Then last night, after finished the dinner, i push the 印傭 to look after the baby and then 我同老公在房傾了...
my husband cried very much and beg me to give him one chance, he wants to look after the baby, he don't want to lose this family, he dont want to lost me, he will change his job and stay in hk, he also said that if we divorce, the baby will be 好慘...
老公話好後悔, 我其實心裡留有一線, 就專登問老公:"如果我要同你離婚, 你可唔可以俾我同個仔住番這間屋, 你會唔會負責仔仔的生活費到18歲, 如果我帶仔仔改嫁, 等仔仔有個後父, 等後父"蝦"仔仔.......
my husbands then very worried, cos he worried our son very much and beg me to re-think..... he said, but if we really divorced, then 我俾唔俾bb的爺爺麻麻間中睇下個bb....
Ritachen,
Sorry to read your story...... I agree with 'best friend', your husband is a bit 'too much' la. You have to think about it seriously ah.
Be strong & good luck !
then, i said to my husband, i want to call that girl. he said 隨便我點handle this girl.
I called the girl and she picked up the phone (1:20am), she couldn't hear me clearly and then I say loudly:"are you Miss Wang?" she said "yes and who are u", then I said" Do you still love Ah Wah"?, then this girl very scared and cut off the line
then the girl switched off the phone and then i called again and left the message for her: I said:" My husband loves me very much, he 從來沒有愛過你, 你只是妓女, 你是有錢買回來的肉體服務, 你沒有資格我到我老公的愛, 我老公不會愛你的."
and then i pushed my husband to left a message for her and saying that:
" 我冇愛你, 我很愛我的太太, 我很愛我的家, 請你以後不要打攪我們了...
Ritachen,
I feel so sorry for your story. To divorce or not, it really depends on how you face your own life with your husband. If you think you can live with him thereafter like before, you could give him another chance. however, if the answer is no, why dont you cut it short and think for a future life with your own son. no one on earth wants to see another pair to split. however, the fact is that whether you really can forgive what your husband has done to you. from 2001-2005, it really is a long time and i am sure he knew what he did was wrong, but... he kept on doing it, for which i personally cannot forgive..... you really need to think it objectively. good luck.