I have 印印 already. But agree that I also worry she cannot handle. Then my 99 will always come to my place. She though she can help but she can't even stand long or carry heavy thing. Don't know what she can help..... Horrible!!
wa...ur situation is really bad wor!! I also thought about this, and my solution is that my mom / dad will look after my boy for a few hours while i give birth at the hospital, i also plan to hire a 鐘點 to do cleaning and cooking, then my 99 will come back to hk from usa to stay for 3 months to help looking after my boy coz i won't be able to go to the parks w/ my boy. i also not plan to hire 陪月, coz they are expensive and they don't do many things, and i don't need them to help me changing diaper or taking bath, also i plan to breastfeed, so i don't see much use in them.