One of my best friends is exactly in the same case. He is/was an extremely good husband and responsible father. He loved and missed his wife and children so much, and repeatedly requested and BEGGED his wife to live with him in PRC (their children have grown up and already studying in university).
But his wife loves the life of western country (they immigrated to western country years ago) and turned him down again and again. Finally, my friend has affairs with his secretary after working in PRC for about 3 years. He frankly admitted that he is now seriously considering to divorce his wife, as he has determined to live permantly in PRC .
it looks terrible. Why men have to find another one when the wife is not with him? Can't they live alone and respect the marriage? Why it is always the wife who need to give up everything? :evil:
just curious why you still failed to keep your husband even though you gave up everthing in HK and went along with your husband? Did those Mainland gals do anything terrible or it is just too naive to think the hubby would well behave if there is a wife nearby? Please advise..I think your experience is good for reference, can you share with us? :cry:
You shall discuss with your husband, I don't suggest you live in China because you have child and your husband work in Shenzhen is close to HK (if he work in Shanghai I may suggest you go), it takes 1 hour toback to HK, there is no reason to come back HK in every 2 weeks. Be careful ...
My husband work in Gungdong from Mon to Sat, it take 2 hours to HK, he will back to HK in Wednesday in his own travel cost.
My husband work in China this year, he told me that there are many "kwok kwok" and some colleagues has "二奶", most are no "感情"
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