｘｘｘ果日係我樹玩發生左ｄ甘既事ｗｏｒ，佢宜加有無事呀？使吾使勞動到老師出面甘大件事!!爛左塊層板jee,吾係拆左你間屋呀。个家長真係小題大做。再講呢个約會係小朋友私下約既，關學校咩事？

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程朗

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whatup

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好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章畀面勳章

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發表於 09-4-22 02:05 |只看該作者

一定係個女同學媽媽玩野,賠12蚊

咁少,佢個咩櫃呀??

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daisy17772

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發表於 09-4-22 02:10 |只看該作者

You meant the girl wrote a formal complain letter asking for HKD12 compensation? A primary 6 girl knows how to do that? It sounds "really odd and very tactical" , and I honestly think you should not so concerned about it as:

1. It should be that girl's parents made themselves a poor image as they asked for HKD12 in order to "punish" or a better intention ""to teach well" your boy.

2. In fact if your boy already said sorry and his apololgy been accepted already, then from your son's pt of view, he really could have forgotten to tell you about this because that was the impression that parent deliberately gave him.

3. More, your boy is about 2 years younger than she is, so he deserves more understanding from adults, at least from teachers. On the contrary, that primary 6 girl is very "siu hei" and cannot showed enough empathy as a senior student.

My personal feeling is that parent is being "tricky" that she deliberately filed a complain, but then presented herself innocent in front of you.

So this kind of things always happened even in adults' world.

So don't worry, but you may want to explain the situation to your son's teachers that this is just some kind of " misunderstanding" and that you're always welcome other parent to contact yourself personally for compensation (instead of that formal way), or so and so (anything to show to the teacher that you're so kind, open and decent parents), so to protect your son's image.

Lastly, didn't even borther to put pressure on your son for this "little thing". Always trust in your son and never let these kind of "unnecessary" conduct lesson to destroy his confidence and you two relationship. Not worth it.

[ 本帖最後由 daisy17772 於 09-4-22 02:22 編輯 ]

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好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章

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Leomummy

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發表於 09-4-22 03:14 |只看該作者

各位媽咪，真的很多謝你們意見，係呢件事上我個仔的而且確係做錯咗~~
1. 佢真係唔應該爬入衣櫃咁危險~~
2. 唔應該明明要道歉，但人哋一句唔駛，佢真係可以信以為真，到今時今日仲係咁天真﹗做錯事立即道歉，呢個係基本禮貌，而家佢係無做到呢一動作，唔怪得人可能會諗你父母點教仔架，教到個仔咁既？~~
3. 明知自己經常性粗心大意，不斷發生甚麼無心之失，已經咁多事，但仍未能長一智~~
至於對方家長，我同老公都好似其他人咁諗，覺得佢係想攪大件事，但奈何係自己個仔唔岩先，人哋先有機會，就算明知，又可以點做？

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Leomummy

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發表於 09-4-22 03:44 |只看該作者

點解我會覺得個仔冇家教？家教~~~我所理解就係家庭教育，呢個係包含個人基本禮貌修養，及個人操守，唔需要做給人看，但要顧及別人感受﹗
好多時我會同阿仔好簡單分析乜野叫家教，如早晨見到鄰居，唔同人打招呼，落到大堂唔叫管理員姨姨，見到其他識既人都唔叫一聲，呢 d 就係無基本禮貌，無基本家庭教育﹗
而我們做父母，最激氣最唔甘心既就係，明明我哋有教，經常提點，但最後都要俾人話，你哋點教仔女架，咁無禮貌既？
父母無教，即係無家庭教育，簡稱無家教﹗
呢個純粹係我哋教仔既態度﹗

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~仔仔媽咪~

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發表於 09-4-22 07:13 |只看該作者

有時細路仔做D野係我地估佢地唔到架!試下冷靜D屏心靜氣同個仔傾番件事,鬧佢都無用架,佢淨係記住亞媽話佢無腦嗰兩隻字,但佢又唔用個腦諗下點解唔可以咁玩,同埋同佢傾都係想多D了解佢既特性啫,等你日後容易D去諗方法去教佢.

咁暫時佢都係衰咗一樣,唔係成日都係咁重複衰仔嘛...仲有得教既...你可以諗仲有人嚴重過你十倍....嗰個咪係我囉!可以話你知我仔呢十年黎係不斷重複發生以上類似既無腦無家教事件...接投訴、俾人指爆個頭黎鬧我唔教仔(明明嘔心瀝血係咁教咗十年喇喎)、鬧我仔有爺生無乸教、係咁同個仔向人道歉....仲有好多,D尊嚴同眼淚都流哂出去,最近好D,學校老師同訓導主任終於都feel到我係有盡心盡力去教仔,開始同情我,亦明白我個仔D行為係鬧都無用,只可以靠成日重複咁提醒佢同埋食葯(過度活躍)...至少我少咗D冤枉委屈,已經好咗好多.

總之一齊努力啦!教仔係嘔血D架喇!都係嘔多十年八年啫...我地幾歹都捱埋佢!加油!!!靚媽!!!

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~仔仔媽咪~

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發表於 09-4-22 07:18 |只看該作者

原帖由 Leomummy 於 09-4-21 23:40 發表

坦白講，我真係有 d 發悔氣，我要阿仔知道，雖然人哋只提出賠償 12 元，但黎 12 元是否真正數目？人哋目的唔係呢 12 元，與其係咁，倒不如賠償一個合理價錢，起碼自己個心都感到䬷服 d ...

查實我會懷疑開價十二蚊嗰個唔係女同學個家長囉!而係女同學自己!佢父母唔記得同個女講番,個女以為要為自己屋企'出一口氣'或者覺得塊板係你仔整爛就要負責任,所以至吹水唔抹咀同老師講話屋企人要你仔賠塊板,咁細路仔唔知價,咪以為一塊板只值十二蚊,咪開價十二蚊囉!

咁有時細路仔都會自把自為架~~~既然人地家長唔駛要你地賠錢就唔需要再諗呢個問題喇.費時搞到自己仲心煩意亂.

relax~~~~!!!

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tkkmama

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發表於 09-4-22 08:07 |只看該作者

大好機會教仔啦..

人心險惡又何止外面世界呀~~

好老實, 我個人就好唔喜歡俾女過人地屋企玩既, 有大人在場都可以.. 冇人只得小朋友既話,我係極之唔想.. 希望今次之後, 你仔仔有所警惕啦..

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發表於 09-4-22 08:29 |只看該作者

回覆 # 的文章

好小事啫，唔使講到冇家敎呀

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JFL

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發表於 09-4-22 08:56 |只看該作者

我唔覺得你系冇家教,你個小朋友都有同對方道咗歉,系大意咗冇同你講啫.我同其他媽咪一樣認為對方嘅家長有問題.生日會系佢自己私下搞嘅,点解會寫封投數信比學校呢？如果佢請得你個仔去佢屋企參加生日會,都應該同你個仔好熟,一來你個仔比佢地低班,如果你個仔系好曳好百厭都唔會請佢喇.樓主都唔好同個仔再提,費事小小事傷咗母子感情.不如叫個仔唔好同個女仔玩嘞,遠離佢吧！

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