I'm so sorry about it.I have the similar case from end of last year,I understand u,I still ....
好好傾=有感情 if have right timing is is easy 有男女x係.IT is more danger than "chicks" cos 好好傾=有感情 .
Out side girl 好好傾,cos she just see one side of your husby,something really is his faith,she still agree with him,so his think she accept and underatood him,stand on his side.
U can't change the hard ware(he and she),but the sofe ware( anything u can control )
1) Out look of your family ,put the funiture in
different way... no need pay $.
2) change out look of yourself,now the cloths is
cheap!! A little make- up.
3) New order of life style.
Let him has the fresh feeling and pay attention of u anf the home
4) Try ask is he feel hard when he work outside? then just listen what he say, don't give any comment. just need listen and smile ... just follow his way,Let him feel you and him are 好好傾=有感情,
try make the eye contact!!
The WALL between u and him might fall down... will have a "break though", u might get the NEW road for you 2,
Try to imagine you are not his wife,he is not belong to u. Now u are FISHING,need keep quite and take time.