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petunia


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21#
發表於 10-1-25 10:12 |只看該作者
因為，有更多的case，係嘈之後99會周圍同人講是講非。

因為，99就係唔講道理。

因為，嘈左，99都唔會覺得自己有問題。

因為，c6無用，理解你都好都只係叫你讓步，企晒在自己阿媽果邊。

你話，可以點反抗？
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ac321


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22#
發表於 10-1-25 13:19 |只看該作者
點解新抱們唔反抗
As I know, most of the case they don't 反抗 is because
1) They depends on their 99 (e.g. they back to their 99's flat to have dinner every day, their 99 help them to take care of their kids....)
2) They live in their 99's flat
3)Their 99 paid ($) for their wedding, or when they bought their flat
4) 新抱 totally depends on their husband (no jobs, no $ ......) i.e. their husbands have the 100% right in the family. If they 反抗 their 99, they can't expect what will happened in their family (their husband may cut their pocket $...... )

If 新抱 not depends on their 99 (and husband), all of them (those 新抱 I know) 反抗 in the begining, like me.

原帖由 petunia 於 10-1-25 10:12 發表
因為，有更多的case，係嘈之後99會周圍同人講是講非。

因為，99就係唔講道理。

因為，嘈左，99都唔會覺得自己有問題。

因為，c6無用，理解你都好都只係叫你讓步，企晒在自己阿媽果邊。

你話，可以點反抗？ ...
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原帖由 ac321 於 10-1-25 13:19 發表
點解新抱們唔反抗
As I know, most of the case they don't 反抗 is because
1) They depends on their 99 (e.g. they back to their 99's flat to have dinner every day, their 99 help them to take care of thei ...


Agree....你講果幾個point我一個都無,所以我都可以反抗
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ac321


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24#
發表於 10-1-25 14:21 |只看該作者
Therefore, I always teach my daughter.........
Never depends on other (include your husband). If you can't depend on yourself (to have your won family), then don't get marry. Live with your parents (in your parent's house) is the most comfortable place in the world!



原帖由 montana 於 10-1-25 14:12 發表


Agree....你講果幾個point我一個都無,所以我都可以反抗

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原帖由 ac321 於 10-1-25 14:21 發表
Therefore, I always teach my daughter.........
Never depends on other (include your husband). If you can't depend on yourself (to have your won family), then don't get marry. Live with your parents (i ...


Though my daughter is now only 13 months old, I'm considering to buy a flat (<$1.5M) for her as 嫁妝. In case some day she finds her husband and family members in-law treat her badly, she can have a small place to relax.

My plan is to save ~$500K as the first instalment of the flat, then rent it out. After ~20 years, the mortgage should be fully repaid and I'll give it to my daughter as a wedding gift.
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ac321


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發表於 10-1-25 15:15 |只看該作者
My parents have already done similiar things for me.
When I got marry, my parents prepare 1M for me. They told me use this $ to buy my flat (for the 30% payment). Even my husband bought his flat before we got marry, I should have my flat (so that don't need to be controlled by him). Then, someone rent my flat and the rent can cover the mortgage. 10 years later, I will have a fully paid flat in my name.
However, I don't want to give this flat to my daughter now. It is because I want her to be independent and earn her live by herself. But, if her husband doesn't treat her well, then I will give this flat to her.




原帖由 tantanmama 於 10-1-25 14:59 發表


Though my daughter is now only 13 months old, I'm considering to buy a flat (
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LoveChild


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27#
發表於 10-1-25 17:01 |只看該作者
AGREE,
雖然而家有D倚靠老公, 不過在生活的細節上, 我覺得老公倚靠我多D, 所以我都唔怕佢, 有時只係覺得佢可憐
原帖由 montana 於 10-1-25 14:12 發表


Agree....你講果幾個point我一個都無,所以我都可以反抗
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hellomag


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28#
發表於 10-1-25 17:23 |只看該作者
99...唉....有時同奶奶講嘢好似同火星人溝通咁, 溝極都吾通, 所以我好少同佢講嘢, 好笑, 有次99同c6講 [ 你老婆啞既, 都吾講嘢既。]c6答99 [ 有咩好講啫, 講少d嘈少d, 咪幾好。]
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Virginia_Arare


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29#
發表於 10-1-25 17:31 |只看該作者
正面衝突會令老公難做, 我會反抗架, 不過我會通常同老公講聲, 叫佢同99講, 起碼99唔會直接鬧我呀嘛!

而且, 通常99們都會記仇...最好留番老公同佢講先, 然後我會和議, 咁樣佢會無咁多嘢講



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小mama


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發表於 10-1-25 21:32 |只看該作者
原帖由 tantanmama 於 10-1-25 14:59 發表


Though my daughter is now only 13 months old, I'm considering to buy a flat (


世上只有媽媽好!!!
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huic9


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31#
發表於 10-1-25 22:47 |只看該作者
根本冇可能反抗, 就算係99幾唔岩都好, 好似我C6咁, 佢講佢亞媽不是就得, 我講一句:乜你亞媽咁架! 佢已經話我做咩話佢亞媽, 會有仔唔要亞媽要老婆咩?

受99氣既, 唯有忍氣吞聲, 連老公都唔可以講, 好似我咁, 我99係8婆, 我知佢有機會向人面前, 一定講衰我, 所以我已經諗定辨法, 對佢身邊D親戚朋友好好, 咁佢講我咩都冇人信佢, 呢我係我唯一諗到既辦法!
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littlebaby6299


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32#
發表於 10-1-25 22:59 |只看該作者
作為有教養既人, 99就算幾衰都好....都唯有忍.....

亦都因為唔想c6難做所以先忍....
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glory911


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33#
發表於 10-1-25 23:23 |只看該作者
我對我99有不滿，不我會選擇對佢無反應(識左咁耐試過一次)，當睇唔到聽唔到佢講野。但如果佢想做嘅野係過分既我就會同C6講我企硬，而唔係同C6商量。
我又唔覺得一定要反抗99先保護到自己尊嚴禾，你當佢係空氣even指著我罵我都只會目中無人地唔理佢（雖然未試過），佢只會自己愈激氣，諗起都樂開懷啦。
我同C6阿嫂都中左abc123既一點，就係我哋都係C6養。但大嫂一個大肚婆就服侍到99佢地到零晨唔知幾最終，累過頭係地下瞓左成晚。有時唔一定打硬仗，而係自己識唔識避禍，同無聲地比佢知道自己唔係咁逆來順受羅。

[ 本帖最後由 glory911 於 10-1-25 23:45 編輯 ]
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glory911


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原帖由 ac321 於 10-1-25 15:15 發表
My parents have already done similiar things for me.
When I got marry, my parents prepare 1M for me. They told me use this $ to buy my flat (for the 30% payment). Even my husband bought his flat befo ...


我覺得你好幸福阿，外家有能力咁support你。香港好多女性要幫手供樓之如仲要受氣，就因為C6專制，係自己無條件大男人時都要嫁左被佢就係佢既人。我相信你丈夫都係一個懂得尊重太太既人。
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35#
發表於 10-1-26 01:07 |只看該作者
我會反抗個喎,事關我話過我唔會再忍個賤婆+對佢客氣!
我都有阿媽生既,我阿媽生我出黎唔係老奉要受佢氣要俾佢鬧!我媽咪知道個賤婆咁對佢個女都唔知幾心痛!
就好似前排早一兩星期我先同個賤婆嘈左幾次之嘛,不過又唔係嘈到好激,我串番佢咪即刻收皮!

我爸媽過黎台灣探我同我個女,有晚佢地落去賤婆度一齊食飯,講起我叔仔冇做野,因為要照顧我太99(我老公阿麻)
個賤婆當住我爸媽面前講"係啦,我話叫XX(我老公)個老婆落黎照顧阿麻,佢(叔仔)去搵野做"
我爸媽唔出聲,跟住我駁佢"我唔駛湊女呀"
賤野就話"咁大個唔駛湊啦"(大個?我女兩歲未夠喎)
之後我再駁"唔駛湊咁由佢自生自滅囉",個賤野就唔出聲喇!
佢老闆,當住我父母面前叫佢地個女去照顧個老人家?我自己阿麻都未照顧啦,要我照顧個同我冇關係既人?
最夠膽死係話我女咁大個唔駛湊,我唔出聲就唔係人啦!
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晞玥


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36#
發表於 10-1-26 01:19 |只看該作者
仲有呀,個賤野夠係做人新抱啦,而且佢99(我太99)仲在生架,佢自己對佢99夠唔係好啦!
有次唔知佢同太99嘈D咩,佢好惡死講左一句話太99"痴線"添呀~我太99九十幾歲喇!
我咁耐以黎都冇話過佢一句"痴線"啦!:;pppp:
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ac321


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37#
發表於 10-1-26 11:47 |只看該作者
Thanks.
I feel that my parents love me so much!!!
And my husband also love me so much!!!
My husband is a 大男人 in front of my 62 99 only.
For example, when my 99 ask for our home key when we got marry:
99: give me a set of your key so that I can visit you with my relatives/friends at any time as I like.
my husband: ask the key from my wife. I am a 大男人 and won't take care of those 'non-important' things. All those things involved our family are decided by my wife.
99: I asked her before, and she said 'No'.
my husband: 'No' means 'no', then don't ask me the same question again! Her answer is also my answer.
99: You are not a 大男人 anymore. You just listen to your wife.........
my husband: A man 大男人should know how to protect his families (wife, kids), esp. in front of those trouble making people.
I: my husband is 100% similar like his father.

99's face turned black, 62's face turned red, and my husband laughed loudly .........




原帖由 glory911 於 10-1-25 23:52 發表


我覺得你好幸福阿，外家有能力咁support你。香港好多女性要幫手供樓之如仲要受氣，就因為C6專制，係自己無條件大男人時都要嫁左被佢就係佢既人。我相信你丈夫都係一個懂得尊重太太既人。 ...

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 10-1-26 11:56 編輯 ]
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原帖由 ac321 於 10-1-26 11:47 發表
...my husband: 'No' means 'no', then don't ask me the same question again! Her answer is also my answer.


你老公真的太好了. 一定要表揚他. 這句話是每一個老婆都希望聽到的.
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ac321


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39#
發表於 10-1-26 11:59 |只看該作者
Therefore, I think my husband is a 100% 大男人.
A 大男人 should be like that: know how to protect his wife/kids when necessary.


原帖由 tantanmama 於 10-1-26 11:55 發表


你老公真的太好了. 一定要表揚他. 這句話是每一個老婆都希望聽到的.
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littlebaby6299


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40#
發表於 10-1-26 12:03 |只看該作者
No means No.....good response...

原帖由 ac321 於 10-1-26 11:47 發表
Thanks.
I feel that my parents love me so much!!!
And my husband also love me so much!!!
My husband is a 大男人 in front of my 62 99 only.
For example, when my 99 ask for our home key when we got mar ...
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