Hi, mcdullyiu, may be you can try to find a local part time maid to help out. It really can be quite exhausting and demanding looking after 2 children, plus the house work. For me, I've decided to become a full time mama later. Personally, I can't handle a toddler and housework everyday. I will go mad and angry by getting myself so busy. So I've decided to hire a bun bun.