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請勿誤會,我真的只是開玩笑, 並沒有Y念。

原帖由 siu_lo 於 10-3-20 00:46 發表
你篤她patpat根本都唔係捉弄啦, 叫夾硬黎啊老細!打你眼鏡飛掉咪算小事, 唔起腳踢你弟弟都已經好比面

[ 本帖最後由 spidermanhk 於 10-3-20 01:03 編輯 ]

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希望在明天, 加油呀...

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Spidermanhk,

OMG!!!!!!!!!! How dare you are!!!!!!!!!
I guess your BB was still a new born when you 'tut' your wife's bottom

......when she was

You must have ignored her need.....to REST!!!!!!!!! It is very tiring to take care of a BB and how dare you disturbed her when she was sleeping?! You must be insane!!!!!

And now, 3 months have gone and you still are thinking what to do?! If your job is that important and good pay (pay rise 3 in a year?!), why don't you send her flowers etc. to her home direct?! None you have sent up to now?! OMG!!!!!!!!!!

It is normal that they don't catch your phone la!!!!!!!!!!!!! How dare you neglect your mother-in-law's mediating effort!!!!!!!!!!! You should buy her as spy ma!!!!!!!!!!! Stupid!!!!!!!!!!!

I think now you may send your wife little gifts (not by yourself, they won't neglect the courier guy gei) day by day. And then, appear at their door the day you on leave (I don't believe that you have to work 24/7!!!!!!!!!!). Do something sincerely la!!!!!!!!! Be quick ar!!!!!!!!!!

Please do not quote any information posted by fungwongphie.
不誠實使用電腦會構成罪行，切勿以身試法。
何謂不誠實使用電腦??

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Dear Fungwongphie, thank you for your advice.

My baby girl is only 1 yr+3mth old. I know I have been totally wrong in this matter. While I may look insane by making the stupid joke; I must say that I did it without evil intention. I and my wife once made this joke to each other, following a similar scene in a Korean 'soap' on TV. I just wanted to draw the attention of my wife then.

I was an immigrant from China when I was 7. I was brought up in family without parental care and full of violence. I have been working hard to acquire my degree, 2 masters, professional qualifications and set up my family. In the past 3 months, I was in the fear that I may lose my beloved wife and BB. I sometimes hided myself in the room after work and burst into tears; for I was depressed to find that I was running out of method to change the mind of my wife and mother-in-law.

My wife's birthday is soon coming. I wish I can have a chance to see her. I 'll send a copy of this forum discussion to her, for I do not want to mistake her thoughts, at the late stage of this matter.

原帖由 fungwongphie 於 10-3-20 01:47 發表
Spidermanhk,

OMG!!!!!!!!!! How dare you are!!!!!!!!!
I guess your BB was still a new born when you 'tut' your wife's bottom ......when she was

You must have ignored her need. ...

[ 本帖最後由 spidermanhk 於 10-3-22 23:24 編輯 ]

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原帖由 spidermanhk 於 2010/3/19 13:39 發表
newcook :多謝你的鼓勵

cowfifi, 小妮子, 小路, kimiwhy, aaroncheung:
老婆和外母半句話也不跟我說,唯有在此發岾。

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我以前都有激嬲老婆。
今次事源是12/09年,我本想捉弄老婆篤她PatPat:h ...

我覺得你的行為真係好有問題!請好好檢討,檢討......

親子王國已刪除閣下簽名檔內容,煩請自行檢視,頭像,頭銜,暱稱,如帶有廣告或宣傳推介成份,應立即修改或刪除,否則可被封鎖戶口,謝謝合作.

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原帖由 juliet 於 2010/3/20 13:58 發表

樓主我覺得你的行為真係好有問題!請好好檢討,檢討......

親子王國已刪除閣下簽名檔內容,煩請自行檢視,頭像,頭銜,暱稱,如帶有廣告或宣傳推介成份,應立即修改或刪除,否則可被封鎖戶口,謝謝合作.

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發表於 10-3-21 01:11 |只看該作者

Juilet: 我現已自責透了

。

原帖由 juliet 於 10-3-21 00:58 發表

我覺得你的行為真係好有問題!請好好檢討,檢討......

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小藍,很珍貴的鼓勵,很多謝你。

原帖由小藍於 10-3-20 01:42 發表
希望在明天, 加油呀...

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雖然唔知你點樣'頂撞'外母, 雖則你係唔岩, 但我從外人角度睇, 你老婆同外母可以嬲幾個月, 連道歉同解釋都唔俾你表達, 我覺得未免太過執著.

一段婚姻, 一個人生, 其實當中必定有好多好多辛酸既事發生, 點解大家唔去努力, 而係去折磨對方?

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amchk,
多謝你言簡意深的回應。

我認為事情誰是誰非已不重要,無論道理歸那一方,如結果是失掉了家,我認為萬萬不值。我三個月前便是認為自己沒錯,堅持不接受外母的調解,現老婆說要離婚了。我真心希望即使是我錯了,老婆和外母都不要再嬲我,否則關係只會萬劫不復。

認同應付人生充滿的辛酸,面對照顧家人,為下一代生活和教育,大家都已筋疲透了,我也嘗星期三返工星期五收工,累了睡在會議室的長棹上,回家見老婆和BB可酣睡暖暖的被窩,心便樂透。大家愛身邊的人,實在不值再為小事再去折磨對方。共勉之。

原帖由 amchk 於 10-3-21 02:10 發表
雖然唔知你點樣'頂撞'外母, 雖則你係唔岩, 但我從外人角度睇, 你老婆同外母可以嬲幾個月, 連道歉同解釋都唔俾你表達, 我覺得未免太過執著.

一段婚姻, 一個人生, 其實當中必定有好多好多辛酸既事發生, 點解大家唔去 ...

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原帖由 spidermanhk 於 10-3-21 09:22 發表
...認同應付人生充滿的辛酸,面對照顧家人,為下一代生活和教育,大家都已筋疲透了,我也嘗星期三返工星期五收工,累了睡在會議室的長棹上,回家見老婆和 BB 可酣睡暖暖的被窩,心便樂透。大家愛身邊的人,實在不值再為小事再去折磨對方。共勉之。...

嘩！0甘好0既老公，去哪裡再找位啊！

我連續幾星期，每周做70個鐘，返到屋企，只見老公做他的精神作業之嘛，(he has his project to do in order to keep him going to be a full time stay home Dad.) 他又唔系 sleeping。我都已經眼紅他的小幸福啦。心想，我做到死嚇死嚇，你仲可以有時間做自己喜歡的事情。可以自己掌握時間去睡覺。我就做到好試簽佐賣身契給人0甘。真是金睛火眼都出啊。
我唔系要你揾個第二個。唔好誤會。
在婚姻裡，我曾經做錯一事，就是因老公話我一句我自私，我就馬上打長途電話回娘家數老公。
搞到家兄應父母要求同老公在電話上講，我不自私，只是自我中心強。
夫妻情感一大忌：把自己的夫妻關系帶回娘家。男的帶回爹家。我那次，雖然老公在家兄面前表示沒有不歡，好像你以前接受外母的 “意見”（敎誨），但其實心裡以對我對他的愛信心大減了。
我學會了，自那次以後，我要做個好女兩頭瞞。而且謝絕所有我娘家對我老公所有夫妻相處的敎誨“意見”。我與我老公之間的問題，應由我和我老公獨自解圍，我們在此類事情上是非常排外的。
有此，我和老公談家庭方向，他和我的就業或去或留。家父在另一廳八卦，隔牆樹耳來聽。又聽不懂我們說什麼，只聽到我嗲老公的聲音，其實我是在扮可憐。家父就暴跳如雷0甘衝入來大罵我老公，還想打我老公。我馬上，以惡制惡，喝住我家父，我兩公婆的事，你管不著。家父如果唔想我兩夫妻搞到離婚收場呢，最好唔好加把嘴。我當時真是對家父很谷氣。
我完全同意 amchk

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原帖由 spidermanhk 於 10-3-21 00:46 發表
... I was an immigrant from China when I was 7. I was brought up in family without parental care and full of violence. ...

I understand what you mean because same here.
I think my husband tolerate me and my family "violence" very much. If it is not he think devoice is fall short on God's glory (expectation on us), he would have devoiced me many times. I appreciate my husband stay with me and my children very much. So, I can feel how much appreciation you have toward your wife and child.

Withdraw money from share account without communication was a fatal error. I am not surprise your wife would judge that you want a devoice. It is not about taking out her security feeling at all. Saying money is where women's security felling at, that is an insult to some woman. I don't know about your wife. But I am this type. So, I think if my husband withdraw money from our share account (we actually only have one account, no private account at all) without any communication is equivalent as my husband making a strong statement that he does not love me anymore and want a clear cut devoice.
他是主動想與我畫清界線。 That hurt very much.
:-(
May your wife look at your true intention and heart and forgive you and come back to you with trusting your love to her again like what my husband do to me.

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原帖由 amchk 於 10-3-21 02:10 發表
雖然唔知你點樣'頂撞'外母, 雖則你係唔岩, 但我從外人角度睇, 你老婆同外母可以嬲幾個月, 連道歉同解釋都唔俾你表達, 我覺得未免太過執著.

一段婚姻, 一個人生, 其實當中必定有好多好多辛酸既事發生, 點解大家唔去 ...

其實佢地咁嬲你...唔聽你解釋...唔會咁簡單就呢一件事...你之前可能傷得你老婆太深...而且當大家嗌完交...你仲抽走你比佢既家用...所有金錢...呢一點...比你用說話梗傷佢心...

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ndw,
很多謝你回應及分享。
我很認同你的說法,不單「好女兩頭暪」,「好仔也要兩頭暪」

。夫妻間的事情如夾雜太多意見始終不好。

老婆明天(星期一)生日,我打算今晚十二時到她家,希望有機會將「心意」交給她。今早我向工人展示了其中一份我親手造的心意,我也忘了在製作時流了多少淚了。工人看了也眼紅紅,並問我如果太太不開門怎辦?我實在不知怎答她

。

工人在家完全沒有家務可做,我惟有叫她出外逛,心中很不是味兒,很掛念老婆和B女

,很想聽到他們的聲音,家中每一角落都今我想起以前的生活片段。

今晚希望得到你們的祝福。

原帖由 ndw 於 10-3-21 12:17 發表

嘩！0甘好0既老公，去哪裡再找位啊！

我連續幾星期，每周做70個鐘，返到屋企，只見老公做他的精神作業之嘛，(he has his project to do in order to keep him going to be a full time stay home Dad.) 他又唔系 sleeping。我都 ...

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