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carrieqq


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發表於 11-5-27 14:46 |只看該作者
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你見個姑娘咁惡死既, 琴日我見個姑娘好好人, 我將阿女唔識講野 、 唔識手指指、 唔識認咭d公仔等等.....全部話比姑娘聽, 佢仲話歲半者, 唔駛咁急, 仲話 “ 唉, 個個父母都想仔女係天才咩! 唔駛咁早比咭或者教佢學術性既野, 教d日常生活或者實物得架啦! ”

Final 我個女琴日肯疊3粒積木同餵姑娘食野, 但就唔識眼耳囗鼻同肚 ...... 姑娘都仍然係話唔緊要, 有d係慢d既, 2歲再檢查喎.

臨走我個女又係 bye bye +飛吻, 個姑娘仲話 " 好叻叻呀..... 你睇佢又有 eye contact 又肯玩, 邊有事吖〞 ........ 我諗我見個姑娘又太寬鬆 @@"
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ccllmama


男爵府

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發表於 11-5-27 16:09 |只看該作者
我女都係講BB話多, 但我又未太驚, 始終都係18.19M...再大少少唔得先怕...
而家我會同佢講多D野, 講故事, 沖涼又講野, 等佢吸收多D...
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yiutingmum


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發表於 11-5-27 17:05 |只看該作者
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點解健康院d姑娘標準差咁遠...
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hobby


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發表於 11-5-27 17:46 |只看該作者
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其實小朋友你叫佢講佢多數都唔講嫁啦, 但有時同佢/同其他人講嘢, 佢哋有會答到, 我小朋友返育嬰院, 老師話佢咩都識, 但就唔係講嘢 (特別你叫佢講), 但有時老師問問題, 佢又答到, "車" "船", "蛋", 不過你叫佢講多一次實唔理你, 老師都話由得佢, 唔好迫, 怕嚇親佢, 就更唔肯開口, 所以唔好因為姑娘講咩就唔開心, 我覺得你諗法正確, 應該要鼓勵, 唔係迫佢, 阿囡唔係講, 我都係叫佢點頭應我, 我覺得冇問題

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Horace_b


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好媽媽勳章


25#
發表於 11-5-27 18:38 |只看該作者
多謝各位媽媽既鼓勵. 我頭先再同老公傾番, 其實姑娘講既野係值得參考既.... 好似我地之後俾提子乾做獎勵 (我個仔好鍾意食), 要佢講張卡上面果個係「車車」, 佢最後都要勉強發個音類似我地先俾佢.... 咁就可以囉. 唔通佢唔識叫「粥粥」, 我地唔俾佢食飯咩......

我係最唔開心姑娘駛唔駛咁惡..... 我自問阿仔雖然唔係樣樣識晒, 但係都不失為一個合作既小朋友, 我地去幼兒班interview d老師都唔會咁啦. 佢又要我個仔坐定定成兩, 三個字接受佢個test, 佢拎本書 (共享育兒樂新加部分, 俾我返去睇) 出黎阿仔會揭都好正常丫, 佢又一句窒住佢, 喝佢話﹕「呢本書係媽媽既, 唔準搞!!」之後仲好醒咁同我講, 「你要俾d語氣佢, 佢先知有乜應該做, 有乜唔應該。」唉, 要大聲, 要惡對個仔我都會, 例如佢玩到真係失控, 例如佢搶小朋友玩緊既野..... 唔係係唔係都喝佢囉...

俾佢轟完我一輪, 我有諗過係咪我太就個仔, 我都唔想自己做「怪獸家長」, 我見到街d六, 七歲小朋友鬧阿爸阿媽, 我都睇唔過眼, 我都唔想自己仔女會係咁..... 不過, 我估唔係要姑娘咁先叫教掛........
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hobby


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發表於 11-5-30 11:31 |只看該作者
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我睇完你分享, 我覺得係個姑娘心情唔好多啲喎, 姑娘一俾本書我哋, (放係抬面), 講唔到2句, 阿囡都拿住打開睇, 姑娘又冇話過喎, 好似仲有話佢叻添喎, 我覺得咁細個小朋友, 佢哋對所有嘢都好有興趣, 我之前聽路得會個talk, 都話唔好要求小朋友成日坐係度, 咁會阻佢哋發展, 咁當然唔係係教la, 做父母, 可以同小朋友講, xx, 你係唔係好想睇本新書呀? 不過依家因為xxx (原因), 不如一陣先睇啦, 好唔好呀? 如果唔得, 咪再講句, xx, 你係唔係乖嘅小朋友呢? (通常佢哋會點頭) 咁再慢慢同佢講道理囉; 我囡囡就受軟唔受硬, 如果傷到親子關係仲唔好啦; 就算阿囡1日3餐奶, 姑娘話多, 要減, 我即刻同阿囡講話唔好食瞓覺前之奶, 姑娘都話唔使咁急, 慢慢"離"
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mary0109mama


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發表於 11-5-31 12:59 |只看該作者
haha 我都覺得係個姑娘心情唔令囉 but 你體諒下佢, 我個日去到健康院, 好似有十萬個bb一齊講野咁, 嘈到吖, 我諗我會癲添呀.

個d姑娘一時一樣嫁啦, 唔好咁在意.
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hung1125


複式洋房

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發表於 11-6-2 13:14 |只看該作者
我都想請教各位mama, 點教bb 學 abc, 我一想教, 我個女最多行0黎望下, 然後行開....有d朋友話應該要識lah....佢個女一歲已經識晒...我都好Discourage...
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hobby


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發表於 11-6-3 09:47 |只看該作者
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其實小朋友學識咗都唔一定會答問題, 我教囡囡方法好簡單, 真係由唱english songs 開始, 可以一齊唱, 加動作, 有時又一齊睇dvd (我覺得一齊睇好啲, 因為可以有多啲互動, 又睇到小朋友反應), 但每次睇10-20mins, 你會見到個小朋友已經開始唔習中, 聽多咗, 我就同囡囡玩cards, 係書局買, 約$20一盒個啲, 因為佢會粗暴對待, 殘咗都唔會心痛, 又會同佢玩磁石板. 分享一件趣事, 我成日都同囡囡唱abc, head & shoulders 等唱仔, 當我第一次同佢玩英文磁石板, 好快咁講1次A - Z, 講完一次, 阿同係咁拿住個 I 字, 之後玩幾次都係咁, 我就問佢, 點解成日要個I 字, 佢就指住隻眼, 我覺得好得意, 原來佢哋都有自已記嘢方法, 所以唔洗急, 依家先1.5歲, 慢慢教囉, 我又會同囡囡數數字, 因為佢好心急, 見到水果己經大叫, 我哋話要數到50先有得食, 我哋數1 2 3 4 5, 佢已經會講 6 7 8 9 (雖然之後唔識), 但我哋又返轉頭數1都唔得, 佢要我哋數11 .... 我相信只要係日常生活加多啲, 佢就都會自然學得到, no worry, 你bb都一定得, 記得唔好同人比較, 個個發展都唔同嫁
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chanchinsang


複式洋房

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發表於 11-6-18 09:00 |只看該作者
Hi all 0911 mom, very glad to see your reply and comments posting here. Sounds like what I have been going are the experience of many moms-

e.g.
- my baby does not enjoy eating since his birth. always cry and struggle
- shy but improved a lot since going to playgroup
- still don't know how to talk much
- strong will, quick template and stubborn

but the above are enough to drive me crazy...still struggling if i need to be a full time mom

can we form a group in facebook and share more often? i think we need support.

please drop me a PM if you would like to be a facebook friend and keep in touch.

Btw - I live in Tsuen Wan, you guys?

I know a playgroup in TST that is good to help us, any interest to find out and go together?
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yiutingmum


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發表於 11-6-18 18:14 |只看該作者
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你好,我facebook:[email protected],請問你話尖沙咀個playgroup型式係點?貴唔貴?不過我剛同個仔報咗樓下佢明年將會入讀pn班的班前playgroup,下個月20號起一個星期返三日..但都想知道吓詳情
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chanchinsang


複式洋房

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發表於 11-6-19 09:08 |只看該作者
oh thank you so much for your reply ar.....

i will add you to my facebook shortly.

I really want to make more friends who are on the same boat as me as I have quite a challenging child, in terms of feeding, talking, personality, etc.

Still not talking much and very difficult to feed but physically quite advanced.

Must share more and give support to each other.

I will share the link of the playgroup with you in facebook.


cheers
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