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Re: 我有問題想問大家意見!

cynthia,我又唔同意你老公亂咁放0的錢要負責任喎...自己屋企黎0架嘛...咁0的電器,擺設,日用品咁唔通又要鎖住咩?

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您老公放錢係屋企係正常woh, 係得您屋企住就當係自己人啦.... 邊到會諗到有"家賊"呢樣野ga!

所以請local都係好睇人..........

之前我未嫁俾我老公個陣, 我奶奶佢地係用一個相熟ge local 做parttime, 係間屋企做3-4個鐘, 但係一個月俾$4000! 佢主要都係洗衫熨衫抹地... 但係佢鬼"攤". 我奶奶個次見住佢開廳個部兩匹幾三匹ge冷氣係到熨衫同埋抹地! 跟住個陣介紹左佢俾個朋友屋企又係parttime, 但係佢轉頭同我奶奶講話佢換好多衫, 熨c佢woh, 但係講緊夏天一日換一件男裝恤衫唔過份咋. 最頂癮就係佢知道我地個陣就來搬, 就即刻辭工, 連幾多日notice都無俾過. 跟住到我地搬左入來大圍, 佢又搵番我奶奶話想搵野做woh, 我奶奶無理過佢...

雖然佢無偷野, 但係d 電費都係晒到啦!!!!!

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發表於 05-5-1 15:26 |只看該作者

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cynthia,

我都試過俾個鐘點偷錢, 又係搵唔到證據, 佢又唔肯認.

事緣我老豆有一個大陶瓷罐用來儲一些有女皇頭像的散銀, 話留番第時俾bb做紀念, 儲左都超過個罐的一半. 點知突然有一日, 個罐的散銀剩番三分一, 老豆仲以為我用左, 我梗係無, 一向都用八達通. 後來問晒全屋的人都無人話用左, 咁最大嫌疑就係個鐘點. 不過我諗可能事發左有一段時間, 無即場的證據, 所以我老豆問過個鐘點知唔知點解個罐的錢少左, 個鐘點咪一路扮

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發表於 05-5-1 16:23 |只看該作者

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呢兩日自己嘅感覺好似好鬼祟咁, 每逢佢一入我房做野我就要借d意入埋房睇實佢, 出街要鎖房門....好唔方便....但係真係好驚, 驚佢今次唔偷錢而係偷其他野, 有時d野點鎖得咁多ar, 如果俾佢偷咗d自己好鍾意嘅野, 對我嚟講真係仲慘過偷錢呀(因為我一向唔會放錢在家

)!

真係遲早攪到我神經衰弱呀! :-(

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evamama

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發表於 05-5-1 17:00 |只看該作者

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解決方法, 一係自己去睇醫生, 醫好你的神經衰弱, 話你俾個工人嚇親, 一係就盡快叮走個工人, 我覺得你的心己經容不下佢, 甚至係幾擔心佢唔知會對個bb做d乜來還拖, 或者擔心佢會煮飯時候加料.跟住就越諗越多野.........

總之工人都係一次不忠, 百次不容!!!

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發表於 05-5-1 23:20 |只看該作者

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Cynthia,

I also think that you should better fire the maid lah, if not you won't feel safe.

Wendy

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發表於 05-5-2 22:59 |只看該作者

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今日同老公商量過, 都係覺得要炒咗個工人, 因為越諗越恐怖, 佢嘅行為實在好可惡!! 過兩日去agent度揀人, 到新工人嚟至炒佢, 所以起碼仲要對多佢兩個月.

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發表於 05-5-3 09:34 |只看該作者

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Cynthia,
係呀!一於炒佢啦!比我一定唔可以容忍個工人手腳唔乾淨!

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chanlkj

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發表於 05-5-3 13:05 |只看該作者

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Would you consider to fire her first and employ a part-time worker to do the housework for you during the interim period ?

Apart from "勞工處", you can further check the details of the part-time domestic helpers vide "家務通" at http:ldh.erb.org (tel : 3194 6613) or other non-government organisation e.g. 仁愛堂 cos' they are comparatively more reliable as you can interview the workers first or change for new ones if their performance is not good.

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發表於 05-5-3 13:48 |只看該作者

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chanlkj 寫道:
Would you consider to fire her first and employ a part-time worker to do the housework for you during the interim period ?

Apart from "勞工處", you can further check the details of the part-time domestic helpers vide "家務通" at http:ldh.erb.org (tel : 3194 6613) or other non-government organisation e.g. 仁愛堂 cos' they are comparatively more reliable as you can interview the workers first or change for new ones if their performance is not good.

Thanks. 不過可能我會等新工人至炒佢啦，唔想又train 多一個人.好懶．

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發表於 05-5-5 23:10 |只看該作者

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想同大家分享今日發生嘅事:

原本仲未諗好幾時炒工人, 但今日突然發現老公有隻錶唔見咗, 於是立刻帶埋亞仔趕往銀行safety box 搵, 又搵唔到...自不然就諗會唔會係屋企工人偷呢?於是返到屋企, 急call 老公回家, 一起問工人有冇偷錶,佢話冇, 喊哂. 我地跟住報警, 警察嚟到佢仍然唔肯認, 只係認之前有偷錢.

警察走後我地就送佢返去agent度, 要炒佢. 佢已經坐咗今晚6pm機走咗啦.

但係, 返到屋企, 我突然醒起隻錶收埋响邊, 隻錶搵番....原來係我產後失憶,唔記得自己收埋咗, 誤會咗佢偷錶....知道後我好唔開心, 打電話叫agent hold住唔好送佢去機場, 但係too late, 佢已入閘, 而且agent話呢個工人其實都已不可信, 係冇得留低, 畢竟佢真係偷過錢.

今晚我連晚飯都食唔落, 因為今次炒咗佢嘅"度"火線係我誤會佢偷錶....

我相信如果唔係佢偷錢在先, 我地係唔會一口咬定佢偷錶...但係我依家嘅心情好內疚, 好唔開心... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

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發表於 05-5-5 23:40 |只看該作者

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老實講, 發生今次件事都好架, 正如我之前講過, 當你發現唔見野o既時候, 自不然個腦會第一時間就諗到工人, 其實咁樣一齊相處大家都辛苦, 不如就咁了結左件事, 未嘗唔係一件好事, 唔好唔開心啦

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wenwan

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發表於 05-5-5 23:41 |只看該作者

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Cynthia,

Truely understand your feeling...but your agent is right, it is no good to keep a thief at home.

Take it easy lah.

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發表於 05-5-6 01:42 |只看該作者

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Cynthia, you must be so tired today....Not only physcially but also mentally. Anyway, she couldn't complain as that's what she has done wrong at first.

So now you're free from this case, don't make yourself hypertension la. Let's look forward to have another good one (although that's not that easy) ha...ha....ha.....

Rebecca:-D Ian's Album

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發表於 05-5-6 10:00 |只看該作者

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cynthia, 係囉...咁樣了結件事都未嘗不是好事, 唔好唔開心啦, 希望你快d搵到個好幫手!

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發表於 05-5-6 10:20 |只看該作者

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Pauline, Wendy, Rebecca, Tinna,

多謝係地嘅安慰....我老公話做人真係唔可以行差踏錯, 做錯事就好難返轉頭. 因為工人少少偷錢, 佢嘅損失仲大.

我地尋日出埋尾數俾工人(冇俾一個月代通知金), 但係俾agent 扣住, 工人個電話又俾agent 扣住, agent話驚佢有好多電話費未交所以hold 住佢d錢&電話....都唔知agent會唔會俾返佢....好慘, 佢身上只得$300.... :-(

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發表於 05-5-6 12:39 |只看該作者

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咁奇? agent 扣住佢個電話?

回程機票係咪你俾錢? 我聽過有d agent唔會咁易放個工人返鄉下, 因為佢走左就收唔到commission, 只會警告完又介紹比第個家庭用...

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mcmuggarfield

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發表於 05-5-6 13:19 |只看該作者

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Exactly true!!!!!!!!!! Some of them may send back home but their passport with a new name (with clean record ma...) That's what I heard from my mum's maid before. Corruption in the Philippine govn't, you know!!

Rebecca:-D Ian's Album

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