I will hire one more helper for taking care of the new born. Don't want to have 2 helpers but no choice. Don't like in law or my mum to take care of my children as they will only spoil them. I tried to take care of my 3 yrs old child alone without helper for 3 weeks...that was the most most difficult period, spending lots of time to clean, wash, cook, not to mention do grocery and take him to school etc. It is really hard to do everything myself, 24 hrs no rest. For me it is really worth to pay her salary to do everything for me so that I can enjoy time with my child and motherhood.