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侯爵府

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發表於 05-2-28 09:45 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

:cry: 愛之心:希望你可以過到呢關啦!有乜就上黎傾下啦!有人傾點都好過放係心既!唔好咁難過啦!

祝福你!


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22#
發表於 05-2-28 13:23 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

愛之深 寫道:
真係好多謝你哋嘅意見同支持
好細個巳知冇貓唔食魚嘅道理
但個個女人都天真地認為自己個老公例外
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I am sorry, I am not one of the天真女人, but I am careful enough to choose a husband which will not go to 召妓because he knew what is love, what is respect, what is honest and what is self-respect.
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以前白姐姐同宜家絕情雙joe都話~
10個有9個半男人都去召妓 :evil:
召妓唔代表唔愛老婆唔愛家庭,嗰半個唔召妓係孤寒or潔癖
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This is bull ####, so is that mean we women have to bear it because10個有9個半男人都去召妓??? I don't think so and I honestly can't bear with this. 召妓唔代表唔愛老婆唔愛家庭, I asked my husband last night, he said this is represent 不忠, open your eyes wide please, if he is married, this is 100% 不忠, if he is single, 召妓 is one of the ways for men to release their 性慾. My husband never went to 召妓 because this is not about 孤寒or潔癖, this is about getting chance to have AIDS, and he will use other ways to release his 性慾 by doing sports, gym. My 老爺 teach him 召妓 is a bad thing when he was young, so all of his life he has a very good concept about sex.
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但佢地都有佢方法例如一夜情or處女......
只係次數問題.....唔知唔代表佢冇............
覺得不可思議...........男人真係好恐怖 :evil:
貼解男人喺性方面唔可以重一而終.........咁自私咁濫交
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男人喺性方面唔可以重一而終, it's only you have found one who can't 重一而終, I am sure there are many BK moms's husband will not 召妓, maybe you didn't know your husband well. Just think, what if you didn't go out to look for him and found out, do you think he will tell you after he went back to resort? Of course not!!!
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:evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:
我並冇啞忍或默許.............
只係大家仍相愛.............如果佢不嬲都唔好我唔駛咁煩......
只係要罰佢之餘又對我傷害冇咁大嘅決定
(仍1516):cry:



There is nothing I want to offend you, but this is the truth, don't find a reason or excuse to make yourself feel comfort to believe that 召妓唔代表唔愛老婆唔愛家, this is 不忠不忠不忠不忠不忠不忠不忠不忠!!!!!

If you still love him, this is ok but how can you trust him 100% again? if he come home late again, will you suspect? If he didn't answer your call, will you suspect? I just want you to use more time to digest this whole thing, take more time to think what you really want and what you really need to do for yourself, I am concern about your feeling.

Wish you find the best path to go for your life!


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23#
發表於 05-2-28 13:35 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

酒醉三分醒...........最憎o的男人搵飲醉做借口


別墅

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24#
發表於 05-2-28 13:50 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

我完全同意damiergirl既講法..連你都幫佢搵藉口...佢就更加有藉口咁做....不過好多時要點做..其實你自己已經有答案..因為呢d野在我唻講..還沒發生已經會想像一下..當自己想像既時候..其實答案已經出左唻.
無論點..希望你能儘快復原

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男爵府

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25#
發表於 05-2-28 13:51 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

愛之深,

我很同意其他媽咪所說, 若你老公愛你, 他一定不會做任何傷害你的事情。但要離開一個自己簡的男人, 亦要很大勇氣去面對改變! 我這局外人, 真是只有同情, 實在是不知怎樣給你意見。

我從來未試過飲醉酒, 於是問我老公飲醉酒感覺是怎樣的, 還問他為何要令自己有醉的感覺。他說一般男人時常想醉, 是要逃避一些問題, 一些問題他無法解決。

你說你老公很鐘意飲酒, 但很易醉。他是否有些問題是要逃避? 要知道醉醒之後的感覺並不好受, 為何他還是要花錢做這些事?


子爵府

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26#
發表於 05-2-28 13:53 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

不知說什麼好!
只能說句"願悲傷遠離您好"! :wink:
:-D


男爵府

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27#
發表於 05-2-28 14:08 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

好明白如大家的愛好深, 的而且確係好難去決擇, 但都不要為他找借口, 除非他被人下了迷藥, 無論如何你心中已經有了答案, 就放下吧!


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28#
發表於 05-2-28 14:12 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

叫已經唔好嘞! 仲一家大細去旅行叫tim! 我都唔識點講. :exclaim:


侯爵府

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29#
發表於 05-2-28 14:18 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

如果一句"放棄"係好易做既話,我諗大家都會去做而唔係搵人傾下"掃"下苦!

放棄呢兩個字講就容易,做起上黎真係好難架! :cry:


男爵府

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30#
發表於 05-2-28 14:30 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

點解可以一次又一次咁, 你真係要好好諗清楚 :-x


大宅

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31#
發表於 05-2-28 14:35 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

如果我係你, 我唔會比佢自己一個人出去, 但佢點都要出的話, 我就嬲佢, 到佢做錯了事時, 只好說一向佢自己攞黎, 好好的家庭係佢一手破壞, 我自己就一定絕對唔會原諒佢, 而且呢次竟然不是第一次, 我會叫佢唔好再在我面前扮好好先生, 仲話錫我錫BB, 我STUPID信O左一次之後, 唔會再一次,,,, 即使我點愛佢, 我都會分手, 冇得轉彎, 純個人意見, 因為我覺得, 你原諒佢, 佢仲會有三四五六七八次,,,,, 我自己就再再受不了這些傷害.


大宅

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32#
發表於 05-2-28 15:33 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

愛之深

不要再想太多了…..
現在只有二個choice:
(1) 原諒, 但原諒後怎樣重建對佢的信任, 當然這是要你老公去俾誠意(不是單單對你好) 而是要佢完全介除惡習--- 叫雞
(2) 不原諒, 但各方面都有個清楚的去向, $$, 小朋友等

不要信電台節目主持人那些錯誤信息, 我覺得他們所說只是反映娛樂圈內的人的行為, 並不可以代表一般人的行為(指9成男人叫雞) ---他們從何搵到這些數據呢, 他這樣說未免太”偏底”人啦…….男人天生好色的與生俱來, 他們會睇4 仔, 上色情網去尋找好奇, 但不代表他們會叫雞….

我的意見是,看看你愛佢的程度吧,(而且仲有小朋友)….但原諒他之餘佢一定不可以再犯……..(不過佢已經食言啦,,,,,,,,哎)所以請你好好的想想他是否可再信,,,,,

若你這次真係原諒了他, 你都要唔好俾佢覺得這麼輕易了事(老婆嬲一下, 哄一下就沒事)的感覺, 你要俾佢有一種會lose 你或whole family 會破裂的後果的感覺, 例如, 搬去阿媽到住一段時間, 令佢反星下, 之後最重要大家一齊傾傾, 點解佢要這樣做, 是否大家不協調, 最後就清楚表明若有下之次, 你必走無疑!!!
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男爵府

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33#
發表於 05-2-28 15:37 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

事情已經過咗去再唸只會令自己更加唔開心,你而家最緊要就係要保護自己,始終我都覺得嗰dxx係好污糟,尤其係泰國,你要好好照顧自己,你唔睇住自己又點去照顧你個bb呢?保重!


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34#
發表於 05-2-28 15:43 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

絕對同意
Mary媽咪 寫道:
如果一句"放棄"係好易做既話,我諗大家都會去做而唔係搵人傾下"掃"下苦!

放棄呢兩個字講就容易,做起上黎真係好難架! :cry:
^.^


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發表於 05-2-28 16:51 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

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複式洋房

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36#
發表於 05-2-28 16:55 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

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CY-mother 寫道:
愛之深

不要再想太多了…..
現在只有二個choice:
(1) 原諒, 但原諒後怎樣重建對佢的信任, 當然這是要你老公去俾誠意(不是單單對你好) 而是要佢完全介除惡習--- 叫雞

And STOP DRINKING!!!!!
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若你這次真係原諒了他, 你都要唔好俾佢覺得這麼輕易了事(老婆嬲一下, 哄一下就沒事)的感覺, 你要俾佢有一種會lose 你或whole family 會破裂的後果的感覺, 例如, 搬去阿媽到住一段時間, 令佢反星下, 之後最重要大家一齊傾傾, 點解佢要這樣做, 是否大家不協調, 最後就清楚表明若有下之次, 你必走無疑!!!

If you choose to stay with him, YOU MUST SCARE HIM TO MAKE HIM FEEL THAT HE WILL LOSE YOU FOR HIS MISTAKE AND tell him you want a divorce. Until he try his very best to prove you his sincerely and his love to you.

YOU MUST LET HIM FEEL THE FEELING OF LOSING YOU, otherwise he will never cherish you and think you are stupid and easy to lie to.

STAND UP to speak for youself now! We will support you here!


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37#
發表於 05-2-28 17:16 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

愛之深:
酒醉三分醒呀!!!
除非真係醉到扒左係度,但醉到訓低又點叫雞呢???
你自己諗清楚吧!!!
你既然有咁多疑問,點解唔問清楚你老公呢???
你老公係一個點的人你一定比任何人清楚,而佢醉左之後又係一個點的人你都一定好清楚,既然佢以前已經因為飲醉酒之犯錯過,點解佢仲要比機會自己飲醉呢???
既然錯過就應該更警惕住自己唔好有犯錯的機會,如今佢又再犯錯,你要諗清楚究竟原諒左佢後,自己心裏面會唔會有條刺???積極d的做法就係藉著今次的機會一定要佢戒酒,以後滴酒不沾作為對佢的懲罰。


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發表於 05-2-28 17:42 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

要放棄係唔容易,但係要原諒更加唔易,如果已經選擇咗原諒就必定要忘記過去,否則心裡面永遠只會留有一個烙印。

[quote]

Mary媽咪 寫道:
如果一句"放棄"係好易做既話,我諗大家都會去做而唔係搵人傾下"掃"下苦!

放棄呢兩個字講就容易,做起上黎真係好難架! :cry:


複式洋房

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39#
發表於 05-2-28 17:49 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去咗叫雞

[quote]
小manman 寫道:
愛之深:
酒醉三分醒呀!!!
除非真係醉到扒左係度,但醉到訓低又點叫雞呢???

I was talking about this topic earlier with my husband on the phone. Someone said maybe your husband wanted to drink to avoid problems. Maybe...... but I don't think this is the reason. Because he had the intention to go out drinking FIRST then 叫雞.

According to what my husband said AFTER drinking can also be more relax, dare to say things that you may afraid to say, do things that you may afraid to do and especially it does make someone to feel "higher" when having sex. Why he knew, to tell you the truth it was our own experience. Our first make love, we drank lots of beers in karaoke but not drunk. And he was enough 清醒 to ask me if I want to do it or not. And I knew exactly what we were doing. So DON'T trust him the part about drinking leaded him to this mistake. He knew what he was doing!!!

You must know the difference between a careless mistake and intentionally (明知) to make a mistake.

I heartly wish you understand you deserve fairness, happiness and true love. You don't deserve to be treated like this.


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發表於 05-2-28 18:23 |只看該作者

Re: 一家去泰國旅行,竟然...俾我發現老公去

如果你仍然覺得佢係一個好老公,而佢每次犯錯都係因為飲醉酒,從今日起要佢戒酒,以表明佢既決心,如果佢唔戒,你信佢都傻喇!比你發現就兩次姐,你見唔到又有幾多次呢?佢呢D心癮,點會忍得到外面既誘惑.佢連泰國出晒名既愛滋雞都唔怕,我真係好替你膽心.


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