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Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

yungmum，
OK，就講講點樣同個二奶爭老公，香港老婆首先要識得忍，明知個老公有二奶你都要扮唔知，就算佢親口承認，你都要扮唔介意，只要佢重識返屋企，你要明知佢去

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Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

2005CAT 寫道:
比我就唔爭, unless the man is beckham la....

Yes!

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發表於 05-8-20 21:49 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

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claudiamother 寫道:
yungmum，
OK，就講講點樣同個二奶爭老公，香港老婆首先要識得忍，明知個老公有二奶你都要扮唔知，就算佢親口承認，你都要扮唔介意，只要佢重識返屋企，你要明知佢去

Freddie Ljungberg :-D :-D :-D

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發表於 05-8-20 21:56 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

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yungmum 寫道:
個個都話想爭當然"戰勝"得啦,爭在我地想唔想要個男人or唔會同人爭,晒精神時間...
Still only win the "尊嚴",輸husby to 二奶, 輸得尊嚴.But not take back the husby from the hand of 國內的二奶.

No one talking about the way HOW TO 同D後生又識扮可憐、用手段同爹聲爹氣的大陸女人爭 and take back the husby which belongs to u before!

I think I really need 扮可憐、用手段 in front of the man.Too strong is useless in this kind of game!
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if u really want to 同大陸女人爭, besides 扮可憐、用手段, you can also consider plastic surgery on face, breast transplant etc.
But it is only worth to do it unless the man is 碧咸.......you can see how hard victoria tried to win back the husband, but it is worth for her to do that, since her husband is beckham !

Freddie Ljungberg :-D :-D :-D

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發表於 05-8-20 22:16 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

2005CAT,

Ah ))))))))))))))

2005CAT 寫道:
if u really want to 同大陸女人爭, besides 扮可憐、用手段, you can also consider plastic surgery on face, breast transplant etc.
But it is only worth to do it unless the man is 碧咸.......you can see how hard victoria tried to win back the husband, but it is worth for her to do that, since her husband is beckham !

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發表於 05-8-21 01:10 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

男人係用身體控制佢地嘅腦袋 , 有左二奶 , 老婆就一定唔會爭 , 亦唔夠爭 (因唔夠委曲求全) , 唔想同二奶爭 , 就唔好俾機會佢試 , 一試o左 , 佢地只記得二奶點千依百順 , 點樣唯命是從 , 同埋老婆點俾面色佢睇 , 唔做家務 ... 但一定唔記得老婆點同佢埃 , 一齊同甘共苦 ,

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發表於 05-8-21 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

claudiamother ,
Agreed.

In fact ,老公一試o左二奶, 佢地只記得二奶點千依百順 , 點樣唯命是從,一定唔記得老婆點同佢埃 , 一齊同甘共苦 ....只記得老婆點俾面色佢睇 , 唔做家務 ...

香港老婆同個二奶爭老公，really要識得忍,夠委曲求全...同大陸女人鬥嗲鬥姣鬥溫柔體貼鬥時間，鬥cheap..
It's a big job.Need lose a lot of things....尊嚴.
For me I might really係為左爭贏返來然後先飛佢!
Put him to the heaven,then let him drop to the HELL,let him know he lose me,kid,family...

But we have the kid,so.I might really accept and welcome he come back home. I'll try to forgive and forget.
From the end of last year 我懷疑我老公,
Until now he still say he hasn't did the "wrong" things to me,never have "sexcel relationship" with other girl after stay with me.
I can't stop to 懷疑 again,when he come home late and no $.....
In fact ,forget is not easy.

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發表於 05-8-21 12:19 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

yungmum，
見到你有幾個topic都感覺到你同你老公相處得唔開心，而你又成日懷疑你老公對你不忠，你老公又經常為d小事去話你，你又因為有小朋友而盡量忍佢，其實你有冇唸過你

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發表於 05-8-21 12:35 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

我真的很感謝大家對這話題有這麼多的意見！

今天我很想和大家分享一下我的故事 ~ 雖然我心裡已有自己的決定，但也很想大家給我多一點意見，讓我清醒一些吧！

我和我的初戀情人兼老公一起拍拖、同居及結婚共8年啊！昔日的我，真的以為自己是個"幸福快樂小公主"！因為他真的很愛、很愛我！

可惜大約半年前，我懷疑他有外遇，而他也坦白承認了！那刻我才真正知道，夢想和現實原來相距很遠啊！現實真的很殘酷！那一刻我終於也知道，自己不再是他的最愛！不再是他的"粉紅小公主"了！

:cry:

Ming Ming ;-)

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發表於 05-8-21 13:09 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

claudiamother,
Before we have kid,we work together(use all my $ to make bussiuss and lose all $),I found he like"take the bone from the egg",He is a big man but treat me nice in front of people.
After I give birth,we close the bussiuss.no $ ,I can't help him anymore,I only be the全職媽媽.He let me from the heaven fall down to the hell,he alway suddenly very angry,hit me...
After 2 year,he start own bussiess again.he is getting better and will talk with me about his plan...
The mid of last year ,he said we might use $4k to rent the new flat and $3k for baby go K1. suddenly he said no $....and borrowed $ from the other one,need pay back $ every month.
Why? What happen at outside?woman?
When he come back at mid night he will kiss me or want the sex,just I rejected him as i'm too tire.
When 09.2004 we have the maid,I found we are
疏離.Now I have more time take care him,but he seems not need me...no more mid night kiss,I feel somethings is sharing his heart!
The end of last year,I found he might have other woman outside...he say no!
from that time I try to non stop check him and pay more attention .I try 千依百順,委曲求全,be a small woman,that 1 month our relation is better and be our sweetest time. Just 1 month!!!
Recently our relationship get worse as he sleep outside...
I talk with social worker,she say only my husby will know he has other woman or not? From the beginning he already said no other woman,
but he really has some point let me 懷疑.
I can't do anything,cos no back up.and really need a HOME!

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發表於 05-8-21 13:27 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

一定爭得贏, 兩個字"[size=large]等、忍", 如果真係做到, 個男人有朝一日一定返黎!!(當佢地山窮水盡比人一腳伸開個時, 就會諗返起你, 不過唔知要等幾耐!!)

謀事在人，成事在天，個天先係最終揸"fit"人！！

你恨的人，來生不會再見，所以別在他身上浪費時間；你愛的人，來生也不會再見，所以今生要好好對他。

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發表於 05-8-21 13:33 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

那個晚上，他向我坦白的說出一切，他的"第二最愛"是位國內女子！原來他們已認識差不多三年了！大家由好傾到有好感，然後再到追求她！他堅定的說當時大家沒有"sex"，他們只是一對紅顏知己，她不想做第三者！但他已不能自拔的愛上她了！當時的他很想回復自由身，不想再辜負和傷害我！

因此就算那天晚上不是我先發現，他也早已打算留下信，然後搬出去......這信說明我很好，我什麼也沒錯！變了的只是他！因此大家要分開，他雖然不能履行丈夫的責任，但他一定會"照顧"我的經濟和供樓的！因為我結婚後已沒有工作！

我的心很痛，真的很痛！我從來沒想過他不會愛我！我也出奇自己當時竟然沒有大吵大鬧！只是大家也流

Ming Ming ;-)

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Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

既然他不再愛我，我無謂再"痴纏"他吧！挽留過，不成功！他的心沒有多餘的位置給我了！因為傻瓜的我真的很愛他，因此便答應假裝分居兩年，申請離婚！他多麼的內疚也多麼的感激我！(下

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Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

MingMing1212,
Do u feel better now? U are very brave.I'm proud of u!

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發表於 05-8-21 15:27 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

yungmum，謝謝妳啊！

那天，他要坐飛機到南京，上機前 call me！落機見他的新歡後，又 call me！他向我 say sorry，他哭泣地說，看

Ming Ming ;-)

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發表於 05-8-21 15:35 |只看該作者

Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

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MingMing1212 寫道:
yungmum，謝謝妳啊！

那天，他要坐飛機到南京，上機前 call me！落機見他的新歡後，又 call me！他向我 say sorry，他哭泣地說，看

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Re: 大家認為香港的老婆可以"戰勝"國內的二奶嗎？

MingMing1212 ,
Too touching.It's hurt but romanic!
Is good luck u haven't the kid.
May I know the age of you,your husby and that girl? What's her job?High educated?pretty?

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