me too ..... my daughter is 3+ and my son is 1+.
it's very difficult to hire a maid. my maid just came to my house for two mths. she is Indo and 'break contract'!now so far ok,becoz she just do all the housework(cleaning),boil bb's congee,take care my son (just feeding,bathing,playing),almost all others thing I will do it by myself or sometimes she will assist!