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Lamblamb

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發表於 05-9-29 17:09 |只看該作者

Re: 被打擊餵人奶的決心

Hi Katie,

Haha. I have similar problems too.

I'm sure many 99s are like this. Really don't understand why they're so possessive and obsessive about their grandchildren!

Don't they realize that we are the mummies and it is normal that we are closest to our BBs?

Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg

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katiecheung

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發表於 05-9-29 17:23 |只看該作者

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Hi Lamblamb

我奶奶就係甘, 成日當自己講d說話啱晒, 成日霸住亞b抱, 亞b比佢抱都cry都唔放, 我叫佢唔好比凍嘢亞b食, 又話亞b大個(十二個月)乜都食得, 唔駛介口, 攪到我亞b病左, :cry:

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webjen

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發表於 05-9-29 17:55 |只看該作者

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雲的孩子都在跳舞寫道:
，我地咁辛苦照顧個ｂ，每一個ｂｂ最跟既都一定係父母架啦，而母親佔照顧時間多數，咁跟母親有何不妥呢？如果我比左咁多時間照顧佢，但佢竟然肯跟樓下個看更或者阿邊個邊個親戚，我撞頭埋牆算啦！

我都係咁話,如果我比左咁多時間心血,阿囡居然跟其他人,唔係仲有問題咩,話bb痴我地唔痴佢地的人係傻傻地o既!!

我把平安留給你們，我將我的平安賜給你們；我所賜給你們的，不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂，也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!

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bbpooh

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發表於 05-9-30 11:31 |只看該作者

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I have a smiliar experience. It really makes me unhappy. My 99 dont want me to BF. I remembered when the baby is just 1 - 2 weeks old. She asked me how frequent the baby need to eat, I said 1 -2 hours. Her feedback was I deserved for the suffering because I chose BF. I knew she want to bottle fed the baby. I remembered at that time my milk is not very good (as just started) and I need to fed the baby formula milk. She jumped up and said let her feed the baby.

I really dont understand why all 99 are possessive to the grandson. It seems that it was her son and neglect my existence. She is so unhappy to hear that the baby alike me. She must said the baby alike my husband!! She is really non-sense.

Though my situation is tough, my husband seems dont understand what is going on. He always said I "little gas". Honestly, if she said once, I think it is OK but she said everytime she saw my son. It really makes me angry. I really hate her.

I know that I must contiune BF or she will take the baby with her. She once proposed to let the baby stay with her after I back to work. However, I refused since I need to BF him at night. How come she can take the baby? She also said that she is the most qualified person to take care the baby. It is really ridiculous!

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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Lamblamb

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發表於 05-9-30 12:51 |只看該作者

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Hi bbpooh,

I fully understand how you feel coz' my situation was very similar to yours. I used to be so angry and sad - it was like she trying to steal BB away from me.

Nobody knows the answer as to why 99s are like this. Maybe it's their nature.

As for husbands, they can't fully understand us. And it's hard for them coz' they're stuck in the middle.

Nowadays, I try to ignore what my 99 says if it's something which'll hurt me. Coz' I want to stay happy at all times. Remember, your mood will be reflected in your face and your milk and this will affect your BB.

Plus, breastfed BBs are very clever. There's a strong bonding between BB and mum. Eventually, they'll know who mummy is. After I've resumed work, my 99 takes care of BB during the day. But when I return home, BB will give me a big big smile.

So try to be happy at all times. :lol: :lol:

Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg

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rainbowbb

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發表於 05-9-30 14:33 |只看該作者

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mandywan00 寫道:
esther720:

而且, bb 痴身有 mud 問題,
到佢大 d, 你想佢痴身都好難......
你反要珍惜這段日子啊!

Totally agree as my bb likes to attach to her grandpa rather than me :-(

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bbpooh

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發表於 05-9-30 17:24 |只看該作者

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Lamblamb,

Thanks! In order to maintain the milk supply, I need to ignore what 99 said. I must keep on BF as it is the best food for my baby. Yes! I must keep happy all the time as nobody can susbtitue our relationship!!

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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centre

複式洋房

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發表於 05-10-1 00:29 |只看該作者

Re: 被打擊餵人奶的決心

我亞女14個月大了,我99見到都仲係問緊同樣問題,不過,因為我地關係一向ok,我覺得冇禁難受.中秋節果日,佢又問,我支支吾吾,遊下花園,洒佢了事.我覺得可以的話就同99保持良好關係,我覺得大部份99認為我地後生,唔識野,好多時擺99款囉.不過,冇可口非0既,佢覺得我地搶左佢個寶貝仔.易地而處,佢同我地一樣付出左好多先揍大我地老公,算啦!唔好嬲壞自己,做個開心媽咪