I have to use English replying your messages as I have no chinese software at home. Appreciate for all your advices.
I do agree that my husband does not do very good in terms of the 2 relationships. Up till now he still says that every year when he visits his kids he will go on his own even though he notices that his ex wife wants him to stay in her house.
Every time I saw his ex and their family photo I have an impulse to runaway from my husband but when I think about my son it seems unfair to him. Its too late to regret as I only realise at this stage that this kind of relationship is so tough and I seem to be the victim of his broken marriage.
I think I shouldn't appear to be upset in front of my husband's family and try not to go to their house that often would be a better remedy.
Above all, during my saddest time, I wish all of you could be my listener and friends. Appreciate very much.
I hope what you said won't happen to me. I feel stange that he needs to tell lies when he wants to call his kids. He never talks to them in front of me and have a feeling that he is hidding something
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My husband said that he wanted to leave me and baby when i discuss this matter with him :-( therefore i think he still misses the ex family.
It's not because of me as his family members know that they have great differences in personality. He is destined to divorce with his wife as their hatred is very deep. However, their parents and my husband love the kids very much, hence his ex still had false hope on him when he went to visit them.
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