hi,晟媽,
雖然我無乜點因工人同阿媽鬧交,但我看見你和你阿媽的事,真是感同身受,因為我阿媽同你阿媽的性格好似!
佢又是一個極權又敏感的人,當初我結婚時,因她不喜歡我老公,雖然佢都係為我將來担心,唔想我捱苦,但佢居然對我說,話我結婚就會走上絕路.我真係好hurt.
之後我生了bb,又有一輪同佢搞到好唔愉快.佢話佢對我好但我唔領情.其實我知佢對我好,但佢樣樣都會話晒事,好難頂.
我的應對方法是,佢有佢講,自己聽過就算,或扯開話題.因為她這種人,同佢講道理佢唔會同意,同佢吵佢會更火,只有由得佢講,講完當無事. 咁佢下次又會再鬧過,你唔好答嘴,咁佢又快些講完,雖然好似播帶咁鬧唔停,都好過同佢吵,因為佢會話你不孝,如果咁講,自己又唔開心.
this is my experience, i think it's the best way until one day she leaves herself.