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ac321


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發表於 09-8-17 18:47 |只看該作者
However, he never said that he will sell the flat they are living now.........
May be one day, when his wife live in the 'public' estate, she will know how nice her husband is now !!!!

I think we have the same day dream....
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原帖由 cy101 於 09-8-17 18:39 發表
係囉, 我都想有人買間1400万既屋我住下!! 會唔會原先間屋係2000万架, 所以對呢間有不滿呀!!

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 09-8-17 18:50 編輯 ]
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22#
發表於 09-8-17 20:24 |只看該作者
唔買都買羅
你就忍下吧
到年底升兩三成巨就會收聲啦
不過買樓甘大件事都自做主張
換左我都鬧
少奶奶的身份，丫頭的命...
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happy_mum


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23#
發表於 09-8-17 20:39 |只看該作者
Marick,

Afterall, you should have consulted your wife before you bought the flat as both of you will be living there, no doubt in that .

However, I also think that your wife needs an attitude adjustment too. All she needs is a job to bring her back to reality and see how hard is it to pay for a 14M flat. Just to make her appreciate how good she has in her life and stop complaining.

Sorry if I am too straight forward.

原帖由 Marick 於 09-8-17 17:26 發表
我老婆都是咁講。她是housewife。層樓二人名，首期5M由我左括右括從自已多年積聚拿出來，借9M再要供20年，我都冇乜私己$剩。

最近樓價飛升..但係要比50万厘印，又買唔起其他單位 (想住大D，住20年...)，因為其他靚單位升更多，買 ...
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24#
發表於 09-8-17 21:42 |只看該作者
Marick，男人黎講你都算係好好囉！首期5M+9M按揭，真係唔簡單 (有幾多人買得起咁貴o既樓？)！仲要加埋個老婆名，真係值得一讚！可惜係你既然出得咁多錢首期，何必貪佢平一成，而買唔交吉呢？斷估你可能俾個口材好叻的agent"坤"左，再唔係就係個agent超靚女，所以你完全唔等你老婆就決定左... (哈哈... 講下笑啫！)

可惜你冇咩資金，如果唔係層樓真係當投資都唔錯... 其實你都好好彩，剛剛開左AUSTIN站，再加上呢兩月個樓市真係不正常咁升，你決定離場應該都唔會損手... 同你老婆慢慢商量下啦！佢應該會俾到d你同佢都高興o既方案你！祝你順利！

如果我老公好似你咁買樓，我諗我反應同你太太一樣，仲要下刪四千字...


原帖由 Marick 於 2009-8-17 17:26 發表
我老婆都是咁講。她是housewife。層樓二人名，首期5M由我左括右括從自已多年積聚拿出來，借9M再要供20年，我都冇乜私己$剩。

最近樓價飛升..但係要比50万厘印，又買唔起其他單位 (想住大D，住20年...)，因為其他靚單位升更多，買 ...

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發表於 09-8-17 21:57 |只看該作者
原帖由 Marick 於 09-8-17 16:16 發表
我地住新界，小兒在尖沙咀上学，我在香港上班，所以很想搬去九龍。兩公婆睇咗幾個月，只想買九龍站，但越睇价越升。好驚買唔到。
結果，上個月沒同老婆商量，比市价低一成買咗個不交吉單位，要下年尾才可收回單位。佢好唔滿意，話方向 ...


u r such a nice husband! my HB did the opposite sold our 13m+ (cost incl stamp duty, agent's fee) flat in Q4 08 at only 10.xxm, I m so fed up with him till now. I sometimes don't talk to him when I look back.

how i wish my HB is like u care abt the family so much! my HB just disregard my will to keep the flat (or maybe your wife has the same thought?? she doesn't want to live in Kln station?)

My HB did a similar thing 2+ years ago. He bot a flat in Macau for investment when I was on biz trip. He told me he wanted to buy b4 the trip but I warned him not to buy. I came back he bot it, I was very angry, and said 'dai say' for many times many days. He was very unhappy on my discouraging words and I guess he felt that I m not a good wife. However, he made the choice w/o my consent which means he does not respect me. I think your wife may also have the same feeling.

Try to persuade her and let her feel better, how good the new aptmt is, it's a prime area in Kln side, upside is good, blah blah blah.

[ 本帖最後由 c-wong 於 09-8-17 22:10 編輯 ]
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發表於 09-8-17 22:27 |只看該作者
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28#
發表於 09-8-17 22:59 |只看該作者
sure I can understand how you feel and what you try to do for the family. but if my husband does that for our home, i'll be very upset and angry too. it doesn't matter who pays for the house. even if yr wife doesn't share the payment, she is a member of your family, she contributes her time and efforts to take care of your child and the house chore.

my husband bought his new car but we couldn't agree on the color. At the end, I warned him that you better buy the color we both like otherwise I'd be unhappy every time I seat in the car.

But since you bot it, you can convince your wife its good investment and you'll make more money to buy her a even bigger apt in the future.....at her choice.
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29#
發表於 09-8-17 23:10 |只看該作者
香港d男人簡直係癈柴, 自己有咁多錢買野仲要比人當係狗, 抵死。
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30#
發表於 09-8-17 23:19 |只看該作者
我都係一家住新界, 我好想搬出九龍, 如果我老公好似你咁,我開心都來唔切.
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32#
發表於 09-8-18 01:27 |只看該作者
呢個case有複雜！

如果我involve係入面，
而我身份係太太，我都會唔開心架！
事關咁大件事應該有商有量，呢叫尊重！
不過，我又覺得唔買都買左，鬧完就算啦！
況且錢係你！

但係如果我係樓主，
唔買都買左，仲要鬧足一個月都仲唔收，
咁容忍都有限度囉！
就算唔岩都唔洗死！
再鬧落去我唯有搵過個女主人啦！
既然你咁唔like！:;pppp:


以上純粹個人幻想下作出評論，
不喜勿插！多謝包涵！
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發表於 09-8-18 10:23 |只看該作者
I bet the agent is a pretty woman under 30 so make your wife so angry of couse plus not respect her) you are not the worst, I had seen husband gave up the deposit and 2% agency fee as compensation because the same reason of you
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LoveChild


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36#
發表於 09-8-18 12:20 |只看該作者
樓主, 你份工都好穩定, 借9M 供20年, 我同老公從來無想過 , 而家叫我買層6M的樓都要想來想去, 你老婆罵你, 我又覺得好應該, 因為有好多時, 女人都會覺得你做咁重大決定而唔同佢商量, 你真係找死, 仲有首期要5M, 仲要左找右找, 咁即係你的銀根唔足, 真係好危險
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37#
發表於 09-8-18 12:26 |只看該作者
如果我同老公有5M，已經可以係媽咪附近買層千幾呎，好好座向o既樓住...唔使依家為左個女，晚晚係娘家，同老公兩個人迫係大廳張三呎沙發床度瞓...
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Marick


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38#
發表於 09-8-18 12:42 |只看該作者
Luckily, the agent is a man..or I 死梗

原帖由 canies 於 2009-8-18 10:23 AM 發表
I bet the agent is a pretty woman under 30 so make your wife so angry of couse plus not respect her) you are not the worst, I had seen husband gave up the deposit and 2% agency fee as compe ...
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39#
發表於 09-8-18 12:59 |只看該作者
你真係慘，亦粗心大意，行錯1步，
就係冇問老婆意見先！
佢會覺得你唔著緊佢感受、
佢o係你心目中冇地位，覺得你唔愛佢，
所以鬧完又鬧囉~

如果唔係，你比錢買樓又加佢名，佢攬住你o錫都黎唔切
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Marick


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發表於 09-8-18 13:41 |只看該作者
大部份Mami都話我唔應該，其實我都知道應該問佢，咁点解我冇問呢，其實對我來說，那一刻(交票比經紀)是人生交叉点：
嗰日經紀call 我帶我睇，我有話比老婆知我去睇，因有租約，經紀帶我睇低兩層的單位，我幾中意，打比老婆，佢話想住第二座方向好的嘅(但貴一百多萬，我買唔起)，又話樓价太高，比年初貴了二百多萬，等多一、二年樓价跌再買佢心目中的單位。

我之前check過其他行經紀報价，此單位比較抵，經紀又話即日交票否則業主遲D可能會反价，咁我只有2個選擇:
1. 話比老婆知，佢反對，買唔成。
2. 唔話比老婆知，交票，可能買唔成，可能買成。買到再同老婆解畫。
結果會有:
a.若果買唔到，而樓价再升，以後會買唔到咁大的，或搬唔到。咁我會好唔開心，因為錯失兩次机會。我兒現讀小学，每天上学我開車送佢要45分，放学坐校車要1hr，好遠，而家同工人同房，所以我想搬近D，搬大Ｄ，佢只會同我地生活多十幾年，希望比好D生活佢。
b.若果買唔到，而樓价跌。咁就最好，但大陸太多有錢人，我又唔會富貴，收入會跑輸。
c.若果買到，而樓价跌，咁我死得。
d.若果買到，而樓价升，即係買唔到佢概理想單位啦。

工作要當機立斷，買樓亦然，作錯決定便要坦然承受結果，所以我選擇了2. 唔話比老婆知，交票。我寧願比佢閙一陣，都唔想失去改善家人生活的機會。若果買到，而樓价跌，起碼可以改善生活，最多比佢閙足一世，或者供供下可以換樓。「公妳贏，字我輸」，要忍下。但我亦冇想過佢會咁唔中意，有時諗諗下又會黑面xyz我，或打電話閙我...

其他mami, 若果您老公又好似我咁冇問過您作出您唔中意的決定，都唔好咁'興'呀！或者有佢嘅原因呢！

原帖由 babyhowie 於 2009-8-18 01:27 AM 發表
呢個case有複雜！

如果我involve係入面，
而我身份係太太，我都會唔開心架！
事關咁大件事應該有商有量，呢叫尊重！
不過，我又覺得唔買都買左，鬧完就算啦！
況且錢係你！

但係如果我係樓主，
唔買都買左，仲要鬧足一個月都仲唔收 ...
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